Bryony Farmer #3 the know-it-all that knows nothing.

[JustHereForTheAgriculture]

It’s really something to say you will no longer be showing your son’s face online for the sake of his privacy… then do nothing but pose with the back of his head and sell your story to every newspaper that will take it.

When she posted the other week, all dressed up and talking about exciting things, I thought it might be to do with finally getting a job.
But another chance to talk about herself and claim another illness she’s never had seems a lot more fitting.

 

[Itsmeagainat]

I assume you all are aware of this article from a few years ago?

Children of Our Time: How To Help Your Child Excel

A rising star, Bryony Farmer has a lot to say about how she got to where she is. Michele Theil talks to her about her company, Precious Stars, and her upcoming event in Richmond.

www.essentialsurrey.co.uk

Remember her mother is a business coach, so I feel certain she helped do most (or all) of the running of Bryony's (now past) period clothpad business.

Bryony "unconventional child". I think it is just her mother's coping strategy that she has a daughter who is not capable of being uneducated , which is embarrassing for her in comparison to the sons and daughters of her comfortably middle-class peers / social circle who all have achieved university degrees.
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I've had genuine gynaecological issues. Two surgeries. Iron infusion due to bleeding. On my most recent couple of scans they mentioned they can see adenomyosis, which explains a lot of the pain/symptoms I get, but because everything else is now better and things are much improved, it's barely even registered with me. It's just a thing a lot of women get and have to endure.

Does adenomyosis cause infertility in women who are in their thirties?

Separately I feel that Bryony,s self-declaration of asexuality is a self-diagnosis, there should at least have been an expert(such as a psychologist) to ascertain whether or not this was actually the case with Bryony.

 

[Mooncalf]

Asexuality isn't a diagnosis, it's your sexual orientation - just like you don't have to go to a psychologist to assess whether you are really gay or straight.

 

[JustHereForTheAgriculture]

Personally I just think her ‘asexually’ is a more fitting title for someone as unique and unconventional as Bryony than ‘has never managed to maintain a friendship so a relationship was never going to happen and no one is interested in her’.

 

[Itsmeagainat]

Asexuality isn't a diagnosis, it's your sexual orientation - just like you don't have to go to a psychologist to assess whether you are really gay or straight.

No it means including having no sex drive whatsoever. With Bryony, it clearly is a self declaration because she has been clearly closeted for a large portion of her life, she never went out to socialize and meet people, she doesn't even have serious friends, so it's far more credible that she is not attracted to people because of a psychological problem and not because of a sexual orientation/non-sexual orientation situation.
Again a psychologist would actually be able to actually confirm or debunk Bryony's claims of asexuality and while what I outlined here may not be perfect, it is far more credible than Bryony's claims of asexuality.
To be perfectly honest, Bryony's claims of asexuality are not credible or likely at all.
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Personally I just think her ‘asexually’ is a more fitting title for someone as unique and unconventional as Bryony than ‘has never managed to maintain a friendship so a relationship was never going to happen and no one is interested in her’.

That could sum it up very well in that it's not the way bryony thinks and says she is.
(So not asexual per se, "asexual" because she has a psychological problem in connecting with people).
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No it means including having no sex drive whatsoever. With Bryony, it clearly is a self declaration because she has been clearly closeted for a large portion of her life, she never went out to socialize and meet people, she doesn't even have serious friends, so it's far more credible that she is not attracted to people because of a psychological problem and not because of a sexual orientation/non-sexual orientation situation.
Again a psychologist would actually be able to actually confirm or debunk Bryony's claims of asexuality and while what I outlined here may not be perfect, it is far more credible than Bryony's claims of asexuality.
To be perfectly honest, Bryony's claims of asexuality are not credible or likely at all.
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That could sum it up very well in that it's not actually the way bryony thinks and says she is.
(So not asexual per se, "asexual" because she has a psychological problem in connecting with people).

One might have to go to a psychologist if one is unsure of what their sexuality is or struggling with it-when young- but that's entirely different from the issue of Bryony's self diagnosis/ self declaration. Its the arrogance and know it all attitude of her- and it's not the only self diagnosis that it would appear she and her mum have been doing through the years.

 

[smoothie]

She was fairly young and hadn't socialised. To think that not being attracted to one person after a few dates means you're asexual is a total nonsense. The majority of people aren't attracted to any Tom, Dick and Harry. She doesn't seem to understand the very basic idea that you need to meet and interact with people regularly before you happen across one you're interested in dating and/or more. She recently said that "if I meet the right partner one day, great", leaving it wide open for the fact that no one has simply been interested in her and her asexuality will disappear as fast as her CFS ME and head-covering Christianity when she finds someone.
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I assume you all are aware of this article from a few years ago?

Children of Our Time: How To Help Your Child Excel

A rising star, Bryony Farmer has a lot to say about how she got to where she is. Michele Theil talks to her about her company, Precious Stars, and her upcoming event in Richmond.

www.essentialsurrey.co.uk

Remember her mother is a business coach, so I feel certain she helped do most (or all) of the running of Bryony's (now past) period clothpad business.

