Yeah he needs to be on Fetlife which might cater his needs betterHere are 2 lovely ones from me (yes they made my ick list which is now at 41 - I haven’t been swiping as much)
I think one his wife may have found his profile and changed it hence the bio.
The second one - I aren’t kink shaming, you do you but I’m sure there are more appropriate sites for it than tinder? It just gives me the ick to not be on a kink specific dating app when they exist