Thankyou, these are really helpful pieces of advice.Interviews can be very difficult even when you are in a good place mentally. Ask yourself why it went terribly without beating yourself up. Be objective, and look for ways you can better prepare next time.
Sometimes it’s just not your fault and the lack of connection with the interviewer or the vibe they put out can make you needlessly feel badly about yourself. Try to put a bit of a wall up to that, it’s not personal! Some interviewers are power tripping and enjoy making people squirm. See past that. You are qualified and a great potential employee otherwise you wouldn’t be sitting there.
A few things that may help in the future…
* practice answering sample questions, there is a lot of guidance online on how to answer well. Repeat until the answers come easily
* remind yourself that yes you are being interviewed but you’re also there to see if they are a good fit for you. Takes some pressure off as the focus isn’t just on your performance. Have some questions you can ask the interviewer at the end (again, there are examples online of what is appropriate to ask, such as “what’s your favourite thing about working here?” Or “what is the work dynamic here, is it more independent or collaborative?” )
*when you first meet and if you’re feeling visibly nervous, let them know. Don’t dwell, but just say I apologize if I sound nervous. I am excited for this opportunity so thank you for having me.
*it can feel demoralizing to have rejection after an interview, but remember that many people get interviewed and more people get rejected than accepted. It’s not personal and it’s not just you who feels nervous or upset by the process. It’s hard but the more interviews you have, the better you become at them.
However, after crying all afternoon thinking it was a terrible interview. I GOT THE JOB
I’m more happy about the fact I won’t need to attend any interviews anytime soon rather then the fact I got the job