I know she posted it a few days ago about her dad, but I just find it interesting how people preach all these family values and family illness, but don’t recognise their own part in continueing the link. Becki obv values being an auntie, and the input from her parents. But her own potential ill health is going to prevent that for future generations experiencing that with her. It’s well known that having a healthy life can help minimise illness, but she is so oblivious to it. Obv doesn’t stop dementia but being healthy mentally and physically is something clearly she doesn’t want to do.
Im not going to dox myself with details but I work in a clinical setting. The risk of getting vascular dementia can be increased by unhealthy lifestyle, anything that affects the vascular system / puts a strain on the heart; such as smoking, high cholesterol, obesity, inactivity, diabetes etc; as well as genetics. She’s ticking all of those boxes, the stupid oaf.
Theres absolutely no excuse and every reason under the sun for her to get a fucking grip, stop being so childish and take some responsibility for her own health. No one is saying it’s easy, many of us on here have had / are battling EDs, weight issues, addictions etc but there is help & support out there. it sucks that her dads ill, but she’s got no job or kids and all the time in the day to work on improving her health.
She’s lazy and childishly stubborn “ I can’t change, this is me / I won’t change just coz the trolls say I have to / I’m perfectly fit and healthy and beautiful coz random supporters who I’ve never met, tell me I am“
Its her business, I don’t care what she does to herself but when she documents it all very publicly on social media, preaches dangerous messages / misleads her viewers and sad fishes for attention and for monetary gain, then of course she’s going to be judged. And I am here for it.
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