Haha ok ok I love being a block warrior on this post but you’ve called me out for archiving the chatMen see us as what not who. It's what we can do for them, not who is she. Which is HIL! Arious! because the moment a woman even whispers that she wants a man who's simply financially stable (literally just not in money troubles and can pay for himself) they all start crying
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General post, not directed at Miss Peace.
This thread is notorious for archiving and not deleting chats. I don't understand! What are you holding on to? You're keeping yourself attached to these men! Delete the chat! The delete button is free. I PROMISE you, it's in your best interest regardless if some of you might say "but i'm not that bothered, i want to keep the memories etc" ... you're talking about him on this thread? hello and we all know why archiving is the preferred method. it's "just in case" they message again. of course they will, but not for reasons you wish, men can smell opportunities for an ego boost and will take it.
don't! let! yourself! be! a! boost!
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you deserve this!🫶
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And that's the long and short of it.don’t engage anymore, you know he has a girlfriend and you’re gaining nothing by being involved.
It takes balls to put something like that on a profile. But you know what? At least we can see what he really wants, decide that it is not for us and ignore him. I wish more men were honest like that. It would make things wayyyyyy easier for everyone.
She is so annoying (the podcast host) but she's absolutely right.
I have to drop this here… it was an eye opener for me to say the least!!!!! This podcast is VERY American which I know can grate (and the first 13 mins is blowjob advice) but I beg everyone to listen from 15:30 onwards. Her advice is spot on. SIDENOTE it’s very crude
“i don’t have another talking stage left in me” really hit hometo you @TillyMiffin
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That grim guy on Tinder. Absolutely nothing on my profile suggests I would welcome that kind of approach. What is going through his head?!
Relating hard to this post today
I don’t know who this is but I hate this idea that women get judged whatever they do and other women make women feel bad or put them downHas anyone seen the drama with the creator of the group leaving her 13 year old son with his dad so she can go travelling for 3 months?
Probably best to just enjoy your remaining time together then call it a day and stop all contactHi all,
I'm really not sure if this is the right thread to ask for advice here.
I am new to this thread, I have stalked it a few times but never contributed to the discussion.
I am in desperate need of some advice, I have turned to my friends but It would also be great to have some opinions from tattlers.
I met an Australian boy on Tinder 4 months ago, he moved to the UK with the intention of staying for a few years and it has been a great 4 months, I have never felt so secure when dating and we have had a very healthy 'Relationship'. His mental health was starting to go down the drain and he has been very open with these discussions with me for the past month and a half about moving back to Australia and I definitely support his decision as I want nothing but the best for him, his flight is in 2 weeks.
We are/was exclusively dating which we both agreed on, I know he likes me and he has expressed me visiting Australia and has said he will miss me etc, I am seeing him tonight and next weekend as I am out of the country from tomorrow for the next 6 days so I am unable to see him in between.
I am still trying to workout my feelings but do I ask him tonight how he truly feels about me or wait till next weekend? A part of me really wants to know but I am also nervous to ask.
If you guys was in my situation, would you have the discussion tonight?
Just say "friend". They usually don't care enough to ask more questions.Can I quickly ask a bit of an ethical question. If you’re seeing two people (very early dating for both- one seen on Sunday for the first time and one today for the first time, but both would like to meet again this weekend ), and they ask what are you doing on ‘x’ day, should you remain vague and say you’re just seeing a friend, and not on another date? There’s been no physical contact with either apart from hello/goodbye hugs, and I don’t tend to sleep with anyone until I’ve known them for a good few months and exclusivity has been established. Is honesty the best policy, or just see how things go as things could naturally fade out with both of them, and I’m needlessly feeling a little guilty?
Wow. Firstly Birkenstocks are cool. Secondly, who mocks someone for what they wear? Sure do it behind their backs but he’s just cheap and tacky going for that low blow.Hey all not sure if you remember me? Anyway thought this all might make you smile- my latest dating disasterlove how I need to address my work life Balance but also not sure who else is paying my bills?
someone has to keep me in Birkenstocks
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I LOVE this! Go get em girl! Have the best nightI'm getting my hair done in the morning, then off out Friday night to hopefully snog a few strangers![]()
They really don’t. I’ve actually been talking about this to the match made guy I mentioned above. My last 3 boyfriends all proclaimed they loved “strong women” (I suppose id fall in that category at a push - single mum, own business, own my home, invested a lot into myself through therapy etc) until you are strong, then they don’t like boundaries.I actually find it quite weird that is appears majority of men don’t want a woman that has a her shit together?? It’s bizarre.
Yep! I dated a self-described nice guy (it was on his dating profile). Turned out he was an alcoholic, he would get drunk and then argue with me over factual things to do with my field of work (not his field), and then cry. The last time I asked him to leave (he was at my house) he drove home after a whole bottle of wine, then sent a lengthy message saying he’s just a nice guy and he doesn’t know why I don’t see that.@al255 Well-done for seeing the signs and for trusting yourself x
As an aside, what’s everyone’s experience with self-confessed ‘nice guys’? On the two occasions where they described themselves as a ‘nice guy’, they were anything but….
THIS is why i don't give a fuck about putting disclaimers like "not all men ofc" "this might sound sexist but" nah fuck off when would a woman ever say something as horrific like that let alone put it in her fucking bio (esp when majority of rapes are committed by men against women. i hope he drops dead im not even fucking joking. i'm revolted)went on hinge, saw a guy who had his job title as “full time rapist”, reported his profile, left hinge![]()
I am also single & child free and I look at it differently- think of how lucky we are to have all this free time! My mum friends are quite jealousI’m single and child free and really worried about keeping myself entertained in the evenings when the clocks change next week. I’ve really enjoyed being able to hibernate and heal all winter, but the thought of the weather getting nicer and me being stuck with no one to hang out with is making me feel really anxious. What do you guys do with your evenings? I’ve made my own situation worse by rescuing a reactive dog who I adore but who is difficult to walk in public, especially alone 🥲