Autistic Interpretations #7 Munchausen by Proxy, Val Brooks

[tellinitlikeitis]

What really bothers me is the way everyone speaks to Jessica. This mornings video for example... Isn't Marlow suppose to be a hired paid " professional" she is more of a babysitter of a toddler.

Every conversation with Jess...from Jess is exactly the same. Not teaching her anything...just the same...
" are you a good one of a bad one? "
"Is your Bessy happy?"
" ohhhh Lord...dirty garbage mess! "
What's for breakfast, what's for lunch? How many? Can I have more? "

Marlow talks to Jess...asks her ridiculous questions ..snickers... And it's the same conversations 100 times a day.

Val...claims it calls Jessica " severe" anxiety... Her anxiety which is far from severe is due to that awful environment! I'd be stressed to bring asked the same questions a million times...barking jumping dogs, messy cluttered house, house full of loud mouths who don't work and are home all day...

One minute they are talking baby talk... And nonsense the next minute Jessica is being "independent" and studying for nursing and getting ready to move out...all nonsense!

I don't talk like this to my children...all nonsense for the camera.... Sadly...Jessica's future is exactly what we see....absolutely empty nonsense filled with lies that the family laughs at.

I can't stand Marlow...if she worked for me and spoke to my child like she was a toddler and laughed ....I'd slap the laughter right out of her.

I’m not trying to defend her but I really believe, judging from things I’ve heard in the past and reading between the lines, that Marlow is caught between a rock and a hard place. From what I’ve heard (from Val) Marlow, in the beginning, tried to tow the line with Jessica but Val would not allow it. I think she just does whatever she’s told at this point to make Jess happy because that is what is expected of her. I believe this is more why they have gone through so many caregivers. Val won’t let them use any ABA therapies on Jess because she doesn’t want to deal with her. It’s difficult in the short term but worth it in the long run. But these people have no vision and just live for the moment because they are lazy and don’t want to make any kind of effort. Also the part about people asking Marlow about her grandmother and her not responding-I believe she was told by her family not to ever discuss her grandmother on AI’s platform again. I’m sure a reaction to finding out about the porn star son. Marlowe’s family seems like very straight laced, Christian southerners and don’t want to be associated with the Brooks family anymore.

I could be wrong but that is my take on the situation.

 

[winnie woo]

I’m sorry but in this mornings video Val kept saying “independently with help”….does anyone else see the problem with this? Which one is it Val? You either do it independently which means ENTIRELY on your own or you do it with help. Val is so damn stupid. That statement literally doesn’t even make sense

When Val speaks of Jess doing things independently, what she really means is someone else does it and Jessica watches. And then they all scream gooood job!

 

[FattyPatty2.0]

They beg for gift cards and money and then throw money out the window on dog clothes. At least 10 outfits. Really, the dogs won’t wear them, just another way to waste money. This makes me so sick. And no mention of donations to food shelves or toys for tots. If you can spend all that money on stupid dog outfits, donate the equal amount to needy people. Like food, Val. But, I forgot you throw food away instead of giving.

These people are greedy with everything in their lives.
-They keep begging for money from poorer families than themselves,
-Val greedily encouraged her daughter to quit her job to “help” her out,
-They are mooching off of Campbell. (With the frivolous way they shop it’s doubtful they are saving money to move out in a few years)
-She greedily kept her mentally ill child away from schools/centers that could help teach her how to live like a productive member of society, but because they tried to unlearning her from all the garbage she’s picked up from having zero discipline in her childhood she was removed from the premises and remains an asshole to this day.
-They are greedily wasting Marlow’s life.. she needs to go to college and do something meaningful for grateful people or for herself…
-and I’m pretty sure they are mooching off of the state govt. Medicaid program. Whichever state they claim it in…

Of course they aren’t giving anything back. Why would they? All they do is take, grift, mooch, and beg. They’re the type of people that hang around charity shop donation centers and take what they want from the pile because they “deserve” it more. It probably wouldn’t even occur to them that they should share with others.
Sorry for the rant!

 

[keepitreal99]

I would not be able to stand anybody (even my small child) in my face or slapping me in the face like Jess is/does. Having her mouth on her mama’s face is just gross. And then she full palm rubbed her nose and put them on Val’s face You can tell that Val doesn’t like it either in this mornings’s video but because of lazy parenting & fear of her tantrums over the past 30+ years, she’s not going to stop now. They all complain about constantly being exhausted but they literally eat grease & flour for breakfast all the time and then get zero exercise. Hmmm…wonder why you’re chronically tired? Here’s your sign!!

