same!! i’m glad it’s not just me raymondI’m absolutely not dating but I can’t leave these threads because I’m so invested in everyone’s stories (and nosey)!Was lying in bed last night thinking how you all can find guys worthy of a second date. Must be some kind of magic!
Jokes aside, really glad to see all the ‘happy endings’. Go girls!
It’s a personal choice but my opinion is it’s way too soon to come off the app and concentrate on him. It’s not so much about whether you want to be on the app anymore, but the impression you will be giving him. You don’t want to appear to be too eager after one date. It’s not playing games as such, but just pacing things. Just leave your profile up but stay off the app if you don’t want to use it actively. It’s about taking your time and not making impulsive decisions as you go from date to date. Just keep contact going with him and see how it goes. You can make the decision later on down the lineSo.
What’s the unwritten rules for keeping tinder when you’re waiting for next dates. I think I’m going to delete apps and then concentrate on this guy and see where it leads. I’m on holiday for 10 days anyway so won’t exactly be swiping in Spainand then we will meet a few days after I get back anyway so. Hopefully I won’t have to re install it.
The only thing that’s annoyed me is he didn’t even compliment me on how I looked but after the date he just said he really enjoyed it so
Thank you - this is good adviceIt’s a personal choice but my opinion is it’s way too soon to come off the app and concentrate on him. It’s not so much about whether you want to be on the app anymore, but the impression you will be giving him. You don’t want to appear to be too eager after one date. It’s not playing games as such, but just pacing things. Just leave your profile up but stay off the app if you don’t want to use it actively. It’s about taking your time and not making impulsive decisions as you go from date to date. Just keep contact going with him and see how it goes. You can make the decision later on down the line
That sounds like a meet cute to me. If nothing else, how flattering for youI can’t answer. I don’t know what the hell I'm doing.
Ended up exchanging numbers with the guy who helped me at the book shop yesterday. He’s really sweet, but not quite my type physically. Meet cute? Or madness?
Ex whatever is due in the office at 1 and I’ve accidentally made myself look like I’m about to go for a night out. I’ve been running around looking for someone to borrow a jumper from for the past hour but it’s so sunny here no one brought one with them.
So pleased to see success stories though
Good plan!Thank you - this is good advice. Gunna just delete the app from my Home Screen but keep it installed incase!
I always attract younger too and I prefer younger guys! I hate how guys get applauded for having a woman a few years younger but it’s kind of a stigma for us to go younger! American love guru@Clementinecongratulations and I'm loving the age gap I always attract and dated younger and hate that there is such a stigma attached to it.
@Sandor ..you work it girlfriend !! Remember you are queen mrs and he's bloody lucky to even breath the same air as you ! No idea why I've gone all American love guru in my advice this morning but you get my meaning! Own it lady !
Yes deffo too soon and she might be tempting fate or kind of ‘jinxing’ it with him if she deletes the apps. If things go well with him then by all means get rid of the apps but for now keep swiping and keep your options open girl. I saw that 3 is the amount of ppl you should ideally be matching and speaking with on apps at a time. How on earth do you find 3 males to have a conversation with on there that doesn’t involve sex!?It’s a personal choice but my opinion is it’s way too soon to come off the app and concentrate on him. It’s not so much about whether you want to be on the app anymore, but the impression you will be giving him. You don’t want to appear to be too eager after one date. It’s not playing games as such, but just pacing things. Just leave your profile up but stay off the app if you don’t want to use it actively. It’s about taking your time and not making impulsive decisions as you go from date to date. Just keep contact going with him and see how it goes. You can make the decision later on down the line
3 people! I hardly have time for one let alone 3I always attract younger too and I prefer younger guys! I hate how guys get applauded for having a woman a few years younger but it’s kind of a stigma for us to go younger! American love guruI like it
Yes deffo too soon and she might be tempting fate or kind of ‘jinxing’ it with him if she deletes the apps. If things go well with him then by all means get rid of the apps but for now keep swiping and keep your options open girl. I saw that 3 is the amount of ppl you should ideally be matching and speaking with on apps at a time. How on earth do you find 3 males to have a conversation with on there that doesn’t involve sex!?
Did you compliment him ?!So.
What’s the unwritten rules for keeping tinder when you’re waiting for next dates. I think I’m going to delete apps and then concentrate on this guy and see where it leads. I’m on holiday for 10 days anyway so won’t exactly be swiping in Spainand then we will meet a few days after I get back anyway so. Hopefully I won’t have to re install it.
The only thing that’s annoyed me is he didn’t even compliment me on how I looked but after the date he just said he really enjoyed it so
Yeah I did after. Yeah he’s getting a bit better but I think I need to remember what he said about not being a big tester, equally I hardly go on my phone on hol anyway so I’m usually in the pool etc. i think him reassuring me that he doesn’t really like texting helps a little, he also said he will always reply or if he leaves me on read it’s not on purpose etc. He said he’s had girls in the past that go mad if he doesn’t reply etc , (wow!!!). Will just see how it goes I guess xDid you compliment him ?!
We've talked about the 1st date 2nd date jinx lots on here. 1 date does not maketh a relationship! Personally if it were me I would message him and say you enjoyed meeting him and look forward to seeing him after holiday and that you will be in touch on your return
and not contact him til you get home, his erratic style of communication causes you anxiety and it would be a shame to have that cloud your holiday. Just a thought..
Thank you!@Clementinecongratulations and I'm loving the age gap I always attract and dated younger and hate that there is such a stigma attached to it.
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