Clearly not what I said. You're jumping down my throat because you've misunderstood. Weird take.
What I said, what you've misunderstood , is somewhere in the middle. Free but supported.
So, try again.
Edit to add:
Mental health is no fucking joke. It's hugely on the decline tenfold since lockdowns. People in her life standing back, gloating from the side lines, at her decline are the cruel ones.
She needs help, support, probably a friend and if you can't see that now then you probably never will.