You might benefit from taking some time away from the thread.I'll be honest with you, your right but...I've lived longer than most here, experienced some wonderful events and some awful events and I've gone past the 'group hug' / person centered approach to folk so if my bluntness offends put me on ignore.
And no, I won’t ever put a member on ignore, I’m an adult, I can converse and behave as such.