 

[grammacloud]

Today’s video, lots of slapping, Val bringing up sadness, a rundown of holiday dinner. Why bring up that Jessica gets sad at holidays. The day is over, she doesn’t even seem to remember being sad. I don’t think that it will generate any money for you Val. Everyone has experienced loss in their lives. We all get melancholy sometimes. It’s part of life. Move on and bring light and joy into your life. If you can do that with all the whack jobs you have there. I am thankful I have a sane family with a little nuttiness thrown in once in a while. We are generally drama free and awake unlike the brooks

 

[misty.]

Sadly...I think some of these people really believe that Val and Jess..are demonstrating true autism ...and unless you actually live or work with autism...you'd never know the difference.

Autism is NOT an excuse for greedy, selfish, rude, no bounderies, hitting, slapping, manipulating....
That's POOR PARENTING....plain and simple.

Val has not taught Jessica manners, personal.space, sharing, calm hands, gentle touch ...how to appropriately show affection, etc....

Autism is hard!!! Yes there's melt downs, sleepless nights, had habits that need addressing, just like ANY child...we teach them manners, not to slap, not to hit and fight, how to behave, how to ask, be kind...etc... Autistic children are no different they also require to be taught .... Sometimes it takes years, lots of love, patience, repitition, consistency ...help from family and doctors etc....

But at 35... Jess is feral. Won't shower herself, brush her hair, keep her fingers out of her nose, keep her hands to herself, eat like a human with normal bites and utensils ....she is like an animal ...and it's all because of lack of parenting from Val...NOT because Val thinks shes autistic... Jess may have slight autism....but it's definitely not her main diagnosis and Val knows it.

So the people who are being lied to, manipulated into thinking this is autism...I feel bad for...but seriously ...educate yourself better before giving all your money and support to an unemployed stranger on the internet who is exploiting a real illness for trips to Disney and eating out 7 times a week.

Wallfly you and Susan830 have a great way of writing a post we all are thinking. Everything you both say is heartfelt and true.

 

[LotsToSay284]

If you go back and look at old videos Jess would say can I pat you even 10 months ago, it turned into slapping more recently and is much harder and much more hatefully done now

 

[Milesamha]

It's really no wonder Jess has no manners. The entire live was nose picking, farting, fingerings grossness! Then Val walks over to give Jess the workds most awkward hug & mouths things to Hanna. It's so weird! Hanna sits for a good 15 minutes digging through, rubbing her nose & eating out of the dish of "do dads" then fondles some into a bowl for her 'dad'....I really wish I hadn't watched this live it really makes me wanna hurl!! what is wrong with these people?!
I wouldn't eat at their house if someone paid me!!

They are disgusting people; Jess being more a yucky creature than any of them. Picking her nose and farting is too much!

 

[Susan830]

So I presume that no one in the family cares about Leo and Lora’s careers? It’s one thing to decide medicine isn’t right for you and go on to something else, but hardcore porn??? Am I the only one here that is pretty sure I’d cut off communication with my child who did this?? Am I naive? Meet my son! He and his wife do custom porn videos, even swap partners and with multiple people. We’re so proud of him. Gag! They must be since he was with the whole family at Thanksgiving. I don’t get it.

Not sure I could cut off all communications if it was my kid but I sure would distance myself. God only knows what kind of sexually transmitted diseases he could be carrying from those multiple partners. This whole situation is pathetic....did he turn to porn because he wanted to or did his wife push it on him? Turn from a Neurologist to porn...smh.
And did anyone else wonder when he was with then at the boat parade could some people have recognized him??

It makes me sick! She’s come to expect so much and shows her displeasure when she doesn’t get loads of packages and money. Val could have taken the opportunity of the ‘giving season’ to ask people not to send gifts for Jess but to donate to charity instead - in fact, she could have led by example by giving to needy people herself and also involve Jess in that. Yes, she would have to tell Jess that for a few weeks there would be no gifts. In fact, it would be even better to stop them altogether except for her birthday. It’s sad to see how conditioned Jess is to take from people all the time. I would be embarrassed if my children were so expectant and downright rude . . . including my two young adults with autism! Absolutely disgusting.

And that Lynn Berkheimer must be a nut case! She sends clothes to Jessica every week! I sure would like to get a package like that every week but Greedy Jess just cares if there are cards or food in the packages!
Now she is one that could help a needy family because her gifts are expensive (and matching). Forget the Brooks family as they can afford stupid dog costumes so they should be able to by Jess clothes. Help a needy family this year! Not ungrateful Jessica!

 

[winnie woo]

And she seemed to know just where she wanted to put them! She can see what she wants!

She’s not employable because she can’t follow rules, she beenn taught they don’t apply to her, when they are dared to be enforced by anyone is authority she hits, bites, spits and threatens all confirmed by Val’s blogs. Her movements and recognition prove she’s not as blind as Val wants everyone to believe. She can see a crumb of food from a mile away.

