This thread has inspired me to delete a lot of my non-active chats, not just with leftover men who have been sticking around as penpals of sorts, but also with toxic friends I no longer want in my life. Feels so liberating
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@TheTinyHuman, I’m going to echo what other posters have said — please don’t be so hard on yourself and take a deep breath. It seems to me like you are overthinking even the smallest things— and I know this feeling well as a fellow overthinker
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From what you’ve written, there are no obvious red flags here — could it be that you start analysing and overthinking when you feel stressed or insecure? I had a similar episode when I was looking for a job, a bit of a different situation, I know, but the frustration was similar. It later turned out that I was just too stressed and basically making mountains out of molehills. Anyway, the things you have mentioned in your post don’t seem like indicators of anything bad to me, so please don’t torture yourself with negative thought.
It looks like you’ve made the right decision
If it’s just a phone call with no video, it feels kind of old-fashioned and unnecessary? I remember one app guy trying to call me without my consent, I ended up answering but it didn’t help him in any way because I binned him after the (rather crappy) date
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I know I’m picky though!