Colour Me Bootiful #16 Council grants, cryin' rants... Your husband's on his 100th chance!

[martha82]

Why is looking at her bleeping phone when she away in Galgorm at £1000 a night (exaggerated I know)

she doesn’t give a flying duck about her son, she spends more nights out of that house house than in the house

she 100% is laying down the ground work for when she ships him off to residential care so she can be free from him

she is a complete CU next Tuesday

 

[Et tu Brute?]

Edina Monsoon!!!

I like how your mind works nailed it

 

[Righto22]

I know this will be unpopular but M is getting bigger and stronger while her and Paul aren’t getting any younger, I’d say it’s been playing on their mind as he gets closer to adulthood and it’s like she says, it’s hit a nerve. Not sure why someone would want or need to know something that personal about a child’s care needs tbh. Doesn’t matter how much you hate Toni, she’s his mother and to me that was an inappropriate question by anybody’s standards.

What was she asked ? I don't follow her

 

[passthepopcornnai]

What was she asked ? I don't follow her

If M would always live at home or assisted living.

Personally I think no one asked the question and know what, see if they did.. toni overreacted, if genuine, that could’ve been someone out there currently in the same position not knowing what to do and for whatever reason reached out to Toni because didn’t know who to ask and wanted genuine advice.

Toni might be the waines biological mother, but she’s just looking at the ££££ signs, the only think she truly loves

 

[gherkinlover]

I know this will be unpopular but M is getting bigger and stronger while her and Paul aren’t getting any younger, I’d say it’s been playing on their mind as he gets closer to adulthood and it’s like she says, it’s hit a nerve. Not sure why someone would want or need to know something that personal about a child’s care needs tbh. Doesn’t matter how much you hate Toni, she’s his mother and to me that was an inappropriate question by anybody’s standards.

Have to agree with you. Madison should be off limits on here.

 

[pumpkinspice7]

Have to agree with you. Madison should be off limits on here.

It was Toni that decided to share the question and turn on the tears though? And not one person on here has ever said anything horrible about M.

 

[Et tu Brute?]

Have to agree with you. Madison should be off limits on here.

Wasn’t on here, was on her own Instagram. We are nothing but respectful to M on here and only mention him if Toni is exposing him on her social media.

 

[donegalwarrior]

Have to agree with you. Madison should be off limits on here.

M is off limits here. Not once would anyone make a bad comment about him on this site and I for one will come for that person if they did. We don't say anything about M, it's his mother and her "parenting skills" that we talk about. That's who this thread is about and that who we talk about. Ofcourse M is mentioned when it comes to her parenting.

 

[Derrygirl21]

Likewise I have to agree with the most recent comments.
We don't discuss M personally. My thoughts and feelings are that it would be absolutely disgusting to do so. He's a vulnerable teen with many additional complex needs who doesn't have the choice or say whether or not he wants to appear on his mothers social media. Undoubtedly the vast majority of accounts on here have more respect for what is mentioned and put online of that young lad moreso than his own mother. Noone on this thread or previous discuss or have discussed him with malice or been out of order. As the thread titles always have listed it's his mother we discuss. Yes sometimes his father and greater family but anyone that would dare personally discuss him would soon be called out and I'd confidently say posts removed immediately.
M IS off limits but for what his mother posts, shares and portrays through her own choice - she for sure isn't not off limits

 

[The original derry girl]

She accuses people of trolling him on this site and making fun of him, this has never happened on here and nor would amyone let it

 

[donegalwarrior]

She accuses people of trolling him on this site and making fun of him, this has never happened on here and nor would amyone let it

She's waiting for us to do so, so she can post it on IG. She's said a few times about this but has never had anything to back it up

 

[Culmore_Cat_Lady]

That's just pure textbook narcissistic behaviour there is seeing her friend being the centre of attention for her birthday and turning on the water works to focus the spot light on her.

And for the love of God would someone tell her to stop eating her snots like a nursery school child and use a bleeping kleenex!

 

[Kizzyd33]

Thread title?
" Colour me butthole, what can I say. I am a dose and my hubby is Gay "

 

[Mr Paul Barry John Allen]

Wasn’t on here, was on her own Instagram. We are nothing but respectful to M on here and only mention him if Toni is exposing him on her social media.

How do you lot see her stories? I never see her stories loaded, never once interacted with that inbred and I'm blocked
Hahahahah least my husband isn't a sausage chaser Toni

 

[Kilingtime]

If M would always live at home or assisted living.

Personally I think no one asked the question and know what, see if they did.. toni overreacted, if genuine, that could’ve been someone out there currently in the same position not knowing what to do and for whatever reason reached out to Toni because didn’t know who to ask and wanted genuine advice.

I think the same. There are a lot of parents out there dealing with what they are- and I for one wouldn't judge anyone who went the assisted living route.
I know a family who have opted for this- and I'm not even joking- it's been for the better for both the child and the parents? The child has 24/7 specialist care and their daily activities are completely catered to their abilities and likes. The parents visit daily (thankfully it's close by) and are less stressed and able to manage their other kids without worrying they were 'neglecting' them at the expense of their other child. Some people might think that selfish- that's their prerogative. But noone needs to be a martyr in this situation. Each family must do what's best for everyone involved.

 

[Irishlurker2021]

Not sure if this has been mentioned before as can never keep up with the threads but does she have a chin implant? Just curious

 

[Kizzyd33]

Ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

 

[themdirtysrs]

Ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

She deffo asked herself that, so obvious lol

 

[Derrygirl13]

Ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Puh-leeeeze the scraggy witch lives her life for so called trolls. Why didn't she roll out that stupid saying earlier that her da taught her. Makes me cringe when she says it

 

[Mumwithbump]

I'm curious.how many more years of school does m go.like will he do u lower 6th upper 6th.if he's in 5th year this wud b his last year of school.how will she cope then wen he's home 24/7 12months a year.i do feel bad for them we shudnt judge cus wen our kids grow and leave the nest we get our lives then.they will have a grown man child who will need constant care.its a sad life for m he cud have had a great life had he no medical issues.i cud cry for him.