Brummy Mummy #116 On the Ticky Tocky with her tacky Tiki

[Frankie75]

Three things

1. you know how they say mens ears get bigger as they get older? Well blabs nose is increasing in size by the month

2. she says she needs hours of silence after speaking to people, SHE NEVER SHUTS THE duck UP … blah blah blah bleeping blah every day except Sunday

3. what’s with the lying naked under a towel Just do a full frontal naked thread, just get your fanny out, flash your arse crack, twirl your naked tits …just do it you know you want to

Her nose is weirdly fascinating, I swear it’s getting bigger each day

 

[GingerWhinger]

So I've just seen this on insta and wanted to point out there's just 2 years difference but there may as well be 10. Erin is never going to grow and reach her potential with her narc mother! View attachment 1436779
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Think you're funny don't you? you vulgar witch!!
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Look at the state of her gnashers ……..

 

[DynamoPollo]

Everything seems all or nothing with her and letting her kids be independent. Like packing wise - maybe they don’t do it all themselves but from age 7/8 I would be told to go find some things I want to take on holiday and progressively over years you end up doing it yourself. Infact by ages of 10/11 I was packing my own bag and my parents would run through and check I brought everything I need but it was up to me to bring the games, etc I wanted.

And on subject of tidying rooms - same principle, my parents would never be fully tidying my room for me past ages of 7/8, like you get help if it’s proper messy but you learn to progressively do things.

Also instead of spending 1 quid here and there on stickers and tat for rewards. Why not just give them a tenner a week or something? Like their childhood never seems chill and just go with the flow, everything is a big deal it seems. Must be draining.

 

[Jossstickjunky]

Living in that house with a mother like her must be really tiring. Never knowing which Emma you will be getting. Those children are treated like commodities to be dragged out as and when she wants but must hide away and be quiet when not needed. They are babied far too much. She needs to let them grow up and be independant in their own rights.
"Teaching" TT to pack a suitcase is just another way of control, it must be done her way!
Scrapbooks are another way of her controlling what they do. Just let them be. It's the first day of the holidays, let them chill. Everything is so micro managed.
She will never let go, they belong to her!!

 

[ohyes]

Living in that house with a mother like her must be really tiring. Never knowing which Emma you will be getting. Those children are treated like commodities to be dragged out as and when she wants but must hide away and be quiet when not needed. They are babied far too much. She needs to let them grow up and be independant in their own rights.
"Teaching" TT to pack a suitcase is just another way of control, it must be done her way!
Scrapbooks are another way of her controlling what they do. Just let them be. It's the first day of the holidays, let them chill. Everything is so micro managed.
She will never let go, they belong to her!!

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Back to Emma, aye, she's such an awful mother

 

[SwizzleMalarkey]

I find it weird how she treats the kids like there is about ten years difference in age rather than two. If Erin is old enough to ‘learn’ how to pack a suitcase then surely she can show Ethan at the same time? I know for some things that bit of extra maturity can make a difference (e.g. going out alone with friends) but I don’t think that applies here. I have the same age gap with my sister and we just always did stuff together and learned things at the same time.

 

[teaandtoast8]

I don’t understand this not getting dressed. Have they washed faces, brushed teeth? Is there no changing into clean underwear? Because once you’ve done those essentials you may as well get dressed. So just get dressed for the day!! Are they going dog walking in scuzzy pjs? I would feel like we were all unwell if no one got dressed. Gross

 

[growapair]

I don’t understand this not getting dressed. Have they washed faces, brushed teeth? Is there no changing into clean underwear? Because once you’ve done those essentials you may as well get dressed. So just get dressed for the day!! Are they going dog walking in scuzzy pjs? I would feel like we were all unwell if no one got dressed. Gross

Totally with you on this. I’m always first dressed in our house a Hate PJ days (sorry to anyone who loves them!), just feels like a total waste of a day to me.

 

[Jellybean79]

So is this gateway packing for Erin? Have I just invented the word packing?! Crazy!

 

[justlurking2345]

I find it weird how she treats the kids like there is about ten years difference in age rather than two. If Erin is old enough to ‘learn’ how to pack a suitcase then surely she can show Ethan at the same time? I know for some things that bit of extra maturity can make a difference (e.g. going out alone with friends) but I don’t think that applies here. I have the same age gap with my sister and we just always did stuff together and learned things at the same time.

But if she showed Ethan at the same time as she shows Erin then what will she do for content in 2 years time?! You cowbags just don’t think things through, do you?
In all honesty, everything she does - parenting-wise and everything else always seems slow and backward. I guess that suits her down to the ground

 

[Good Egg]

I’m so glad someone else said this, I thought I may be some emotionless monster!
I didn’t cry when my children went to school - was I anxious? Of course but I’d never have shown them. When they left primary of course I got a lump in my throat from seeing all the old photos - mainly because some had never been shown to parents. When they started secondary was there hyping them up for the new adventure even and when they left after GCSEs well I was just glad it was done
Is her life and marriage that empty that she’s chosen to invade her childrens lives this much? I feel for Ethan when Erin realises what trouble her mom is causing for her she will be shut down and all of babs controlling nature will be pushed on to him

This is lovely to read, Emma didn’t even congratulate LP in her stories. Another so called friendship I never understood. Worlds apart.

