Ashley James

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John Lewis seem to have gifted several so called influencers with the same box and clothes etc. Is it supposed to make us all want to buy from them? Don’t know about you guys but it has the opposite affect on me.
Same here, I was annoyed as I ordered something from them a couple weeks ago but I’ll be thinking twice now.
 
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Another reason not to order from JL. They are already closing stores so why the hell are they wasting money gifting.
 
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Her stories today regarding feed baby while out and about ending with having to sit on pavement as no seats available and labelling it ‘bad parenting’ I’m totally confused, surely that’s good parenting?! Or have I misunderstood the word bad 🤣
 
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Her stories today regarding feed baby while out and about ending with having to sit on pavement as no seats available and labelling it ‘bad parenting’ I’m totally confused, surely that’s good parenting?! Or have I misunderstood the word bad 🤣
Yeah same, she fed the baby when he needed feeding, seems pretty standard to me. Was probably a bit awkward for her, but she did the best thing for him at the time which is being a good parent!
Bad parenting is when she props him up seated all the time, doesn’t support his head and sleeps with him on her chest all night (not a safe way to cosleep!)
She’ll do anything for engagement.
 
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Her stories today regarding feed baby while out and about ending with having to sit on pavement as no seats available and labelling it ‘bad parenting’ I’m totally confused, surely that’s good parenting?! Or have I misunderstood the word bad 🤣
Thought the exact same. “Woman feeds baby” isn’t exactly a negative headline is it? 🧐 she’s beyond attention seeking at this point.
 
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That poor babies head though in the carrier 😰 he’s too low down and he’s just bobbing about. I’m sure she posted about feeding him on the pavement to get praise, why on earth would she post that otherwise 🙄
 
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Ooooo that thing she says she’s doing tonight has got Charlotte DeCarle on it too! Surprised they both agreed to it if the other one was on!
 
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I used to really like. Ash, but since she's had a baby wow!!! Im a mum I know kids take over your. Life but ffs she goes on and is so annoying with it. Also why is she constantly breast feeding on her stories. Yes it natural feed away but does it have to be on every b story 🙄 just cause its natural dosnt. Mean we wanna constantly see it. Having a tit is natural but I don't wanna see that either 🙄

Ooooo that thing she says she’s doing tonight has got Charlotte DeCarle on it too! Surprised they both agreed to it if the other one was on!
What happened with these does anyone know?
 
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I used to really like. Ash, but since she's had a baby wow!!! Im a mum I know kids take over your. Life but ffs she goes on and is so annoying with it. Also why is she constantly breast feeding on her stories. Yes it natural feed away but does it have to be on every b story 🙄 just cause its natural dosnt. Mean we wanna constantly see it. Having a tit is natural but I don't wanna see that either 🙄


What happened with these does anyone know?
Pretty sure the pavement stunt was so she could reference it for tonight.
 
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Can’t deal with the constant begging for stuff, right on cue a box of sensory items turns up a week after asking for ‘ideas for activities’

now asking for clothing ideas as apparently she only bought 0-3 now he’s in 3-6 so needs a new wardrobe
I find it highly unlikely she only bought 0-3 as I remember when she was pregnant always showing baby clothes she had bought and I thought to myself my baby is due at similar time and I was so unprepared with the little few I had
Actually on her nursery highlight she shows about 10 outfits which are 3-6

I hate this constant begging culture from influencers 🙁
 
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Did anyone see yesterday when the baby was outside on the garden furniture, Tommy was working out and Ashley was filming from inside.. he so easily could have fallen off the seat and onto the floor, no one was near him to stop that happening. So irresponsible!
 
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Why’s she constantly propping him up like that, like he’s about 6 months old or something? It’s quite alarming!
 
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I can’t bare the amount of free stuff. It is morally so wrong! How many people are currently struggling on statutory mat pay and trying to make ends meet!! She pretends she needs stuff then gets sent it and it’s just driving me insane. Exactly as someone else just said, she had loads of 3-6 month stuff! She has no idea how it feels to see people showing off things that haven’t been worked for and paid for. On the elvie post she had the electric pump, manual pump, pelvic floor trainer and catch device. That’s nearly £600! Not to mention the two baby carriers, bouncers, pram etc. It’s like the child is a content accessory!

One more thing! Sorry I’m ranting now. She doesn’t even show the things she’s advertising properly! So why does she get so many things sent to her? She uses the slings incorrectly, she talked about the elvie catch and said you wear it all day and collect the milk.. you don’t, it’s max 3 hours. Everything is rushed and then never talked about again! You know how some influencers clearly research their stuff and sound knowledgable?
She says she only uses products she is passionate about.. so that’s soya milk, jewellery, photo albums, two types of sling, fence paint, maltesers, online cards, deodorant, and the rest! She clearly says yes to most things doesn’t she!
 
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I will however give her props for highlighting how non existent aftercare is once you have given birth so pleased she’s drawing some attention to that and using influence for good!
 
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I will however give her props for highlighting how non existent aftercare is once you have given birth so pleased she’s drawing some attention to that and using influence for good!
Yeah I have to admit I've been lurking on here and I do agree with all the negatives like the constant begging etc. But the pregnancy aftercare awareness stuff she does is really good, it's horrifying just how bad the aftercare is and I'm glad she's highlighting it.

On the other hand I am really sick of this whole 'normalise breastfeeding' thing not just with Ashley but influencers in general. No one has ever said breastfeeding isn't normal. By campaigning to normalise something you are actually insinuating that it isn't in fact considered a normal thing, when actually it is by the majority of people. Most people get on with it without shouting from the rooftops and storying it constantly. Yes you may get the rogue horrible fool who makes a comment to a woman breastfeeding in a cafe but most people just politely avert their eyes to give the mum some privacy and get on with the day. Pooing is normal too, does that now need to be plastered over social media? Having a period? These are all important bodily functions too but people generally don't want to discuss bodily fluids as it's generally private, that does not mean it's not normal! Ashley really does not have to constantly show us her boobs in an attempt to 'normalise' breastfeeding.
 
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Doesn't she moan about weird comments from blokes? But then shares a story saying she's completely naked 🤣 she was weird pre baby but she's deffo worse now she's had the baby

Also I don't think I've ever just strolled round doing stuff naked cos I was too busy with the baby 😂 always managed to get dressed...
 
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She’s the weird one. Even if you were ‘starkers’ as she put it, why post it? As pp have said why is she walking round naked anyway. I think she’s another influencer narcissist
 
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Doesn't she moan about weird comments from blokes? But then shares a story saying she's completely naked 🤣 she was weird pre baby but she's deffo worse now she's had the baby

Also I don't think I've ever just strolled round doing stuff naked cos I was too busy with the baby 😂 always managed to get dressed...
Same! My boobs would leak everywhere if I didn’t at least have a bra on.
 
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