It sounds awful but I didn't feel happy for my friends when they told me they were pregnantI know I'm supposed to be happy for them but all I could think of was the impending death of the friendship . This is probably the only place I can admit it!
Thats like someone whos diabetic getting shady because someone who isnt diabetic chooses not to eat sugarView attachment 1732242
some of the shit people say baffles me!
It really annoys me when people who can’t have children get offended. I’ve never tried to get pregnant, so how do I even know if I can have kids?
“kids would look so good on you” - they’re not a handbag mate.View attachment 1732242
some of the shit people say baffles me!
It really annoys me when people who can’t have children get offended. I’ve never tried to get pregnant, so how do I even know if I can have kids?
It’s ridiculous - I’m 5”1 so could never be a professional basketball player/top model. Am I meant to be offended if someone 6”2 gets scouted for a model agency or basketball team and says no? Or if my husband died but someone chose to divorce theirs? It’s no-one’s fucking business what choices you make!Wtf! Why is it my problem if someone who can’t have kids is ‘offended’ that I don’t want themcope or die mad about it
Exactly! I’m gluten free because I have coeliac disease and it doesn’t bother me if people choose to not eat gluten by choice alone. The more people that avoid it, the less alone I feel!Thats like someone whos diabetic getting shady because someone who isnt diabetic chooses not to eat sugarreall dont know whats hard to understand about BODY AUTONOMY. Just because you can doesnt mean you want to.
This is my mindset too.have kids is ‘offended’ that I don’t want themcope or die mad about it
exactly.It’s ridiculous - I’m 5”1 so could never be a professional basketball player/top model. Am I meant to be offended if someone 6”2 gets scouted for a model agency or basketball team and says no? Or if my husband died but someone chose to divorce theirs? It’s no-one’s fucking business what choices you make!
Yep, for “offended” just read “jealous”!!!This is my mindset too.
You're mad about my trips, expensive clothes and nice meals at the restaurants?
Well, stay mad because I'm on my way to another holiday in the sun
My sister told me the most horrendous story, my niece came into their bedroom at 4am some years ago saying she didn’t feel well, then proceeded to projectile from both ends. I simply thought “fuck that”. Imagine dealing with that when you’re feeling 100% let alone when you’re also feeling shiteSo glad I've found this thread! 34, in a long term relationships with 2 cats and no plans for children.
Feeling absolutely terrible today, coming out of a particularly nasty bout of flu and can't imagine feeling like this and having to be responsible for looking after a little person, and maybe even a little person who also feels this crap!
For me it’s when i see stories of kids doing stupid shit.My sister told me the most horrendous story, my niece came into their bedroom at 4am some years ago saying she didn’t feel well, then proceeded to projectile from both ends. I simply thought “fuck that”. Imagine dealing with that when you’re feeling 100% let alone when you’re also feeling shite
I read a post on Mumsnet where the poster said her toddler son smelt 'odd', sort of musty and something off... He wasn't old enough to talk properly (so questioning him would have got her nowhere) and it'd been a few days, she couldn't figure it out. A lot of posters told her to check his nose. Sure enough, there was a week-old pea wedged up there that needed removing in A&E!For me it’s when i see stories of kids doing stupid shit.
Imagine sitting in a&e cause your kid decided to stick something up his nose for the second time. No
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