Congrats on your new baby! It’s definitely over whelming at first, I was the same. But my husband did a night every week or so and it kept me sane. Don’t get why she doesn’t do that.I find it so odd that her husband wouldn’t do one or two nights so she’d cope better. I just had a baby and I couldn’t imagine letting a stranger into my house in the middle of a pandemic to mind my newborn. I definitely got overwhelmed with the lack of sleep at the start but my husband took baby one or two nights and I found my feet quick. Now we are all flying it! I’d say if someone told her to plant 5 magic beans in her back garden at midnight and then the baby would sleep she’d totally do it
Don’t get me started on bringing the baby for random treatments because it’s crying she’s such a dose