Dating after lockdown #12 It’s all got a bit dark

[yankydoo]

Me: deletes tinder and all other dating apps and swears is okay without anyone
Me: goes to a birthday party
Me: i have been dating this guy for a week and we have pretty much moved in together

And I have never felt as amazing and in love but I just WTH, am I in a movie? What is this?

Please give us more info!

 

[Clementine]

I think the tagline should be “Lost causes”….too soon? In memory of Laurie.

Actually never mind.

How about “Shall I rap?”

 

[hereforthememe]

Aw good luck! This sounds amazing. Just do and say whatever you’re comfortable with.

Thank you!

 

[Wowitsme]

Ok wow missed the drama I did call out the Instagram messages yesterday. You get approached the way people view you. She is actively sending naked pictures to people then moaning about it. Then lost her cool completely awkward lol

 

[whathastheworldcometo]

maybe screenshot and repost or copy the text and repost so we can give you advice xx

Thanks, I copied into my previous post, number 8

 

[BunnyLebowski]

Hi gang, I’m back. Sorry for flouncing….I have missed you

I was ashamed about getting fingered by a married man, but to fair he did ply me with shots…and his wife is a bleeping witch who’s been cheating with at least 2 men that I know of. That marriage is over.

In other news, I’ve been being very healthy and feeling happier. I saw James Bond last night with a good friend and had a lovely evening with no thoughts to my love life or needing a man. Just purely content in the moment.

Note to self, hangovers make me feel miserable.

Hope you guys are well and happy xxx

 

[realhousewivewannabe]

I didn’t read a single thing said this morning only another posters reverb about her saying some of us can’t get past the first date. Ngl I feel personally attacked cause that is aimed at me lol ‍ I mean Laurie I have really tried.

 

[Wowitsme]

They’ve all been deleted anyways. Flirting and sending pics to men who are attached is going to cause responses so just have to deal with it

 

[lokiofasgard]

Please give us more info!

He is just the most considerate amazing human on the planet. But he wants to go to Tenerife with me in December and I am just what the actual hell this is not real life and he insists on paying for everything but I don't know, this feels like such a huge thing for me. We would go with his brother and his brother's wife. And and and and I mean I wanna go but should I??????

ETA: he is my good friend's close relative, not a random stranger tbh

 

[whathastheworldcometo]

He is just the most considerate amazing human on the planet. But he wants to go to Tenerife with me in December and I am just what the actual hell this is not real life and he insists on paying for everything but I don't know, this feels like such a huge thing for me. We would go with his brother and his brother's wife. And and and and I mean I wanna go but should I??????

I think it is a bit early.

A friend of mine went on a family holiday (50% of the time was with family of his) with her newish boyfriend and it turned into a complete disaster.

 

[Bettyboo2021]

Hi gang, I’m back. Sorry for flouncing….I have missed you

I was ashamed about getting fingered by a married man, but to fair he did ply me with shots…and his wife is a bleeping witch who’s been cheating with at least 2 men that I know of. That marriage is over.

In other news, I’ve been being very healthy and feeling happier. I saw James Bond last night with a good friend and had a lovely evening with no thoughts to my love life or needing a man. Just purely content in the moment.

Note to self, hangovers make me feel miserable.

Hope you guys are well and happy xxx

Hello bunny welcome back god I’m glad to see you haha xx

 

[NoseyNiamh]

Hi gang, I’m back. Sorry for flouncing….I have missed you

I was ashamed about getting fingered by a married man, but to fair he did ply me with shots…and his wife is a bleeping witch who’s been cheating with at least 2 men that I know of. That marriage is over.

In other news, I’ve been being very healthy and feeling happier. I saw James Bond last night with a good friend and had a lovely evening with no thoughts to my love life or needing a man. Just purely content in the moment.

Note to self, hangovers make me feel miserable.

Hope you guys are well and happy xxx

Can't believe you got fingered by Tony Blair

 

[hereforthememe]

Can't believe you got fingered by Tony Blair

Wait... What? This thread WTF how did I miss this?!

 

[Thank(space)you]

I'm loving hearing the positive stories coming to light about second and third dates

 

[Bettyboo2021]

Can't believe you got fingered by Tony Blair

Omg did you? please tell us I need the distraction

 

[babynice]

He is just the most considerate amazing human on the planet. But he wants to go to Tenerife with me in December and I am just what the actual hell this is not real life and he insists on paying for everything but I don't know, this feels like such a huge thing for me. We would go with his brother and his brother's wife. And and and and I mean I wanna go but should I??????

ETA: he is my good friend's close relative, not a random stranger tbh

Be careful. I booked a holiday with my last boyfriend when we hadn’t been together long and by time it came for us to actually go, I had totally gone off him and had to cancel it.

Although you do sound like you like him a lot more than I liked my ex

 

[Wowitsme]

Can't believe you got fingered by Tony Blair

Erm ...... where did this come from

 

[mehere]

I didn’t read a single thing said this morning only another posters reverb about her saying some of us can’t get past the first date. Ngl I feel personally attacked cause that is aimed at me lol ‍ I mean Laurie I have really tried.

Don’t take it personally, I did feel it was a nasty comment. The dating world is a minefield and we’re all here trying to figure it out. We can offer each other constructive points of view based on our shared moral values without being vindictive towards each other

 

[Bettyboo2021]

Don’t take it personally, I did feel it was a nasty comment. The dating world is a minefield and we’re all here trying to figure it out. We can offer each other constructive points of view based on our shared moral values without being vindictive towards each other

It was defo Aimed at me for clogging up the last thread but that person showed themselves up any way

 

[ksr96]

Hi gang, I’m back. Sorry for flouncing….I have missed you

I was ashamed about getting fingered by a married man, but to fair he did ply me with shots…and his wife is a bleeping witch who’s been cheating with at least 2 men that I know of. That marriage is over.

In other news, I’ve been being very healthy and feeling happier. I saw James Bond last night with a good friend and had a lovely evening with no thoughts to my love life or needing a man. Just purely content in the moment.

Note to self, hangovers make me feel miserable.

Hope you guys are well and happy xxx

I missed you!! Welcome back

I didn’t catch what Laurie said - would someone summarise the gist of what went down?