LaBlonde
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i LOATHE the mouth twist thinking expression he always does (and that he’s doing in this screenshot).
petition for “ur just a rebound m8” to be the next thread title though
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petition for “ur just a rebound m8” to be the next thread title though
jasonmanford
New member
Have I been summoned?
LiveLaughLube_outloud
Active member
Carrie Hope Fletcher #41: First we cringed, then Joel became unhinged. Praying for a runaway bride, even Tattle's on her side!
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Jansim
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I have a friend who has worked with Carrie on a couple of shows, and is currently working in the West End, I don't know anything about an intervention, but I bought up the subject of Carrie and Joel when I spoke to them yesterday, and the Tatler that said a few posts back that the West End is saying WTF! is spot on. Apparently that's exactly what they are saying, they are becoming a bit of a laughing stock after the 12 days of Joelmas.
summerstrallenshat
Member
Why does he chew itOh my god, even the way he drinks his coffee at the airport makes me want to vomit.Walking , talking ick!
LiveLaughLube_outloud
Active member
Absolutely robbed of a CHF slut era. Are we really going full steam ahead into pushy stage mum era?
allthemyths
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Doesn't quite fit the topic (sorry!), yet I want to get it off my chest quickly: I am happy and strangely touched to see how quickly this thread has become a place of positivity (in the form of shared experiences with bad relationships, for example) and sincere concern for her well being. That's not even a bit of a given, especially not for Tattle. But it just goes to show that most of us here are (former) fans and sympathisers of Carrie who, even after countless years, genuinely want her to be okay and safe.
I hope that she is taking a little time for herself right now and perhaps coming to her senses. Even if it only just dawns on her.
I hope that she is taking a little time for herself right now and perhaps coming to her senses. Even if it only just dawns on her.
Velocinaptor2
Chatty Member
I have it on good authority that they’ve both been so quiet because Joel had another tattoo appointment this morning
Long time lurker, had to finally post because HOLY SHIT…
awkwardjellyfish
Active member
I can’t say much but I’ve heard on the grapevine that there’s an intervention incoming. If Carrie isn’t already having doubts about this whole sorry saga, expect to see her distancing herself from friends fairly soon.
LiveLaughLube_outloud
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My respect for her would go through the roof if she called this off/slowed things down.
Skye green
Chatty Member
I’ve been engaged a week and I’m worried I’m not doing it right. I haven’t given my fiancé a present every time we are apart. I haven’t got a large tattoo in dedication to him. I haven’t got his whole family matching t shirts and had one made for myself. I have taken a lot of pictures of my ring though so at least I’m doing something right 
Right. I am (broadly speaking) up to date on....this *gestures at the C&J shitshow*
I mean, I could go ON given all the absolute shit that has happened over the past few weeks, but I don't think I could cover things as eloquently as many fellow Tattlers. But I do want to say two things (probably not as concisely as I should....)
1) Those SA messages (absolute credit to you, @LilytheSunflower - I really hope I have the right handle - you handled yourself beautifully given a really challenging subject, especially with Joel managing to be a special kind of absolute bellend. I am so bloody sorry for what you experienced, both personally and because of Joel). To me, in those messages, Joel shows who he is. What's the saying, 'when people show you who they are, believe them'? Well, Carrie, there's your future husband. Unable to listen to sense, reason, showing himself to be entirely incapable of supporting SA and SH survivors. Reading those messages, I was absolutely disgusted but not at all surprised - but the idea he can support and excuse the behaviour of such despicable people is truly upsetting. As I know will be the case for so many of us here, I experienced SA and SH, unfortunately at the hands of a family member. I was told to my face I was a liar. That pain has stayed with me; years of counselling has helped and continues to help - but the idea such an odious man with such heinous opinions is someone Carrie wants to legally attach herself to is honestly sickening. I'm not expressing myself well; a combination of anger and jet lag. Men like him are the reason I keep my story locked in a very small box, away from questioning and away from judgement.
