To be fair I don't do people full stop so think I'd be the same wherever I worked unless I worked in a lighthouse or somethingI do this too... although I work with adults so i don't know what that says about me
To be fair I don't do people full stop so think I'd be the same wherever I worked unless I worked in a lighthouse or somethingI do this too... although I work with adults so i don't know what that says about me
Low-key big dog owners act the same as regular parents. Like no I don't want your giant dog to jump on me nor bark at meno kids and no dogs
small dog owners do it too. I used to work in a cafe and people would come and we’d say that no dogs were allowed and they’d be like “well she’s just a chihuahua” and I’d stand there thinking “yes and this is a cafe head. We serve food here????”Low-key big dog owners act the same as regular parents. Like no I don't want your giant dog to jump on me nor bark at me
This is interesting cos I love dogs generally but just don’t think everywhere should be “dog friendly”. A few weeks ago I was out for my friends birthday and we were in a COCKTAIL BAR and there was a dog there at like 10pm!!!! He was bored senseless and the music was very loud for a small space. Just seemed cruel to me.small dog owners do it too. I used to work in a cafe and people would come and we’d say that no dogs were allowed and they’d be like “well she’s just a chihuahua” and I’d stand there thinking “yes and this is a cafe head. We serve food here????”
I hate it when dog owners don't get that I really don't want their dog licking my face and slobbering on me mind you, a lot of kids are the sameSame with dogs, when they say “oh he won’t hurt you”. I’m not worried about being bitten. I just don’t want something sniffing me and rubbing their feet fur and other bits on me! Imagine if I started sniffing another human
I work with Social Workers who deal with kids in long term care and are in fact their legal guardians. Most of them have kids of their own and I've NO idea how they manage it.I CANNOT imagine bearing the awfulness that would be doing a full day at work and then going home to have to do all that for a few hours. It genuinely gives me the fear.
My mum didn’t learn to ‘block it out’ she taught me not to be rude/annoying/too loud for the situation/how to behave in each situation. She wouldn’t want me screeching and screaming all through dinner at home, never mind out of the home, so she taught me it’s not appropriate. I’m now grown up (well, I’m old anyway ) and I’m not traumatised by not being allowed to screech my lungs up in public and neither are any of my siblings.Went to a local tea room for brunch today and duck me did it reaffirm to me that I hate parents.
The table next to us was 2 mums with their toddlers, who kept taking it in turn to screech at the top of their lungs. The mums started saying shush be quieter etc. Then proceeded to literally ignored them!!!!
It was only when the whole room turned to look at them one of the mums said "oh is that my kid?" Yes it bleeping is. He is sitting less than 3 inches from you. She claimed she didn't realise because "as a mum you just learn to block it out"
i love thisI’ve started to talk realllly loudly to my husband if there’s kids doing the same or shrieking near me in supermarkets etc. I make sure I’m just a bit louder than them, enough to drown them out as I am easily overwhelmed and overstimulated with screeching noise and I can hardly cope going out anywhere because of it honestly. And I tell you what the Mums reallllllly don’t like it when the shoe is on the other foot .
WOW DARLING LOOK AT THE PRICE OF THIS CHICKEN IT LOOKS GREAT!! Super loud and enthusiastic. I use it as a coping mechanism
It was me, my mum and sister so we proceeded to discuss quite loudly how our mum could silence us with a look when we were their ageMy mum didn’t learn to ‘block it out’ she taught me not to be rude/annoying/too loud for the situation/how to behave in each situation. She wouldn’t want me screeching and screaming all through dinner at home, never mind out of the home, so she taught me it’s not appropriate. I’m now grown up (well, I’m old anyway ) and I’m not traumatised by not being allowed to screech my lungs up in public and neither are any of my siblings.