Beth Sandland #7 So beige. So bland. So sandland.

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What have I just watched šŸ§- she is clearly out of her depth as a mum & the no shade comment on the train šŸ¤£. Generation repair & self reflective parenting ā€¦ fcking hell Iā€™ve heard it all now. Breeding a generation that will expect apologies for every slight or tough day. She is everything wrong with that generation & the influencer parent šŸ„±
 
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Sheā€™s insufferable. So smug but yet there she is constantly filming those poor children for content (no doubt with her ear plugs in) šŸ™„
 
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Beth is a classic example of someone who wanted a pregnancy and a newborn and didnā€™t consider the toddler, childhood and teenage years. Sheā€™s vile for what she puts online
 
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sheā€™s gone from playing the stay at home mum card to the working mum card - but in reality sheā€™s neither really is she šŸ™„
 
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sheā€™s gone from playing the stay at home mum card to the working mum card - but in reality sheā€™s neither really is she šŸ™„

Sheā€™s a lost little girl trying to cosplay the boss mama bullshit she sees others do online. Itā€™s all pitiful - her and her familyā€™s life would be entirely enhanced if she logged off the internet and lived a sweet normal Oxfordshire Cotswolds life together. Her ego is too big for the simple life though, she lives for the affirmation.
 
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So did she sleep train oxo/olso/slow or not? Because she posted before that she didnā€™t need to because he magically did it him self but now past 24 hours sheā€™s inferred that she has.

shes also posted a commment on another accounts post (which I canā€™t find now) about the new childcare funded places/ tax free childcare and how thereā€™s nothing available to her because teacher is a stay at home dad ā€¦ yet has also posted she makes 6 figuresā€¦ which would disqualify her from tax free childcare anyway - and she canā€™t get funded place because teacher would to be in work for that! šŸ¤Æ make it make sense
 
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I donā€™t know why sheā€™s always been so uptight over sleep. I didnā€™t sleep train my oldest per se, he slept with me until 12 months then we moved him to his own room and basically it took like a week before heā€™d go to sleep without needing me sat by his cot. Kids are smarter than we think šŸ˜… but also I donā€™t care if sally down the street or Beth off of Instagram sleep trained her kids or not
 
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Sheā€™s so self righteous! Sitting on her moral high ground with 2 stay at home parents going on about her non negotiables and how she wonā€™t use childcare until her child is 3.5. Yes well done Beth, good for you but many people have no choice but to use childcare whether they want to or not. It doesnā€™t usually wash with employers when you tell them not using childcare is your non negotiable. Why does she think it makes her a better parent? Iā€™m sure she does these kind of lists at least once a month and itā€™s purely to ruffle feathers and come across as some kind of superior parent.
 
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Sheā€™s so self righteous! Sitting on her moral high ground with 2 stay at home parents going on about her non negotiables and how she wonā€™t use childcare until her child is 3.5. Yes well done Beth, good for you but many people have no choice but to use childcare whether they want to or not. It doesnā€™t usually wash with employers when you tell them not using childcare is your non negotiable. Why does she think it makes her a better parent? Iā€™m sure she does these kind of lists at least once a month and itā€™s purely to ruffle feathers and come across as some kind of superior parent.
Also what about some socialisation for her sons? Like exposure to other children and adults is good for their development?

But hey Beth not all of us married our teachers so I wouldnā€™t be so smug
 
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Sheā€™s so self righteous! Sitting on her moral high ground with 2 stay at home parents going on about her non negotiables and how she wonā€™t use childcare until her child is 3.5. Yes well done Beth, good for you but many people have no choice but to use childcare whether they want to or not. It doesnā€™t usually wash with employers when you tell them not using childcare is your non negotiable. Why does she think it makes her a better parent? Iā€™m sure she does these kind of lists at least once a month and itā€™s purely to ruffle feathers and come across as some kind of superior parent.
Didn't she post that she put them both in Forest school last week?
 
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Sheā€™s so self righteous! Sitting on her moral high ground with 2 stay at home parents going on about her non negotiables and how she wonā€™t use childcare until her child is 3.5. Yes well done Beth, good for you but many people have no choice but to use childcare whether they want to or not. It doesnā€™t usually wash with employers when you tell them not using childcare is your non negotiable. Why does she think it makes her a better parent? Iā€™m sure she does these kind of lists at least once a month and itā€™s purely to ruffle feathers and come across as some kind of superior parent.
Sheā€™s so smug about everything, although Iā€™m sure nursery key workers wouldnā€™t be looking after her kids with noise cancelling headphones in
 
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Sheā€™s so self righteous! Sitting on her moral high ground with 2 stay at home parents going on about her non negotiables and how she wonā€™t use childcare until her child is 3.5. Yes well done Beth, good for you but many people have no choice but to use childcare whether they want to or not. It doesnā€™t usually wash with employers when you tell them not using childcare is your non negotiable. Why does she think it makes her a better parent? Iā€™m sure she does these kind of lists at least once a month and itā€™s purely to ruffle feathers and come across as some kind of superior parent.
And if the opportunity presented itself sheā€™d have those children packed off to boarding school in a heartbeat.

ā€¦..at least the children might get some privacy!!

She is not a natural parent. She lacks empathy and emotional intelligence, for starters.

She is her no.1 priority.
 
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When she says sheā€™s the ā€œworking parentā€ what exactly is she working doing? Whatā€™s her job? Surely sheā€™s not talking about making these reels?? Iā€™m genuinely curious as to what she does to see herself as the working parent.
 
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When she says sheā€™s the ā€œworking parentā€ what exactly is she working doing? Whatā€™s her job? Surely sheā€™s not talking about making these reels?? Iā€™m genuinely curious as to what she does to see herself as the working parent.
It's an insult to actual working parents.

I know working from home and hybrid working is more prevalent now, so some can put dinner on at lunch time. But so many more parents will be actually leaving the house to go to work each day.
 
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It's an insult to actual working parents.

I know working from home and hybrid working is more prevalent now, so some can put dinner on at lunch time. But so many more parents will be actually leaving the house to go to work each day.
Exactly! This made me so angry. I hate people who are preachy about childcare. My SIL is the worst for it. I donā€™t go round asking her what sheā€™s going to do about her pension so I donā€™t know why she feels the need to say things to me about childcare! Beth is just alienating working parents here. Iā€™m all for the woman being the breadwinner and itā€™s great that her husband is so supportive. But saying no childcare until 3 like itā€™s an achievement is so tone deaf!
 
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