MsCurly
Chatty Member
I have a little update on the builder
After our casual get together two weeks ago I hadn't heard from him, so initially I was a bit disappointed. However, he finally reached out on Friday asking me if I wanted to do something on Sunday. I decided to accept, and told myself I'd play it cool and to not be too bothered by him not reaching out earlier. I decided to draw inspiration from the hallmark movies, and I live in a religious rural area where everything is closed on Sunday, so we couldn't really go out to a restaurant or anything. We ended up baking cookies at his house and playing some board games together. I figured baking cookies would give me enough time to just straight up ask him why he hadn't reached out earlier and where he thinks this is going. I wanted to know because I definitely thought there was something between us, but that he'd just been too polite or scared to make a move.
So, Sunday rolls around and we're having a lovely time baking together. It took me a while before I had enough courage to ask him what I wanted to ask, but eventually I did. The poor guy dropped an egg, went beet red and went dead silent. I think the silence lasted at least 3 whole minutes, and it felt like an eternity. I swear I could hear the clock ticking and it made me SO nervous. I was already kicking myself for ruining all of my chances.
He explained that he wanted to reach out earlier, but that he was convinced I just wanted to be friends because I hadn't made a move! He thought he'd been fully friend zoned already.
And here I was, thinking I was all smooth and sexy, giving hints the signs of neon ads in Times Square, but noooooooo. I felt like such an idiot. I really am the Karl Pilkington of dating sometimes.
We ended up clearing the air and it turns out he's a pretty good kisser.
After our casual get together two weeks ago I hadn't heard from him, so initially I was a bit disappointed. However, he finally reached out on Friday asking me if I wanted to do something on Sunday. I decided to accept, and told myself I'd play it cool and to not be too bothered by him not reaching out earlier. I decided to draw inspiration from the hallmark movies, and I live in a religious rural area where everything is closed on Sunday, so we couldn't really go out to a restaurant or anything. We ended up baking cookies at his house and playing some board games together. I figured baking cookies would give me enough time to just straight up ask him why he hadn't reached out earlier and where he thinks this is going. I wanted to know because I definitely thought there was something between us, but that he'd just been too polite or scared to make a move.
So, Sunday rolls around and we're having a lovely time baking together. It took me a while before I had enough courage to ask him what I wanted to ask, but eventually I did. The poor guy dropped an egg, went beet red and went dead silent. I think the silence lasted at least 3 whole minutes, and it felt like an eternity. I swear I could hear the clock ticking and it made me SO nervous. I was already kicking myself for ruining all of my chances.
He explained that he wanted to reach out earlier, but that he was convinced I just wanted to be friends because I hadn't made a move! He thought he'd been fully friend zoned already.
And here I was, thinking I was all smooth and sexy, giving hints the signs of neon ads in Times Square, but noooooooo. I felt like such an idiot. I really am the Karl Pilkington of dating sometimes.
We ended up clearing the air and it turns out he's a pretty good kisser.