Dating in Lockdown #2 The audacity of men

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They See Me Trolling...

They See Me Trolling...

I’m new to the thread, possible posted on the 1st one... but I’m just so fed up with it all! I feel like I never get anywhere at all. I match with loads on tinder and either never hear from them or I message them and get nothing back. I just don’t get it? I understand we all accidentally match people sometimes but I just unmatch, why don’t they?

I’m 32, I’m a big girl (not saying that as a negative, I am fairly body positive but I am aware at a size 24 I’m not everyone’s cup of tea just as they aren’t mine) but I just want to find someone interested! I’ve found it makes no difference whether I have lots of info on my profile or blank, it currently says very little. The ones I do match with and get a reply from it’s a couple of small talk messages then nothing. I just don’t get what’s wrong at all 😭

Sorry, I am having a little pity party today but I just feel so lonely and fed up.

I am on tinder, bumble, hinge and Facebook dating. Was on POF but hidden my account as I hate the constant “person X is live in your area”. I even have a profile on a very different site which is designed for casual sex as I am down for that too and not getting very far. I do differentiate the two, tinder etc is dating (absolutely no ONS etc) and this other site is for sex only (pref regular, again no ONS). I just don’t understand why it is so difficult.

I’m a nice person, early 30s, I’m an alright looking girl, no baggage at all. WHY IS THIS SO F*CKING HARD?
 
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realhousewivewannabe

realhousewivewannabe

misscl4 said:
I can’t stand tattoos to be honest, one or two is fine but I dated it a guy with a tattoo with the devil from Insidious on his chest and he thought it looked good!
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i can confirm... from the ones I saw they were hideous, I don’t know if I like tattoos if I’m honest but I’m not opposed to them. I think like them to have meaning not just random scrawlings. When guys have their own name on them it gives me the ick. Why?! You forgetting it?

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I don’t have much advice as you can see from my own posts I don’t have it all together but you’re in the right place sending ❤
 
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twinkleunicorn

I can’t stand bare chest pics! Also I was chatting to a lovely guy in his 40’s, I’m also in my 40’s, who then said he’d like children. Well sorry mate but I told you my womb is closed for business! I suggested he set his search age 10 years younger!
 
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alwayslurkin

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loool I mean he is not wrong but is this seriously all the banter the guy has

honestly I don't know you lot do this, I'm cringing
 
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realhousewivewannabe

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@LaurieLaurie the audacity of guys that do super like and expect you to talk is RIDICULOUS. I hate being super liked, it gives me the ick and I won’t talk to them 🤣😅 if we match.Who does he think he is. Ps mafs was my favourite thing in lockdown. 🤩
 
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D_Wills

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Hey guys! Hope it's OK to join you, I think I probably commented a couple of times on the first thread!
Currently being ghosted by someone I've been seeing for 4 months. Haven't heard from him since Tuesday. He's ignored 2 texts and 2 phone calls. I'm not making myself look like a twit by wasting any more time trying to work out what the hell has happened. The crappy thing is we'd finally met each others children and had a really nice family day out like 2 weeks ago. Tbh I didn't even like him that much, he was stunningly hot but he only cared about himself and he was tit in bed, but its the rejection...ohhh the rejection!! 😭😭
 
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LaurieLaurie

realhousewivewannabe said:
@LaurieLaurie the audacity of guys that do super like and expect you to talk is RIDICULOUS. I hate being super liked, it gives me the ick and I won’t talk to them 🤣😅 if we match.Who does he think he is. Ps mafs was my favourite thing in lockdown. 🤩
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I’ll talk but when it suits me, I swipe and throw my phone down and get on with my day. I cannot stand people who think you have to be available to them and then moan when you don’t reply instantly.
(It was Tinder for the poster who asked)

D_Wills said:
Hey guys! Hope it's OK to join you, I think I probably commented a couple of times on the first thread!
Currently being ghosted by someone I've been seeing for 4 months. Haven't heard from him since Tuesday. He's ignored 2 texts and 2 phone calls. I'm not making myself look like a twit by wasting any more time trying to work out what the hell has happened. The crappy thing is we'd finally met each others children and had a really nice family day out like 2 weeks ago. Tbh I didn't even like him that much, he was stunningly hot but he only cared about himself and he was tit in bed, but its the rejection...ohhh the rejection!! 😭😭
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Oh no. Don’t give him anymore contact as hard as it is.
 
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sleepflowers

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Today's superlike horror. You think that's enough to impress me IAN?

I don't think I've had a single superlike from someone I'd actually be interested in
 
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twinkleunicorn

D_Wills said:
Hey guys! Hope it's OK to join you, I think I probably commented a couple of times on the first thread!
Currently being ghosted by someone I've been seeing for 4 months. Haven't heard from him since Tuesday. He's ignored 2 texts and 2 phone calls. I'm not making myself look like a twit by wasting any more time trying to work out what the hell has happened. The crappy thing is we'd finally met each others children and had a really nice family day out like 2 weeks ago. Tbh I didn't even like him that much, he was stunningly hot but he only cared about himself and he was tit in bed, but its the rejection...ohhh the rejection!! 😭😭
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The bastard 😕
 
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chanandlerbong

chanandlerbong

D_Wills said:
Hey guys! Hope it's OK to join you, I think I probably commented a couple of times on the first thread!
Currently being ghosted by someone I've been seeing for 4 months. Haven't heard from him since Tuesday. He's ignored 2 texts and 2 phone calls. I'm not making myself look like a twit by wasting any more time trying to work out what the hell has happened. The crappy thing is we'd finally met each others children and had a really nice family day out like 2 weeks ago. Tbh I didn't even like him that much, he was stunningly hot but he only cared about himself and he was tit in bed, but its the rejection...ohhh the rejection!! 😭😭
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What a knob. He'll definitely be back though. Likely with a sob story excuse :rolleyes: then you can ghost him ☺
 
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Thank(space)you

Thank(space)you

I'm perpetually unlucky in love, but my best friend is going on date number 2 with a guy she seems really keen on. She met him through tinder, I'm keeping my fingers crossed as she wears her heart on her sleeve.
 
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ispywithmylittleeye59

D_Wills said:
Hey guys! Hope it's OK to join you, I think I probably commented a couple of times on the first thread!
Currently being ghosted by someone I've been seeing for 4 months. Haven't heard from him since Tuesday. He's ignored 2 texts and 2 phone calls. I'm not making myself look like a twit by wasting any more time trying to work out what the hell has happened. The crappy thing is we'd finally met each others children and had a really nice family day out like 2 weeks ago. Tbh I didn't even like him that much, he was stunningly hot but he only cared about himself and he was tit in bed, but its the rejection...ohhh the rejection!! 😭😭
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Ugh just block him! Ghosting says a lot about him and is not in any way your fault 💕 Gosh I really do hate men.
 
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