Bit odd that he would tell you he’s doing it if you’re now chatting on textRight, I'm probably over thinking but:
Chatting to a guy on tinder, he gave me his number pretty much when we first started talking, I said I don't give out my number straight away so I'd prefer to keep chatting on the app. This was Monday.
He's messaged last night saying he's resetting his tinder.
Now, I only reset tinder if I'm not talking to anyone or I get rid if I'm dating someone. Seems weird to me that he's resetting it (which means we may not match again if our profiles don't come up) so I just find it odd he's resetting when we've been chatting?
Oh sorry you didn’t swap numbers ignore me! Didn’t read properly, it’s still earlyBit odd that he would tell you he’s doing it if you’re now chatting on textunless he didn’t want you to think he’s deleted you off it?
I think he’s trying to force your hand into you giving him your number despite you setting that boundary. Bin him off - if he wanted to speak to you, he’d respect what you’ve said and continue talking on the appRight, I'm probably over thinking but:
Chatting to a guy on tinder, he gave me his number pretty much when we first started talking, I said I don't give out my number straight away so I'd prefer to keep chatting on the app. This was Monday.
He's messaged last night saying he's resetting his tinder.
Now, I only reset tinder if I'm not talking to anyone or I get rid if I'm dating someone. Seems weird to me that he's resetting it (which means we may not match again if our profiles don't come up) so I just find it odd he's resetting when we've been chatting?
This! He's pushing you to give him your digits. Bin himI think he’s trying to force your hand into you giving him your number despite you setting that boundary. Bin him off - if he wanted to speak to you, he’d respect what you’ve said and continue talking on the app
Lol. And you know they have most likely sent this same message to multiple people. It's cringe, isn't it.View attachment 1978910Why do I always get the messages like this? A "I also love oatly" would be enough
Always listen to your niggles.Right, I'm probably over thinking but:
Chatting to a guy on tinder, he gave me his number pretty much when we first started talking, I said I don't give out my number straight away so I'd prefer to keep chatting on the app. This was Monday.
He's messaged last night saying he's resetting his tinder.
Now, I only reset tinder if I'm not talking to anyone or I get rid if I'm dating someone. Seems weird to me that he's resetting it (which means we may not match again if our profiles don't come up) so I just find it odd he's resetting when we've been chatting?
I think you are overthinking and too invested in what he's doing. My response would've been " ok, hope it gets sorted for you ". Some of them like to 'blame ' technology when you don't join in the game they are playing, the oh the app is playing up is right up there with the my nan is in hospital excuse!Right, I'm probably over thinking but:
Chatting to a guy on tinder, he gave me his number pretty much when we first started talking, I said I don't give out my number straight away so I'd prefer to keep chatting on the app. This was Monday.
He's messaged last night saying he's resetting his tinder.
Now, I only reset tinder if I'm not talking to anyone or I get rid if I'm dating someone. Seems weird to me that he's resetting it (which means we may not match again if our profiles don't come up) so I just find it odd he's resetting when we've been chatting?
I agree with this advice. Someone tried a pressure tactic on me before. Asked for my number and gave me his, because he was “deleting the app that day”. Crack on I thought. What an arse - this was the second time he’d approached me on different apps. He obviously had the charisma of a slug if he couldn’t find a way to chat, build up a rapport, and eventually ask for my number like a normal person!I think you are overthinking and too invested in what he's doing. My response would've been " ok, hope it gets sorted for you ". Some of them like to 'blame ' technology when you don't join in the game they are playing, the oh the app is playing up is right up there with the my nan is in hospital excuse!
Let him crack on !
you've already said it, it's a fling!I am still intensely struggling with the terminology of having a fling with someone that much younger than me.
There's an extra complication, because my ex was very rough with me a few years ago (reason why I left him) I am finding it very painful to have sex. We haven't managed it yet. I don't know if it's physical or psychological but have booked appointment with GP which will be intensely embarrassingyou've already said it, it's a fling!
I’m so sorry you went through this, but the GP will understand and I hope they help you. Don’t be embarrassed, you’ve done nothing wrong xThere's an extra complication, because my ex was very rough with me a few years ago (reason why I left him) I am finding it very painful to have sex. We haven't managed it yet. I don't know if it's physical or psychological but have booked appointment with GP which will be intensely embarrassing
This hurts my heart, I'm so sorry.There's an extra complication, because my ex was very rough with me a few years ago (reason why I left him) I am finding it very painful to have sex. We haven't managed it yet. I don't know if it's physical or psychological but have booked appointment with GP which will be intensely embarrassing
Personally I don’t kiss on a first date (I have done & more haha) - but this is just a little boundary of mine I put in place as I got a bit older so I wouldn’t take it as a bad thing if you haven’t.Hey ladies, I’ve started dating again after having a year off the apps (felt great for it!) but just wondering, do you think it’s a bad sign if you don’t kiss at the end of a first date?
I'd say it's a positive and he's acted like a gentleman!Hey ladies, I’ve started dating again after having a year off the apps (felt great for it!) but just wondering, do you think it’s a bad sign if you don’t kiss at the end of a first date?
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