no pressure!
My cut off point for a second baby was 30.. pushed back to 32.. now it’s looking like 35 is my new limit 
I split up with my Ex 4 months ago. He's sent me a message today, only 3 words - I miss you.As predicted the narc ex has began to reach out a couple of months of no speaking. I know this is the dating thread but I’m going to need your support to make sure I don’t re-engage
It was via a friend “how’s *the best thing that happened to him*? It shouldn’t be like this” He then said he would call her to talk but hasn’t.… Obvs it’s got right into my head. bleeping men.
So my realistic chance for a baby is 36-37 lol. Im holding out hope!My newborn niece makes me insanely broody
No doubt he does. But from what you’ve shared on this group he did you dirty and doesn’t deserve another chance?I split up with my Ex 4 months ago. He's sent me a message today, only 3 words - I miss you.
This is gonna sound patronising but it isn't meant to, you should feel so proud of yourself for recognising that, staying strong and not going back, and seeing your worth
You're not an idiotA guy I liked gave me the slow fade after meeting up quite a few times, was having a snoop on his profiles and it seems like he started dating another girl around the time he slow faded me.
I feel like such an idiot
just the harsh realities of modern dating 
doesn't make it any easier I knowOh no. I’m sorry to hear this, it seems like there is always another girl when this happensA guy I liked gave me the slow fade after meeting up quite a few times, was having a snoop on his profiles and it seems like he started dating another girl around the time he slow faded me.
I feel like such an idiot
aw that’s so exciting (granny psycho!Hey everyone just stopping by to wish you all well. I've been quite busy with work and visiting a friend oop north. Plus it's getting close to my first grandchild (daughter) being born. So exciting.
While I was away, out of interest, I downloaded Badoo to see what the talent was like around Cheshire. No different to the South. Only one attracted me and naturally he looked like a bad boy! Lol.
Sorry to say from all the posts it's the same old poor behaviour from men. It is disheartening for sure. You all have nerves of steel to stay in "the game". Shout out to Belle, La Blonde & Candy land. Hope you're all tikkety boo.
) - what a lovely time for you and your family, sending so many good wishes for her arrival x
have just bowed out of both this thread and dating a little because i realised it was just making me miserable (dating, not the thread). i still check in because i’m very invested in the lovely folk here but really have nothing of value to add 
Lovely news about your new grand baby.. How excitingHey everyone just stopping by to wish you all well. I've been quite busy with work and visiting a friend oop north. Plus it's getting close to my first grandchild (daughter) being born. So exciting.
While I was away, out of interest, I downloaded Badoo to see what the talent was like around Cheshire. No different to the South. Only one attracted me and naturally he looked like a bad boy! Lol.
Sorry to say from all the posts it's the same old poor behaviour from men. It is disheartening for sure. You all have nerves of steel to stay in "the game". Shout out to Belle, La Blonde & Candy land. Hope you're all tikkety boo.
Hi, I split up with my ex in July. We'd been on and off for a while and only got together in November. When do you stop thinking about them every day? And when should i venture into the dating world again? My phone is so quiet, I hate it
Is this the same ‘bailing 2 hours before date’ guy? If so, meh."Regardless of how it goes, it can always be nice to have a drink with someone"
It's giving friend zone before we even meet
No, the devil moved fast but a girl who has lost interest moves faster.
Thank you! I still miss him, but I can't go back again. I have to draw the line somewhere. The worst times with him were better than the best times with others. But even that isn't a Good enough reason to give it yet another try. I'd rather be on my own.This is gonna sound patronising but it isn't meant to, you should feel so proud of yourself for recognising that, staying strong and not going back, and seeing your worth
I was with my aforementioned Ex for 8 years. I'm 4 months post split and I think I'm getting to the acceptance stage of the 7 stages of grief about it. I don't cry anymore, I do still think of him most days but its a lot briefer (whereas at first I'd think of him all day every day).Hi, I split up with my ex in July. We'd been on and off for a while and only got together in November. When do you stop thinking about them every day? And when should i venture into the dating world again? My phone is so quiet, I hate it
always the way it’s one or the other!