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NeedsAVacation

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Not even insulting her baby but he is behind that’s fact. My son took his first steps well before his first birthday. She doesn’t seem an attentive mother at all. She’s out all the time. She was out constantly even after he was born. Maybe if she had spent more time with him he wouldn’t be delayed.
You're making yourself look dumb now. Making up your own facts. Based on 15 second clips on insta. My son took his first steps at 14 months and I was with him 24/7. Every child walks at different ages. Every child reaches milestones differently nothing to do with the mother.
 
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dontcome@me

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Perhaps morbid but I’ve gone back to the old seasons of Towie when they were on and off. Jesus he was a right prick (speaking ill of the dead I know) - I remember thinking back then how did he pull someone like Chloe. Never saw the attraction in him! He’s sooo rude speaking to Chloe’s friends. And an absolute control freak. They all are in this season - they’d be bloody cancelled if it was now
 
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xcyber

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I unfollowed. Her posts are so boring. Pilates, weird naked day outfits and her son. 😴

Tbh I don’t even think it’s elocution lessons that are needed she just seems incredibly dull and not particularly intelligent.

I used to think she was so incredibly beautiful back when she first came on TOWIE. Really classy and different. Now she just looks like everyone else.
 
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Glencoe

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Yeah, on the one hand acknowledge that the judge might well have given them 50/50 custody, but on the other hand let’s slag her off for only having her kid 50% of the time.
The criticism on here makes no sense. My kid doesn’t give a shit about school photo day.
Also if the Dad was on holiday for school photo day no one would bat an eyelid.
 
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Curly

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It’s also nearly 2020 where we now realise the impact that lack of attachment can have in later life. Just because people don’t agree with a lifestyle doesn’t mean they are ‘mum shaming’ that is as much shit as women empowering women. These people revolve their life around insta and being desperate for attention and unfortunately in that lifestyle their babies seem to be an accessory. Actual sickens me when I see tiny babies been passed to whoever will watch them so Mums can have their same life
 
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SweedinLondon

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IMO it’s inappropriate that Chloe is reposting all Jake’s things to her page. She was his ex 10 years ago. He chose Misse, got engaged to Misse, has a child with Misse. Misse was the love of his life. It’s not Chloe’s baby dad who has passed. For a kid to lose a parent is earth shattering life changing and Misse will be left to deal with that
 
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realnewsreader

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Dan 35 told Ella 25 he loved her. Knocked her up. Forced her to terminate and started sleeping with Chloe Lewis. Chloe girl, times are tough. But not this tough
 
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Sw4

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It's a bit much but it's a lovely post. It does kind of sound like she thought they may end up together a few years down the line...

Dan probably won't care though, he's about as deep as a dried up puddle. I've never understood why he's considered attractive, even when he first joined Towie I thought he has a face too vacant to be good looking, a classic lights are on nobody home situation.
 
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WaffleTriangle

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It’s not a competition on who stays with their baby the longest before they have a break. Surely the baby is cared for by family or friends if everyone is happy then it’s nobody’s business. It’s nearly 2020 let’s not Mum shame
I disagree completely. These are influencers with a huge following, probably a large proportion mums or mums to be, who as stated above assume its easy to leave children when in reality it isn’t and of course the majority of mothers do put their babies needs before a night out or business trips. She will not get those moments back and I assume that one day when she’s grown up a little bit she will look back on her desire to go out & “live her best life” with her friends and understand the negativity she’s had in the press over how unattached to her baby she is. She will long for those moments once the opportunity is up.

Whether it’s 2020 or 1905, she is a mother and a few cocktails or champagne is not as important as a secure attachment with your child.

Her ignorance to actual motherhood is what is wrong with influencers.
 
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Dicky Tum

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Just makes me sad... Feels like the pregnancy and baby is all for her profile/insta. I said somewhere else that her portrayal of motherhood is misleading for young mums...if you have loads of support, free stuff and aren't breastfeeding then maybe you don't have to change your lifestyle too much but her pics make it seem a hell of a lot easier than it is for 99% of us
 
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She has inserted herself back into his life like she wasn’t part of it for the past 10 years. Misse is showing some real class. If that was my daughters dad and his ex teenage girlfriend was doing this so publicly I’d lose my rag
 
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Dicky Tum

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It’s nearly 2020. If people can’t comprehend that not all Is as it’s appears on social media maybe they shouldn’t use it. People rarely post the tough moments. I highly doubt she’s going to look on here and think oh fuck Sandra who’s only left her kid for 3.5 seconds in the space of 56 months is right I shouldn’t be living my life the way I want. These are her moments, if she needs more breaks than others cool. If she has a support system to continue her previous lifestyle cool. Good mums aren’t just the ones who don’t want to leave their kids.
Do you not think that is a slightly naive or blinkered way to see it? Yeah it is nearly 2020 and we should be wiser to crap like this but the truth is a lot of people aren't.

Of course some people find it easy to understand that the perfect lives they see on social media probably aren't really that perfect. Being a member of tattle means that you likely realised this a while ago!

But even reading a few threads on here, you encounter people who have gone into debt trying to keep up with what they saw on Instagram. And the countless research papers out there into links between maternal mental health problems and social media suggests that there are a lot of people unable to spot the difference between insta and reality.

So it is all well and good to say "don't follow her if you don't like it" or "don't use social media if you can't tell that it isn't real" but I think that's quite a lazy argument
 
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Lilly long

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It’s getting better… she is making it all about her… I don’t think Dan Edgar’s ego will be able to handle this… if Ella’s watching she will be waiting at the end of his drive..
 

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xcyber

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I’m convinced this is what happens to people who grow up being beautiful. They don’t have to develop a personality! Try being a teenager with mad frizzy hair pre GHDs 🤣
Being an ugly teen is the reason I’m the hilarious bastard I am today. But also I think Chloe might have a bit of a low IQ, bless her.
 
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