Yes @hereforthememe please pass on the good luck
Yay! I have the same news myselfaw everyone I got news! The guy I've been seeing recently and clicked so well with asked me to be his girlfriend
Yay! So pleased for youYay! I have the same news myself
Why aren't you bothered about it ?I may have a date this week. I'm not hugely arsed which I'm not sure if that's a good or bad thing? Like seriously beyond not bothered.... if it doesn't happen I won't even give it another thought not arsed. Maybe this is the universe saying nah not yet
I honestly have no idea. Maybe because I'm genuinely not looking for someone really. If it's arranged then I'll go but I guess it means my expectations low because I know I'll be fine regardless.Why aren't you bothered about it ?
This is probably the best way to be! Get goingI honestly have no idea. Maybe because I'm genuinely not looking for someone really. If it's arranged then I'll go but I guess it means my expectations low because I know I'll be fine regardless.
I'm all grown up!
He works nights so won't hear much if ever during the days anywayThis is probably the best way to be! Get going
How did you meet and how come he asked you out?I honestly have no idea. Maybe because I'm genuinely not looking for someone really. If it's arranged then I'll go but I guess it means my expectations low because I know I'll be fine regardless.
I'm all grown up!
Never mind. He might prefer faces or boob to bums.I may have a date this week. I'm not hugely arsed
I do have a good sized derriereNever mind. He might prefer faces or boob to bums.
Good old Hinge. He's a voice note/telephone person though which I am not lolHow did you meet and how come he asked you out?
Oh, I thought you wanted to take a break from dating? Has that finished?Good old Hinge. He's a voice note/telephone person though which I am not lol
Oh I’ll check those out! Here are mine in varying price ranges haha:Ooohh, I would love to hear what is on your list.
Well, it is a pricey hobby to be honest. I bought Clean Cashmere and Kenzo Elephant on Ebay today (half price, but new) as I am looking for a winter scent.
I really wasn't fussed before my 1st date with my boyfriend but we clicked and it was one of the best first dates I've had so definitely go and just see. You have nothing to lose!I may have a date this week. I'm not hugely arsed which I'm not sure if that's a good or bad thing? Like seriously beyond not bothered.... if it doesn't happen I won't even give it another thought not arsed. Maybe this is the universe saying nah not yet
Agree with a lot of what she’s said but I don’t like “it’s him or someone even better” - the constant thought that there could be someone even better waiting round the corner, or available to swipe the next time you log in the app is what is stopping people from really evaluating the person who is in front of them, taking time to get to know more about them, and often treating them like a real human being with needs and feelings and thoughts.I just saw this on TikTok and it really resonated with me after my recent experience. I thought it might help others.
I think, from my point of view, that she was saying if he treats you like crap, there’s red flags, he’s not responding to messages, you don’t just have to stay because it is the first reasonable date in a few other ways in a few years. That you don’t have to just settle.Agree with a lot of what she’s said but I don’t like “it’s him or someone even better” - the constant thought that there could be someone even better waiting round the corner, or available to swipe the next time you log in the app is what is stopping people from really evaluating the person who is in front of them, taking time to get to know more about them, and often treating them like a real human being with needs and feelings and thoughts.
It’s a disposable culture whereby it’s fine to just cancel a date at short notice or ghost someone before or after meeting because there aren’t any consequences - plenty more fish in the sea etc. In reality the dating pool isn’t that big even if you live in a big city and that’s why you see the same people on the apps when you come back from a break. That’s why the ghosters will reappear and try and act like nothing happened (usually coinciding with a WhatsApp photo change).
I think saying “it’s not just him, there are other options” is more accurate.
Mini rant over
Yeah, you shouldn’t stay because he’s the first one who has shown you any interest, because there will be someone else. Although it can be years between finding someone you find attractive and have genuine excitement about and it’s more misleading BS and platitudes to claim otherwise.I think, from my point of view, that she was saying if he treats you like crap, there’s red flags, he’s not responding to messages, you don’t just have to stay because it is the first reasonable date in a few other ways in a few years. That you don’t have to just settle.
I totally agree with what you’ve said. I just don’t understand some people’s attitude, if they have found something good… great! Everyone wants to get off the appssucks that some people just are so wrapped up in the likes and validation.
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