The thing is, Demi has always stuck with what’s familiar. Anything that requires personal effort is almost impossible for her: learn to cook? Learn to speak English? Learn to use Google? Learn what plant-based means? Learn that effort brings the possibility of great reward?
But because she has no imagination and limited intelligence, she just can’t manage. Her entire home has been manufactured from what she sees on Pinterest or Instagram; she tries to dress like she’s at least 3 sizes smaller than she is; she has no hobbies or interests. The list goes on.
She’s just stuck in this cycle of what is her reality and comfort zone (doing not much, being bored, filling the void by overeating and impulse-buying cheap tat), and this awareness that her life is really very superficial (so she tries to remedy this with these big ideas that she nabs from other influencers, like she wants to live in the country, live in a van, she’s body positive, she wants to be minimalistic. Funny as well how all of these ideas contradict how she actually is).
Also, just saying, but narcissists often have difficulty with their self-identity
But because she has no imagination and limited intelligence, she just can’t manage. Her entire home has been manufactured from what she sees on Pinterest or Instagram; she tries to dress like she’s at least 3 sizes smaller than she is; she has no hobbies or interests. The list goes on.
She’s just stuck in this cycle of what is her reality and comfort zone (doing not much, being bored, filling the void by overeating and impulse-buying cheap tat), and this awareness that her life is really very superficial (so she tries to remedy this with these big ideas that she nabs from other influencers, like she wants to live in the country, live in a van, she’s body positive, she wants to be minimalistic. Funny as well how all of these ideas contradict how she actually is).
Also, just saying, but narcissists often have difficulty with their self-identity