 

[misty.]

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Misty I am wondering if Marlow got squat after her grandmother died. I assume she has parents and probably Aunts and Uncles who were in line in front of her. Plus with all the time she has been taking off that Val seems miffed about wondering if she had to move? I think that her closeness with her grandmother was all for show on the camera.
Plus Marlow has mental issues too. Did you notice how she laughs inappropriately? Someone made a comment during that live about being sick, it was mentioned on camera and apparently she had scrolled to something else she found funny and laughed hysterically. That person was miffed and she tried to backtrack but smiling the whole time and holding back laughter! She is as sick as the rest of them!

Susan830 yes your correct. The giggling like a 13 year old girl annoys me hugely. Why does she do that constantly??

 

[pokermom]

Who has seen the new ice cream “What’s the Deal”? They have stopped to an all new low. Seven flavors of Little Debbie ice cream for Jess and Hannah to try and decide which is the best. There wasn’t any reason for Jess to try them. We all know she is choosing the brownie one. BUT never fear, Hannah gets each bite for her and feeds her like a baby. After choosing the crowning one she gets a bowl. But according to Val she doesn’t buy sweets. Stick a fork in me, I’m done.

 

[pokermom]

Today’s live was very telling, at least the little part I watched. Not near as many packages. One lady sent bandages instead of cards and said she would send cards when she stops picking. That will be NEVER. Jess is sooo tired. I think they are intentionally making her tired before filming to keep her mouth shut. They’re afraid of what she might say. Jess gets up to leave and stands behind Val. Val gets up and says something and you hear Jess sa “Where’s my money?” Then mumbling for a good minute or two and Val whisks her off. I bet if we could hear all that she’s telling Jess to take her a$$ to her room and stay there. Val’s gone about 5 minutes and comes back saying she had to tuck the baby in bed. What happened to her putting up laundry? And the have “joyful life”? Yea, right.

 

[keepitreal99]

Today was Leo & Lora’s moving day so Bad Daddy was probably helping them move & get their basement dungeon set up so they can resume filming.

 

[grammacloud]

Why do people have to give big words to ordinary things. Community access is still errands, don’t try to fancy it up.

Meaningful to who, Val?

 

[FattyPatty2.0]

She looked practically catatonic until they got out the gifts that she knew exactly how many there were. Did you see her entire demeanor change when Hannah read the part in the card about “nursing money” lol. She was like a pointer dog that sniffed a rabbit.

 

[FairlyCertain]

Today was Leo & Lora’s moving day so Bad Daddy was probably helping them move & get their basement dungeon set up so they can resume filming.

So I presume that no one in the family cares about Leo and Lora’s careers? It’s one thing to decide medicine isn’t right for you and go on to something else, but hardcore porn??? Am I the only one here that is pretty sure I’d cut off communication with my child who did this?? Am I naive? Meet my son! He and his wife do custom porn videos, even swap partners and with multiple people. We’re so proud of him. Gag! They must be since he was with the whole family at Thanksgiving. I don’t get it.

 

[Booboo01!]

So Val and Hannah- You are saying Jess had fried mozzarella sticks fried chicken tenders fried tater tots and a huge piece of chocolate fudge cake with ice cream. So the exact same thing she orders most of the time. Why are we proud and so happy and cheering for her? I’m lost? No salad no vegetable no trying anything new. In fact you are encouraging this. Anyone understand?

Wait I forgot she used the word excellent. Lmfao I can’t make this shit up!

 

[winnie woo]

Between the extra drugs and the verbal threats and instructions she is given before being videoed she doesn’t know what she can or can’t say


Yes I agree, extra drugs to keep her out of their way for their teenage
get together

Jess is definitely over medicated, she’s not the same person she was a yr ago. Sometime anti anxiety medication can work the opposite and make everything worse. She has anxiety everyday according to DR Val so they’re obviously not working. She bumping into tables and misjudging the position of doors because of the drugs. She’s like a zombie, she can’t seem to form a complete thought without prompting. It’s showing in her appearance to, darker circles, pale completion, weight gain, hair like straw. Not long ago Jessica at least looked a lot healthier and happier.

 

[Oompaloompa]

Does she have a speech issue? She slurs a lot and mumbles.
This is another video of edits! Watch how it is edited every few seconds, that is so pitiful and shows how badly they edit that the edits are visible.
Hearing this version makes it even more sad that she “coasted along BUT HAD A JOB OF COURSE” and what changed that now it’s acceptable not to have a job????
Being OUTSIDE makes her happy????? Funny she never goes outside????
How can she not see her mother controls and is selfish in her treatment of her children???
it’s sickening to me

Over medicated??
Agree. It's all BS!
So proud of her "Bachelors Degree". For what?! What a lazy waste!!