Not sure what to make of all this.
My family is ‘blended’ (we have two kids together) and he has two older children. We do the bulk of everything together the 6 of us, but there is some times where we go away the 4 of us but in no way the other children have missed out as they’re already away with their mum or we’ve taken them on holiday just before.
We are engaged and literally don’t want to spend a lot on our wedding because guess what, our kids are our priority. When we do get married , we won’t even have a ‘proper’ honeymoon, as we want to spend the money to take all the kids away.
Granted, I loved caravan holidays as a kid. But in no way we would go abroad with just one child and not the other. I’m so shocked her family think it’s a normal behaviour 🫣