I also wondered if LP gifted BM2 her new book as a lot of the Instahunz received their copy from LP and posted about it too!

Living in that house with a mother like her must be really tiring. Never knowing which Emma you will be getting. Those children are treated like commodities to be dragged out as and when she wants but must hide away and be quiet when not needed. They are babied far too much. She needs to let them grow up and be independant in their own rights.
"Teaching" TT to pack a suitcase is just another way of control, it must be done her way!
Scrapbooks are another way of her controlling what they do. Just let them be. It's the first day of the holidays, let them chill. Everything is so micro managed.
She will never let go, they belong to her!!

THIS!! This was my childhood - summer holidays always made me feel emotional because I never had the freedom to ‘just be’.
It was utterly exhausting. I grew up in a small town where my Narc mum would drag me around “food shopping” where undoubtedly I’d bump into my school mates who’d snigger and laugh and I’d be embarrassed and Narcissistic mother would say “these are not friends they didn’t speak and are laughing at you” really loud in front of them and I’d spend the next six weeks praying they’ll forget or that I wouldn’t bump into them. It was HARD. I feel for Erin more because Ethan although discarded by Babs seems more independent and ready to break the mold. Erin is enmeshed completely- she hasn’t seen it yet. Just like me as a small child. But as I look back on my childhood (and my current MH struggles) boy do I realise that actually it has a lot to bear on why I’ve struggled in adulthood.
Babs is only worrying about herself in all she does. Even those scrapbooks are for her - I mean WTF?
I’ll be interested to see the contrast between Erin leaving primary and Ethan.

 

[GingerWhinger]

There was absolutely no need to share that toe photo, she’s vile

 

[Good Egg]

Basically she just has fungus feet.
She wasted a Dr’s appointment for THAT!

 

[justlurking2345]

There was absolutely no need to share that toe photo, she’s vile

WHY IS HER BIG TOE SO STUBBY?! IM CRYING

 

[AliceInWanderLost]

Sorry she is teaching an 11 year old how to pack? It's hardly a specialist skill. You get clothes out the wardrobe, you think what you might like to take on your holiday, you put them in a suitcase. I don't ever recall my mum teaching me how to pack it was just assumed if I wanted specific clothes I would be responsible for packing my specific things.

she's teaching erin how to pack for a holiday, yet she simultaneously takes control and tidies erin's bedroom for her because finishing year six is such a tough, emotional time! she refuses to encourage either of her children to help out because she hates the idea of them gaining any amount of independence, because if they aren't reliant in her to to remind them to brish their teeth and to wet wipe yoghurt from their faces, her life would have zero purpose.

i'm sure erin will jump at the opportunity to be permitted to select her own outfits to take on holiday - it's only recently she's been allowed to choose which clothes she wears on a daily basis, as babs still controls what ethan wears, to the point she lays out his outfit and underwear the night before to ensure he dresses exactly how she demands. plus the poor boy isn't even allowed any imput into the clothes that are bought for him, as babs has very fixed ideas on what ethan will and will not like - and his opinion is meaningless.

by "teaching erin how to pack" what she means is that she's going to hand down her packing "tradition" of preparing each outfit - complete with underwear, socks and accessories - for each day ahead of time, undoubtedly bleeping labeled with the day of the week they have been assigned to and shoving them into whichever colour of packing cube belongs to the golden child. erin will be happy enough to participate, because she knows that if she pouts a bit, drags her heels and feigns disinterest, babs will automatically reach for the reward box to bribe her into completing the basic task of choosing her own holiday outfits. ofc she's gonna milk the situation for all it's worth - nodding enthusiastically when babs highlights the importance of packing multiple pairs of spare underwear - to earn herself a new lip gloss and body spray!

 

[Lady Doodle]

She is absolutely DESPERATE for content! The toenail stories are just unnecessary and disgusting! It's the first day of the summer holidays and she is slobbing around the house with her manky days old PJ'S on, doing nothing with the kids and most probably reading here,,,,,, While all the time just sitting on her phone posting pointless crap for strangers to read! Her life is so sad, and bizarre!

 

[Tippingpoint23]

She called the doctor about her toe nail? Is this woman single handedly trying to take down the NHS???

 

[GingerWhinger]

She is absolutely DESPERATE for content! The toenail stories are just unnecessary and disgusting! It's the first day of the summer holidays and she is slobbing around the house with her manky days old PJ'S on, doing nothing with the kids and most probably reading here,,,,,, While all the time just sitting on her phone posting pointless crap for strangers to read! Her life is so sad, and bizarre!

4 days ago her toes were fine, so she’s done that damage recently. Just no need & desperate for more health problem content.

 

[SingSong]

What's Erin going to be putting in scrap books in a few years time, pictures of boys shes been out snogging, pictures of her trying cigarettes or out boozing in the park with her friends.

Bab, she's closer to these events than she is to being a baby

 

[Bluesilverfix25]

Im trying not to give myself away too much whilst trying also not to get on my soap box. However Babs, the NHS is on its knees. We have no staff, people suffering post covid with their mental health and you, well you think it’s perfectly ok to waste a GP appointment on a fungal nail!!! I have seen a dying person today who hasn’t been able to access a GP and has missed life saving treatment. You are indeed a giant twit