I thought everyone did this? I am forensic. Lets just pretend I didn't accidently click and 'heart' my ex boyfriends ex wife's picture on Instagram ok? Do you still want to set up that agency @realhousewivewannabe?
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Also, I need tattles help please
I don't know if I'm just overthinking and looking for problems where there is none but here goes:
- he barely messages me throughout the day anymore
- he only calls me when he's out, never when he's home
- I only ever see him in the evening, we never spend the day together
He doesn't have social media so I can't stalk
Also, I need tattles help please
I don't know if I'm just overthinking and looking for problems where there is none but here goes:- he barely messages me throughout the day anymore
- he only calls me when he's out, never when he's home
- I only ever see him in the evening, we never spend the day together
He doesn't have social media so I can't stalk
Re thread titles: I had a suggestion a few pages ago -
Keep your breadcrumbs, we aren't pigeons
Keep your breadcrumbs, we aren't pigeons
I think that’s what I’m doing especially with the 8 years of history! Just not used to how forward he is, the last time someone did that they love bombed then gas lit me so I’m feeling a bit guarded I think…
What happens when you like them and see something you don’t like? 
Ignorance is bliss.
Ignorance is bliss.Hm, do you suspect he is living with someone?Also, I need tattles help please
- he barely messages me throughout the day anymore
- he only calls me when he's out, never when he's home
- I only ever see him in the evening, we never spend the day together
He doesn't have social media so I can't stalk
Why don't you suggest to meet for lunch or a walk or an exhibition or something like that during the day? And then watch how he reacts?
It was going so well initially!
Im terrible if I get the ick or something I don’t like I’m instantly put off and never get it back againWhat happens when you like them and see something you don’t like?
Once I remember I was chatting with this guy for a while, I really fancied him. Then saw on his Insta that he'd shaved his head. The crush was GONE into the bin with his hairWhat happens when you like them and see something you don’t like?
I'm the same!! Hair is a big thing for me lol
I am struggling a bit with Hinge just because of the two married men in a row situation and the last one I really did like so feel almost reboundy?
I'm seeing him Saturday night so I'm going to suggest a meal and a bottle of wine. He's staying over so will suggest we spend the day together Sunday.
Is he not just working during the day usually? Still early days so it wouldn’t pick up as a red flag to me. Once men start to feel settled the constant texting chills a bit I think, doesn’t mean anything is wrong.
He
And he's just called me to cancel meeting tonight
He is working but he still used to message me loads throughout the day. I've had 3 messages today.
And he's just called me to cancel meeting tonight
Why did he cancel?He
He is working but he still used to message me loads throughout the day. I've had 3 messages today.
And he's just called me to cancel meeting tonight
I’m exactly the same and I hate it
It’s like a switch has been flicked in my head and once it’s gone, it’s gone. I’ve literally just binned one off in the last week that I really fancied and really got on with because he told me something that’s a relatively small problem now, but I know the longer I continued seeing him, the more it would bother me, so may as well pull the plug
Now I’m like “Whyyyyy couldn’t you have just buried your head in the sand for a few more weeks woman, he was hot” 
My friends: “But what if he..?”
Me: “No”
My friends: “Well can’t you just…?”
Me: “Nooooooope”
I’m hopeless
I'd like to know more!I once had a date that lasted all of 19 minutes
Flat tyre which he realised when he had driven to the shop.
I said it's fine and played it cool, but then he sent me a picture of his tyre pressure. I asked why he sent that and he said in case I thought he was lying. Which I think seems very odd?
Keep it cool by saying ill see you another time and leave it at that for tonight.
One time I farted during sex with a guy I'd been seeing for three months and I think he got the ick and that's what ended us
I’ve vaguely mentioned it as with a South African so I now always swipe left for them because I’m convinced the entire nation hate me.
I arrived at 6pm and saw him, didn’t particularly fancy him but I tend to get on with everyone so thought i’ll have a couple of drinks and meet someone new. He went to the bar and got me a drink (that probably took at least three of the 19 minutes!), then we talked about our jobs and a festival I’d just been to and then he just said ‘I’m going to be honest, I’m really not feeling you. You’re really not my type’. I was so humiliated I basically had my coat on before he’d finished the sentence and chugged my wine and darted out the bar blocking his number on the way out,
The only positive was that I’d only gone on the date because I was trying to keep my options open and not put all my eggs in the basket of a gorgeous welsh man I’d been dating. I rang my sister at 6.20 (which is how I know it lasted exactly 19 minutes) and said to her at dating was soul destroying and all eggs were going firmly in the Welshmans basket and he and Iwere together for 5 years after that!
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