Bryony "unconventional child". I think it is just her mother's coping strategy that she has a daughter who is not capable of being uneducated , which is embarrassing for her in comparison to the sons and daughters of her comfortably middle-class peers / social circle who all have achieved university degrees.
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Does adenomyosis cause infertility in women who are in their thirties?

Separately I feel that Bryony,s self-declaration of asexuality is a self-diagnosis, there should at least have been an expert(such as a psychologist) to ascertain whether or not this was actually the case with Bryony.

As someone 10 days in to IVF about to have an egg retrieval, I've had many discussions with my medical team about PCOS and endometriosis. The consensus is that it's still very likely to get pregnant and it doesn't affect the baby.
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If there was a problem it would have prevented IUI from working because there would be scarring on the ovaries, tubes and womb lining that prevent ovulation, conception and implantation of the baby without IVF. Bryony needed no procedures and conceived incredibly quickly with minimally invasive IUI.

 

[Dragon100]

Love the newspaper articles but then I like fiction!

 

[Prinnywoo]

Glad to see Bryony has jetted off to gran canaria for her “winter holiday” whilst I’m stuck in work paying the taxes to fund that universal credit she desperately needs. If you can afford a financial adviser and have enough money to justify one, you don’t need to be claiming benefits.

 

[thegoodnaysayer]

Baby on the floor of the plane I'm actually scared for this child!

 

[Himbeerchen]

What is that financial advisor advising her on? Based on the articles it always sounded like she just had a few thousands laying around to fund IVF but still not enough so that her parents offered to help. Surely you don't need a financial advisor if you have less than 10k in savings?

 

[Prinnywoo]

What is that financial advisor advising her on? Based on the articles it always sounded like she just had a few thousands laying around to fund IVF but still not enough so that her parents offered to help. Surely you don't need a financial advisor if you have less than 10k in savings?

Probably how to con the benefits system and rinse it for as much as possible

 

[FrecklyWitness]

Baby on the floor of the plane I'm actually scared for this child!

Bet she tried to argue with the flight stewardess about that

 

[JustHereForTheAgriculture]

At what point is she going to stop calling it solo parenting and just call it what is it? Co parenting with your ageing parents.
Her whole little video was ‘we gave him this. We fed him that. The grandparents carried all my tit’
Imagine getting to an age where you’re financially and commitment free enough that you can get away a couple of times a year… only to have to bring your incredibly high needs daughter with you and her baby who you’ll likely be excepted to look after most of the time.
I wonder if they thought that baby would be the making of her

 

[Kendopixie]

I do find it deeply ironic that she considers herself so mature and independent but she treats her parents in exactly the same way as a spoilt teenager does. Only with a spoilt teenager it's usually "buy me these jeans, give me money for alcohol, I need that no matter what, drive me here there and everywhere", whereas in Bryony's case it's "buy me a baby, take me to unproven medical nonsense, look after the infant you bought me, drive me here there and everywhere".

 

[smoothie]

Bet she tried to argue with the flight stewardess about that

Yes, the patriarchy was suppressing her right as a woman to neglect her child and put him in danger.

 

[Kb26288]

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again because it just baffles me- why are her parents ok with their adult daughter and her baby coming on every bloody trip and holiday they go on? Why is Bryony ok with this? It’s just bonkers. Obviously it’s because they’re paying for it and of course spoilt Bryony couldn’t be left a home alone with a baby for the length of time mummy and daddy are on holiday.

Madness. Absolutely insanity the whole thing.

 

[Soapy]

Just sticking this here for my own reference, as im sure there will be plenty more to add soon enough. "Winter holiday" my arse we're 2 days off March for crying out loud.

So since Oryn was born, she's had (that we know of, but we also know she won't pass up a chance to brag)

• a weekend away to a friends house
• Guernsey with the parents
• France with her parents
• centre parcs with the mum pals
• beach holiday with the mum pals
• the cold cruise with the parents
• Gran Canaria With her parents

 

[Prinnywoo]

Just sticking this here for my own reference, as im sure there will be plenty more to add soon enough. "Winter holiday" my arse we're 2 days off March for crying out loud.

So since Oryn was born, she's had (that we know of, but we also know she won't pass up a chance to brag)

• a weekend away to a friends house
• Guernsey with the parents
• France with her parents
• centre parcs with the mum pals
• beach holiday with the mum pals
• the cold cruise with the parents
• Gran Canaria With her parents

She’s had more holidays in the last year that I’ve had in the last 3! (and half of mine were overnight stays at friends where I only had travel costs). It’s absolutely insane how out of touch with reality she is, then asking viewers to donate to her coffee thing

 

[Saucycarrot]

And Now we’ve seen her pubes what have I just watched?

 

[smoothie]

Didn't she have about 4 holidays during her pregnancy too? I've never known such a supposedly poorly woman with such a "terribly difficult" pregnancy manage to go on so many holidays and yet not have one single hospital admission.

I think she has gone away with her parents because she can't parent alone. The fact she has to stay with them every weekend says it all. She's so incapable for a 26-year-old, it's concerning that she has a child that she's so emotionally and physically neglectful of, and clueless about normal life.