Yeah she kind of kept that quiet - I'm on both sides now; I can understand his point of view but I haven't asked for details (not my buisness but here I am writing about it on tattle) - apparentley the last one she sent said just said goodnight baby and he said 'stop, my son saw that'. She sent an apology early in the morning hoping only he would see it but hes been silent since.With more context I can understand why he wouldn't want her texting those sorts of things if his son can see.
Although I don't understand why he streams from his phone to the TV if he is that worried.
I think calling men who aren't your dad "daddy" is an ick but also why would she be using that term in a nonsexual context? It doesn't make sense to me. Is she saying things like "want me to pick up some semi skimmed milk on the way home daddy?"
The daddy ones and the nailing one, I can’t understand. But this one…I sort of feel like that isn’t that bad.Yeah she kind of kept that quiet - I'm on both sides now; I can understand his point of view but I haven't asked for details (not my buisness but here I am writing about it on tattle) - apparentley the last one she sent said just said goodnight baby and he said 'stop, my son saw that'. She sent an apology early in the morning hoping only he would see it but hes been silent since.
I would suggest taking her out and getting drunk but she doesnt even drink!
It's the silent treatment bit for meThe daddy ones and the nailing one, I can’t understand. But this one…I sort of feel like that isn’t that bad.
Has he not told his son about her? And how old is the kid?
If he’s that stressed out over it, maybe he needs to mute her chat when his kid is around - this doesn’t stop their communication but would allow him control over the messages being seen. However, I am pretty skeptical of the situation as a whole…why link his phone up with a risk of messages coming through/being seen?
Is this a short term thing if they’re newly dating or is there a reason he doesn’t want his child knowing he’s dating someone? Is it deffo because of his kid and not someone else in his life? There are a lot of questions here and I’d would just bow out because it sounds like a lot of hassle/rules in something that’s meant to be fun/enjoyable
I have no idea if the son has been told; theyve known each other for 18 months and have been on and off from what I can gather its very much on his terms, shes shown me some texts as Im getting quite worried about the situation now. He seems to really actually like her but had lots of personal problems. I think the kid is about 12 or 13, Im actually not sure as she is claiming up about it nowThe daddy ones and the nailing one, I can’t understand. But this one…I sort of feel like that isn’t that bad.
Has he not told his son about her? And how old is the kid?
If he’s that stressed out over it, maybe he needs to mute her chat when his kid is around - this doesn’t stop their communication but would allow him control over the messages being seen. However, I am pretty skeptical of the situation as a whole…why link his phone up with a risk of messages coming through/being seen?
Is this a short term thing if they’re newly dating or is there a reason he doesn’t want his child knowing he’s dating someone? Is it deffo because of his kid and not someone else in his life? There are a lot of questions here and I’d would just bow out because it sounds like a lot of hassle/rules in something that’s meant to be fun/enjoyable
I'm confused why he doesn't have his notifications silenced or on preview only where you can only see So and so - 2 messages. Or have the chat muted?Yeah she kind of kept that quiet - I'm on both sides now; I can understand his point of view but I haven't asked for details (not my buisness but here I am writing about it on tattle) - apparentley the last one she sent said just said goodnight baby and he said 'stop, my son saw that'. She sent an apology early in the morning hoping only he would see it but hes been silent since.
I would suggest taking her out and getting drunk but she doesnt even drink!
Why is she dating him, what does she get out of it? Because, from the sound of it, she is his free sex doll, who can't even send a 'goodnight baby' text. Sounds like a fun and fullfilling 'relationship'. I'm gonna bet he is dating someone else (or trying to) and keeping your friend as a back up.I have no idea if the son has been told; theyve known each other for 18 months and have been on and off from what I can gather its very much on his terms
My friend has been dating someone on and off for 1 year. Hes not talking to her because sometimes when she texts him, he is streaming something from his phone to his TV and his son sees her texts. From what I here, there mostly innocent and not complete filth.
She says never has any way of knowing if hes doing this (unless he tells her not to text), or knowing if his son is holding his phone but somehow its her fault he reads them and despite apoligising, she is in the doghouse and he hasnt spoken to her for most of this week.
Is it me being unreasonable and not appreciating his perspective and getting riled on her behave on this or is it utterly batshit?
That makes sense as it's a photo that can be seen over someone's shoulder or something without even trying. It takes a little more effort to see someone's text.I would say other side you do have to think about what situation the people you’re texting are in.
I got a surprise tattoo near my breast a few weeks ago and was excited to show the person I’m with. But I sent it with a big DONT OPEN AROUND OTHER PEOPLE straight after so that he knew it was definitely a his eyes only situation.
But I still think she can’t walk on eggshells like this. The expected norm is that phones are private and like other people have said most of us are sensible enough to turn previews off. He can have boundaries but it’s on him to set them.
I wish I had the confidence to do this, being asked out as a joke as a teenager has scarred meSeen an attractive guy on my walk home, asked if he was single & he was so I asked for his number & he gave it to me!
To me it's a huge red flag. Why won't he be a decent parent a buy a freaking roku or something to stream content to the tv instead of using his cellphone if he is so "worried"? Also after 18 months it sounds strange a 12-13 year old cannot know his dad has a gf?I have no idea if the son has been told; theyve known each other for 18 months and have been on and off from what I can gather its very much on his terms, shes shown me some texts as Im getting quite worried about the situation now. He seems to really actually like her but had lots of personal problems. I think the kid is about 12 or 13, Im actually not sure as she is claiming up about it now
Love this! I find it so encouraging when I hear about people approaching others in public.Seen an attractive guy on my walk home, asked if he was single & he was so I asked for his number & he gave it to me!
It's very unlike me but I've seen him before & said if I saw him again I'd just go for it. He's messaged as well so that's a good sign. Just need to not be delulu and convince myself he's my soul mate hahaI wish I had the confidence to do this, being asked out as a joke as a teenager has scarred me
I don't know. I'm sad for her. She seems invested.To me it's a huge red flag. Why won't he be a decent parent a buy a freaking roku or something to stream content to the tv instead of using his cellphone if he is so "worried"? Also after 18 months it sounds strange a 12-13 year old cannot know his dad has a gf?
Can I ask for a step by step tutorial please?Seen an attractive guy on my walk home, asked if he was single & he was so I asked for his number & he gave it to me!
I'd seem him a couple of times in passing around town and told myself if I see him again I'm gonna speak to himCan I ask for a step by step tutorial please?
What was your thought process and what were the exact words you used?
Have you locked eyes before you went up to him?
I need this for myself
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