The biggest fuck you would be for her to release proof, via her solicitors, that all the money is still there.
Speaking for myself i'd feel ashamed of what I've written about her on here, your harlow would get hate from all angles. Every single person here would have cause to apologise.
If all the money is still there, I will make a full apology and a sizeable donation to a Harlow charity that works with and supports disadvantaged people experiencing food insecurity. However, I doubt I will be called on to make such an apology, because if the money was still there, Carly would have proved it by now. The best case scenario is that the money was spent on things which were in line with AMOMWL's objectives, and all is above board and she can prove it. The worst case scenario is the money was spent on her mates' groceries bills, her own grocery bills, holidays and home improvements.
I don't think anyone here needs to feel ashamed of what's been written - we have criticised her public actions, made reasonable assumptions and drawn reasonable conclusions based on what Carly herself has put out in the public sphere.
AMOMWL is chaotic (evidence, all those "did you see my message?" posts on her facebook page).
Carly is not being entirely honest (fake crying on the original video, blaming Companies House for her own shortcomings and failings with regard to paperwork, "I'm having chemo!" no you aren't).
Carly herself is disorganised (oh, I said you were getting food on Wednesday but I've got a hospital appointment, so you'll have to wait. The NHS does not, as a rule, give out very short notice hospital appointments with no warning to people with chronic conditions).
Carly uses emotional blackmail (I'm ill, did I mention I'm doing all this for FREE while having chemo?")
Carly doesn't follow safe food handling practices ("come and furtle through these bags of unwrapped croissants on my drive," "here's a bag of salad that's past it's use by date," "here's a bag of food resting on the ground").
etc etc etc.