Do all of them need to connect? I think sometimes there’s too much expectation on reading to be deep and meaningful in a way that we don’t apply to other forms of entertainment. We quite happily watch TV shows or films simply for something to do and a bit of light relief without expecting them to have some sort of impact on us, so why not books too? Unless you’re reading for academic/development purposes I think it’s fine for lots of books to just fill the time you read them and then never come to mind again. (As long as you’re not double buying of course!)I should say, I have no kids, no partner, no social life, I work from home and work hasn’t been very demanding of late. And we all know I forget books the minute I finish them so I’d also question the quality of my reading. Also, generally I’m finishing a book just because I started it. Few are really connecting. My numbers aren’t to be envied!