Yes, especially as she’s admitted it is something she would love to do. It’s quite sad really.
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I’m not married. I’ve been with my other half many years.m, we have a mortgage, two children, a cat and a dog. Neither of us is interested in getting married and we find wedding very boring and don’t like to be centre of attention. Yes we could go to a registry office but not interested in that, don’t need it. Rarely think about the fact that we aren’t married it’s just not on our minds at all.
Different if she wants to get married though, seems a shame not to be on the same page about it
Different if she wants to get married though, seems a shame not to be on the same page about it
I agree if both are happy with the status quo then it’s all good
The problem is when one isn’t happy and I honestly feel people should be true to themselves,
If your not happy with not being married for whatever reason then you shouldn’t settle as resentment will always bubble under the surface, with you wanting more , and it’s not fair to ask for something more than the other is prepared to give ,
It has to be a joint decision imho
A wedding doesn’t have to cost much at all. Registry office, 2 witnesses and a mealI agree if both are happy with the status quo then it’s all good
The problem is when one isn’t happy and I honestly feel people should be true to themselves,
If your not happy with not being married for whatever reason then you shouldn’t settle as resentment will always bubble under the surface, with you wanting more , and it’s not fair to ask for something more than the other is prepared to give ,
It has to be a joint decision imho
Out after. A few hundred quid - bosh.
She’s clearly waiting for him to ask - for the perfect insta-worthy proposal and the fairytale story to go with it. Doesn’t seem like that version is going to happen though.
Expect Charlotte to talk about how she’s perfectly happy not being married in a video coming to yt/insta very soon!
Wow I can’t manage more than 5 minutes of the YouTube videos. So boring. Who watches this tit
There are some very basic and fundamental reasons you should get married if you want to protect your money and assets (especially if you are a SAHM as Charlotte is). All very boring and mercenary I know but true. Read this for more https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-42134722
This was my point of my post! I was really worried I was going to piss off everyone in this forum with my old fashion crap about marriage, but i'm old fashion about this stuff even if its out dated in today's world. I understand men or women can walk out the door in a second with or without a marriage certificate, I get that and have seen it happen with my own friends and family. I simply see that Mark ""Has his cake and can eat it too" which I find very unfair on anyone in a relationship like that. Its so one sided for what she shows on her vlogs. She has mentioned for years on end that she would love to get married! Buy the woman a damn ring, and make it legal mate for Christ sakes, you already have the same last name. All you need is a ""lazy afternoon and a few dollars"" Peace to all in the forum.
P.s. Oh I have loved reading everyone's opinions on this subject. Its nice when people can voice their different opinions and NOT get all crazy and defensive. Again really enjoyed reading the opposite views to mine, thanks for uploads forum xxx
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Well you know what you want going into a relationship,
I have friends that do not want to marry they’re like no nah nada not me I’m good lol,
It would be equally unfair if the above mentioned friends started dating an old fashioned guy that truly wants the whole shabang!!
And vice versa if Charlotte has always wanted the whole fairytale then she should have been crystal clear from the off .
I have friends that do not want to marry they’re like no nah nada not me I’m good lol,
It would be equally unfair if the above mentioned friends started dating an old fashioned guy that truly wants the whole shabang!!
And vice versa if Charlotte has always wanted the whole fairytale then she should have been crystal clear from the off .
Shes usually crying because she has to send him to his dads... the dramatics, the guilt etc because the younger two had a cry going into nursery.
She is really getting on my nerves whining on about how shes got to get work done thats why the kids are in nursery and Bill can understand she needs to do this. Well guess what Charlotte I cant I dont understand your hardly working its a hobby that pays a bit of money.
Its not just her mind its all these insta mums oh im so busy I cant have the children during the holidays ive got to work if they really did have to work they would realise the struggles most mums go through in the holiday and how hard it really is.
How about for the summer all you insta mums out there do what my friend does shes has her own business and she works full time from home during term time her children are in breakfast club her hubby takes them so she work 8-3 and then collects them sometimes if shes very busy she will do more work once the children are in bed.
However during holidays she has the children all day, then when their dad returns from work he takes over and she starts working so she usually tries to get her work done from 7pm until 11/12ish sometimes if shes really busy she will work into the wee hours of the morning as she tries to be free for family time on weekends. Its incredibly hard but she would say she works from home so she can be a mum full time and I love that about her.
So Charlotte stop whining and do your couple of hours of work a week on a night time.
Its not just her mind its all these insta mums oh im so busy I cant have the children during the holidays ive got to work if they really did have to work they would realise the struggles most mums go through in the holiday and how hard it really is.
How about for the summer all you insta mums out there do what my friend does shes has her own business and she works full time from home during term time her children are in breakfast club her hubby takes them so she work 8-3 and then collects them sometimes if shes very busy she will do more work once the children are in bed.
However during holidays she has the children all day, then when their dad returns from work he takes over and she starts working so she usually tries to get her work done from 7pm until 11/12ish sometimes if shes really busy she will work into the wee hours of the morning as she tries to be free for family time on weekends. Its incredibly hard but she would say she works from home so she can be a mum full time and I love that about her.
So Charlotte stop whining and do your couple of hours of work a week on a night time.
This! I think half the time she's probably not actually got much work to do, she just wants it to look like she does more. I've recently had to give up my business as we're moving abroad, but I'm a beauty therapist. In school holidays, if I had paper work/taxes/rotas to do I'd either get up an hour before the kids to do it, or wait until they were in bed. I'd let all my clients know I'd only be offering weekend or evening appointments when the hubby was around to watch the kids. That's the luxury of being self employed, once you're established you can please yourself. If I was Charlotte I'd take less ad work on or be careful how it falls so I could spend a few hours at the weekend doing work or in an evening.
I totally agree
And some are single parents as well so it’s a struggle without two wages coming in all the extra food shopping and trips out with the kids , I have friends in this situation and the mum guilt is real .
There is no reason that children have to have the fathers surname.
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