Ashley James

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Peak attention seeking. She knows what she is doing and has no shame!
She does. She is deliberately being provocative so she can call people perverts if they say anything. She thinks she’s speaking on behalf of a group of women about normalised breastfeeding but shes not being normal about it. New mums want to successfully feed their babies. Not parade around in their underwear, pouting at the camera every 5 minutes.
 
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I genuinely think she is not well.
I think she didn’t realise how hard having a baby is. She kept comparing it to a marathon, because you know, she’s ran two marathons 🙄 Oh and comparing having a baby to having a dog. Having a lockdown baby is very very hard. I’ve had one myself (she was born before March lockdown last year but not long before that). There is no help (although she’s bubbled up with Tommy’s parents), nowhere to go, nothing to do with them. It makes it all so much more harder. She’s having postpartum issues, quite a few of them (boob rash, skin, prolapse). She is probably seething that Tommy gets to work without having to look after Alfie. I think she might be dabbling into postpartum depression because she had this idea in her head how easy and positive it’ll be but it turned out nothing like she expected. She didn’t get any proper baby toys for Alfie, because It doesn’t match the interior 🙄 I mean for real. Get that kid some plastic crap and hell he happy on the floor while you post on Instagram how happy you are (🙄) with your postpartum body and how okay you are that you can’t put your jeans on. 🙄
 
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I think she didn’t realise how hard having a baby is. She kept comparing it to a marathon, because you know, she’s ran two marathons 🙄 Oh and comparing having a baby to having a dog. Having a lockdown baby is very very hard. I’ve had one myself (she was born before March lockdown last year but not long before that). There is no help (although she’s bubbled up with Tommy’s parents), nowhere to go, nothing to do with them. It makes it all so much more harder. She’s having postpartum issues, quite a few of them (boob rash, skin, prolapse). She is probably seething that Tommy gets to work without having to look after Alfie. I think she might be dabbling into postpartum depression because she had this idea in her head how easy and positive it’ll be but it turned out nothing like she expected. She didn’t get any proper baby toys for Alfie, because It doesn’t match the interior 🙄 I mean for real. Get that kid some plastic crap and hell he happy on the floor while you post on Instagram how happy you are (🙄) with your postpartum body and how okay you are that you can’t put your jeans on. 🙄
Totally get that! My boy was born Oct 2019 so not a lockdown baby but when he reached the age that I wanted to do stuff outside the house with him everything was closed. I really feel like Ashley’s trying to put on a facade but she can’t decide which to stick with so she’s seeming really scatty and all over the place. She had a bit of a social media break before Alfie was born, I think she needs one again.
 
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Why is she so over the top about "Alf coming first"? Do we need to state multiple times our kids come before work? Seems like she trying to prove something she doesn't need to prove.
 
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I imagine having a baby in lockdown to be difficult, lack of support, meeting other new mums, everyone feels insecure through COVID and bringing up a new baby in to this very surreal world must be extra tricky, but she’s an absolute rooster. She can’t decide whether to go down the route or woe me or be super aggressive to help or go super cocky over his wonderful motherhood is. It can be all of the above, you can struggle with the new life you’ve got, you can relish the support of others and appreciate the advice given and you can try to enjoy the little joys motherhood brings and sometimes in those early days/weeks/ months it can feel so very thankless.
 
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The amount of stuff she is gifted is SICKENING. She’s got money, why all the freebies? Put your bleeping hands in your pockets for once! There’s people out there who are in desperate need and she’s showing off all this free rit on her insta. Read the room? John Lewis can do one aswell! It’s not a coincidence that she was asking for ‘recommendations’ (on the beg) for baby toys and they magically send her a box full! Vile, just vile.
 
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Why does every point / argument / rant she posts about *have* to be accompanied by a half naked photo of her posing🤮 (just don’t comment on the fact she’s half naked though). She’s so narcissistic it’s unbelievable.
 
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The amount of stuff she is gifted is SICKENING. She’s got money, why all the freebies? Put your bleeping hands in your pockets for once! There’s people out there who are in desperate need and she’s showing off all this free rit on her insta. Read the room? John Lewis can do one aswell! It’s not a coincidence that she was asking for ‘recommendations’ (on the beg) for baby toys and they magically send her a box full! Vile, just vile.
So true. I googled one of the #pr product babygrows that Alf was wearing last week and it retailer for £48!!!!! For literally a piece of fabric 😩 I was stunned.
 
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The amount of stuff she is gifted is SICKENING. She’s got money, why all the freebies? Put your bleeping hands in your pockets for once! There’s people out there who are in desperate need and she’s showing off all this free rit on her insta. Read the room? John Lewis can do one aswell! It’s not a coincidence that she was asking for ‘recommendations’ (on the beg) for baby toys and they magically send her a box full! Vile, just vile.
the amount of stuff John Lewis gifted her is actually obscene! thats hundreds of pounds worth of stuff 'arranged' for her by some pr company!
 
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Has she got no common sense this woman? Her baby is 2 months old and she is propping him up to sit ‘like a big boy’. What on earth is wrong with a mat on the floor?
 
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the amount of stuff John Lewis gifted her is actually obscene! thats hundreds of pounds worth of stuff 'arranged' for her by some pr company!
John Lewis seem to have gifted several so called influencers with the same box and clothes etc. Is it supposed to make us all want to buy from them? Don’t know about you guys but it has the opposite affect on me.
 
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John Lewis seem to have gifted several so called influencers with the same box and clothes etc. Is it supposed to make us all want to buy from them? Don’t know about you guys but it has the opposite affect on me.
Same for me ! it really puts me off companies when they send stuff to people that could easily afford to buy the stuff themselves!
 
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