Every time Emma posts a “I’m so much happier now, back in my 20s I was drinking and arguing with friends blah blah blah” post, I think it reveals a lot about her.
Her entire existence is measured in validation from other people and being the centre of attention.
Nobody forced her to drink excessively in her 20’s, but she did as it’s what everyone else was doing. The influencer kitchen of perfection that everyone seems to have that she just had to get is another example of this.
The arguments with friends, making up and apologising, all kept her the centre of attention. By her own admissions, she sounds like she was the toxic friend in a group and I doubt they put up with her bs forever. More likely, they began to distance themselves from her and slowly she wasn’t invited out. Much like not being invited to “influencer” stuff.
Every single post she makes on Instagram is in some way linked to having people tell her how amazing she is. Whether that be thinly veiled or screaming obvious. Prime example from today “the people from the beeb said I had an eye for design”. So looking for the validation that she does (when I suspect the reality was someone went to your bathroom and wondered why she was being watched by a photo of Emma, her sister and her mum!!)
Emma’s belief that she needed therapy (with a medical diagnosis or not) had nothing to do with “trolls” or her “job” or even her feeling of worth. She is just a narcissist who can’t handle the feeling that she is being left out.
Her entire existence is measured in validation from other people and being the centre of attention.
Nobody forced her to drink excessively in her 20’s, but she did as it’s what everyone else was doing. The influencer kitchen of perfection that everyone seems to have that she just had to get is another example of this.
The arguments with friends, making up and apologising, all kept her the centre of attention. By her own admissions, she sounds like she was the toxic friend in a group and I doubt they put up with her bs forever. More likely, they began to distance themselves from her and slowly she wasn’t invited out. Much like not being invited to “influencer” stuff.
Every single post she makes on Instagram is in some way linked to having people tell her how amazing she is. Whether that be thinly veiled or screaming obvious. Prime example from today “the people from the beeb said I had an eye for design”. So looking for the validation that she does (when I suspect the reality was someone went to your bathroom and wondered why she was being watched by a photo of Emma, her sister and her mum!!)
Emma’s belief that she needed therapy (with a medical diagnosis or not) had nothing to do with “trolls” or her “job” or even her feeling of worth. She is just a narcissist who can’t handle the feeling that she is being left out.
annoys the hell out of me lol
