Hi! Thanks for thinking about me
So exciting that she’s nearly here!
Well, I’ll be back on the apps again shortly. I need a break first though. I brought up with my guy the fact I’ve noticed his very active presence on the dating app a few days in a row, after seeing me a couple of times very recently. I won’t lie, I was cheesed off, but calmly asked what he wants, and explained where I was at with wanting to focus on this. I had a bad gut feeling and would rather pull the plug now than allow someone to treat me like an option after 2 months of getting to know one another. Why can’t these idiots just stick to getting to know one good/decent woman when she’s in front of him, and stop fishing for other options?! I bloody hate these apps! Anyway, he’s not replied to me at all, so we’ve gone from super communicative to being ghosted. I think he’s opted to do the fade out and not end it with me, in order to keep a door open. So I grabbed the bull by the horns and messaged him to say I accept it’s over and goodbye
He’s not optioning me, the cheeky sod!
Never been ghosted like this before and it does hurt. This week has gone from meeting up, him sending song lyrics to me, talking about meeting up again, and generally being lovely, to just… silence. Nothing has happened to trigger this. He was being off the day before I raised exclusivity. What a knob.