Christmas present moans

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I’ve got quite chunky legs, after trying all year to find a pair of wellies that fit, (I got 4 pairs to try for my birthday but all had to go back), I said I was giving up and not to worry about it.

I got a pair or supermarket wellies for Xmas... they don’t fit 🤦🏻‍♀️
Have you tried Vans wellies? These are the only ones that fit round my calves.
 
Forgot to mention some family friends I always buy for their kids at Christmas just little £10 gifts. Last year they got my son something for his birthday. This year they didn’t even acknowledge his birthday, early December I posted their presents they sent back a thank you. Christmas Eve they messaged to say btw we aren’t buying for friends kids this year 😂 it’s a relive as next year I won’t bother but why wait to late?!

Not just Christmas but some advice would be good. Another set of family friends we’ve always done gifts since birth their boys are 4 and 6. My son is 2, this year no happy birthday text even though I did both of there birthdays, card or even present. My husband dropped their Christmas presents off last week and got a thank you. Not even a card back or present back again. I’m not actually bothered about the presents but I feel that’s it’s I’m not doing anymore presents from us. It’s both their birthdays in April so I said to my husband I’m not going to bother he said I should and I look petty. What would you guys do? I just think it’s embarrassing to keep sending presents and not have reciprocated plus expensive!
Send a card

Yeah I totally agree! I’d rather someone saved their money then bought me a Dove gift set that will just sit in a cupboard. Now we all have kids, the adults in my family agreed we’d just buy for the kids going forward. Then this year my SIL decided to buy me a Nivea gift set, candle and bath bomb. A lovely gesture but I honestly wasn’t bothered and tbh would rather she’d spent the £15 or whatever on my wee boy. Plus she got my husband a Chelsea top and he was up the pole with guilt cos we got them nothing. I was like, well that’s up to them but I’m not being guilted into buying tat for each other every year for the sake of it.
Should have rummaged in the cupboard for the dove gift set
 
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Tis the season and all, bringing this back so you can share who gave you regifted stale bath bombs this year 🛀
 
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I really don't care what i get. As long as there's a Tiblerone ans a box of Malteasers I'm happy. But I'm so nervous to give my gift to my partner. He asked for something boring so i got it and then i topped it up with a couple of items of clothing and now I've got the fear he'll think I'm a tight witch. Tbh all i said i wanted for christmas was a nice clean house and so far he hasn't lifted a finger to help me soo.... haha. As long as ths kids are happy thats all that matters.
 
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I will be happy with a gift card like M&S, why can’t people just buy gift card instead of some pointless tit they find in Flying Tiger
 
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Anyone else feel immense pressure to make up for what their siblings don’t get their mum? My brothers buy nothing so I’m left feeling like I need to do it all. She’s also 60 on Jan 2nd and my list so far is a Fitbit,
Chanel perfume and a hairdryer if they both bought something it would be helpful I’m dreading it
 
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I will be happy with a gift card like M&S, why can’t people just buy gift card instead of some pointless tit they find in Flying Tiger
People seem to have this idea that gift cards are a lazy gift… no idea why when the gift instead is usually some bath set from Boots etc so not like much thought has gone into it!

i love gift cards!
 
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People seem to have this idea that gift cards are a lazy gift… no idea why when the gift instead is usually some bath set from Boots etc so not like much thought has gone into it!

i love gift cards!
I love gift cards and cash.

Excuse to buy yourself something you wouldn't ordinarily.
 
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Totally agree especially if it’s for a ‘nice’ shop or department store!
Definitely.

Even if it is only a tenner or twenty quid, for me it makes something go from "no i won't buy that" to "I will treat myself" because the voucher is like a discount haha
 
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I'm hoping for some cash haha. I want to buy a wisteria for the front of my house
 
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Anyone else feel immense pressure to make up for what their siblings don’t get their mum? My brothers buy nothing so I’m left feeling like I need to do it all. She’s also 60 on Jan 2nd and my list so far is a Fitbit,
Chanel perfume and a hairdryer if they both bought something it would be helpful I’m dreading it
If your mum is 59, I imagine your brothers aren’t teenagers any more.. Buy something nice for your mum because you want to, but don't make up for them.
I don't know your relationship obviously but I hope she appreciates the difference.
 
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People seem to have this idea that gift cards are a lazy gift… no idea why when the gift instead is usually some bath set from Boots etc so not like much thought has gone into it!

i love gift cards!
I ask for money or gift cards every year but my gran loves parcels so always needs to buy me physical things - usually means I need to prepare a list in advance of what skincare or makeup I need and then pass it on to her so she can go to boots and buy it. Before that she’d just but what she thought I’d like so this is a decent compromise, but I’d still rather have gift cards 😂 I like being able to use them to treat myself in the future when I need a pick me up or put them towards a larger purchase.
 
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I always give a bit of money and something to open then if they don't like the gift they can treat themselves to something they do like.
 
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Feel like myself and partner are getting a joint present off a family member… told us yesterday we’ll either love or hate it

makes me nervous 🤣
 
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Anyone else feel immense pressure to make up for what their siblings don’t get their mum? My brothers buy nothing so I’m left feeling like I need to do it all. She’s also 60 on Jan 2nd and my list so far is a Fitbit,
Chanel perfume and a hairdryer if they both bought something it would be helpful I’m dreading it
Word for word, same. My brother cannot give a single hoot when it comes to presents for parents, always have been this way. If I don't think of something, it will never get done and he's a 30 year old man might I add, not a teenager who is unable to give these matters some thought.

I used to buy 2 separate gifts from both of us in the past but I am tired so I just buy them something from me and carry on. I am done trying to make up for his 'hootlessness'. Eldest daughter curse is very real.
 
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