2) I have been married a long time. I am very, very lucky. We knew early on, had been friends, and there isn't a day that goes by I don't feel grateful for the partnership I have. If I could ever give any kind of advice to anyone - but, really, what I mean is if I could give any advice to Carrie right now....people will tell you marriage is hard. That every day is a challenge. But actually - marriage can be easy. But ONLY when you are married to the right person. Engagement, wedding? It's nothing. The wedding especially; it's one day. You have to know that you are going into something that will hopefully last for your lifetime. I'm going to be celebrating close to 2 decades in a few years; but it barely feels like it. Because we chose each other then, and continue to choose each other now. Not because of a fairytale or a wish to tick a box by a certain point. It's your life and you only get one, do you ever want to look back and think 'shit, I made the wrong choice?'
Lastly - where is the fucking joy?! I remember being recently engaged and felt like I was on cloud sodding nine - I haven't seen anything even close to that from Carrie? I'm conscious that photos and even videos only offer a very small snapshot of life, but even so. She looked so resigned when she saw him at the airport; if its like that now, how does she expect it to be ten, fifteen, twenty years down the line? It's really, really sad.
I mean, I could go ON given all the absolute shit that has happened over the past few weeks, but I don't think I could cover things as eloquently as many fellow Tattlers. But I do want to say two things (probably not as concisely as I should....)
1) Those SA messages (absolute credit to you, @LilytheSunflower - I really hope I have the right handle - you handled yourself beautifully given a really challenging subject, especially with Joel managing to be a special kind of absolute bellend. I am so bloody sorry for what you experienced, both personally and because of Joel). To me, in those messages, Joel shows who he is. What's the saying, 'when people show you who they are, believe them'? Well, Carrie, there's your future husband. Unable to listen to sense, reason, showing himself to be entirely incapable of supporting SA and SH survivors. Reading those messages, I was absolutely disgusted but not at all surprised - but the idea he can support and excuse the behaviour of such despicable people is truly upsetting. As I know will be the case for so many of us here, I experienced SA and SH, unfortunately at the hands of a family member. I was told to my face I was a liar. That pain has stayed with me; years of counselling has helped and continues to help - but the idea such an odious man with such heinous opinions is someone Carrie wants to legally attach herself to is honestly sickening. I'm not expressing myself well; a combination of anger and jet lag. Men like him are the reason I keep my story locked in a very small box, away from questioning and away from judgement.
2) I have been married a long time. I am very, very lucky. We knew early on, had been friends, and there isn't a day that goes by I don't feel grateful for the partnership I have. If I could ever give any kind of advice to anyone - but, really, what I mean is if I could give any advice to Carrie right now....people will tell you marriage is hard. That every day is a challenge. But actually - marriage can be easy. But ONLY when you are married to the right person. Engagement, wedding? It's nothing. The wedding especially; it's one day. You have to know that you are going into something that will hopefully last for your lifetime. I'm going to be celebrating close to 2 decades in a few years; but it barely feels like it. Because we chose each other then, and continue to choose each other now. Not because of a fairytale or a wish to tick a box by a certain point. It's your life and you only get one, do you ever want to look back and think 'shit, I made the wrong choice?'
Lastly - where is the fucking joy?! I remember being recently engaged and felt like I was on cloud sodding nine - I haven't seen anything even close to that from Carrie? I'm conscious that photos and even videos only offer a very small snapshot of life, but even so. She looked so resigned when she saw him at the airport; if its like that now, how does she expect it to be ten, fifteen, twenty years down the line? It's really, really sad.
GrilledCheese
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Lost all hope
Netsaboots
Well-known member
Sorry if already posted, but... Sarcasm from one of the besties?
LiveLaughLube_outloud
Active member
I would delete my account and never tattle again if Carrie saw the light, swallowed her pride, and broke free of this man.
binchicken
New member
I have been devouring these threads - took a “mini - hiatus” from this site but glad I’m back lmao
My sister and I have bonded over the cringe and she surprised me tonight with an Uber Eats gift card… the little troll haha
My sister and I have bonded over the cringe and she surprised me tonight with an Uber Eats gift card… the little troll haha
