Firecrotch69
Well-known member
I have to say I agree, i hate this ‘let’s not mum shame’ forthings that actually are harmful, and also leave the mothers that are doing things the right way - aka the tough way - feeling like failures because they actually put their offspring first.I disagree completely. These are influencers with a huge following, probably a large proportion mums or mums to be, who as stated above assume its easy to leave children when in reality it isn’t and of course the majority of mothers do put their babies needs before a night out or business trips. She will not get those moments back and I assume that one day when she’s grown up a little bit she will look back on her desire to go out & “live her best life” with her friends and understand the negativity she’s had in the press over how unattached to her baby she is. She will long for those moments once the opportunity is up.
Whether it’s 2020 or 1905, she is a mother and a few cocktails or champagne is not as important as a secure attachment with your child.
Her ignorance to actual motherhood is what is wrong with influencers.
The fact is - babies don’t keep. Promoting a lifestyle of leaving your baby behind all the time is seriously detrimental to all the young women who look to people like Chloe.