I agr
he is deleted from my phone now. No point rubbing salt in a wound.
I agree with this. When it happened to me, I waited a week (excruciating) and then sent " Hi I'm sorry you didn't feel like you could tell me you no longer wanted to talk to me. If our connection is broken then I wish you all the best for the future. Take care of yourself" That was it. He blocked me from that phone. I was always open I had two phones. One for work & family etc. The other for the apps. Many times I kicked myself for sending it but now I like to think it conveyed Yes, I'm done with this too. I never blocked him. Maybe a year later I saw I was unblocked but I never contacted him again, never looked at IG and I'm not on FB. Some days I still feel the hurt, sometimes anger but what can you do really? It happened and now it's over. I just go with the feelings and say ok feel this but don't hang on to it. There are so many nicer emotions around the corner@Thank(space)you its time to stand in your power and take back co tool of the situation. He’s messed you around so much, and clearly isn’t communicating in a way which you need.
I’d say something like “I’ve been thinking about our situation and it’s not working for me. No hard feelings - have a great summer.”
Don’t block, just delete his number so he does t think you feel hard done by.
Then move on. Don’t reply to him, just keep reminding yourself he’s just not for you.
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