Ashley James #48 She wants her friends pyjama distance and to forget her kids existence

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I used to put my babies in the pram to sleep in spring and summer, but did it on my patio in my secured garden. Wtf is she doing it out the front for? She has a garden?
 
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I used to put my babies in the pram to sleep in spring and summer, but did it on my patio in my secured garden. Wtf is she doing it out the front for? She has a garden?
The £1.6 million house can’t fit the double buggy through the front door or round the back likely. She’s on the beg for a bugaboo like Jas has for coco.
 
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If only she had a Google watch she could use to direct her to the nearest baby group or activity...
 
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No sorry I mean to go to nursery. Then Ada fell asleep on the way home.
It did look like Alf was sat up in it, and the other seat was laid flat for Ada to sleep. Maybe Ad’s just sleeping sat up. She’s not just a mum…she’s an amateur mum 🥴🥴
 
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Ha ha ha ha the idea of Trash in the local mum Facebook groups has just sent me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the laugh I needed today
Lovely Day x 🤣🤣🤣
 
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Has a 3.5 year old and doesn’t know about Happity 👀
My daughter is a couple of months younger than Alf, all the baby groups were open, you just had a wear a mask usually
 
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i am so embarrassed for her that she has to ask essentially how to google elc activities near me. its the same with finding a dentist. Just bloody google it ash. Would help if she knew what kinds of classes she wanted them to be in. even if its just swimming like she used to do! totally pathetic.

I get not being an arts and crafts mum, mine never was but we had aupairs and they did lots of arts and crafts with us. Just required a parent to toddle down to the local shop and buy the supplies. even that can now be done via amazon.

How is alfie still in a pram. he is 3.5!!! he needs to be walking now. its unbelievable.

and Ash, tip from someone whose parents also did not enjoy the 'stereotypical mum stuff' lol what even is that - my parents regularly did 'adult' things on the weekends. trips to b&q, antique shops, galleries, museums - we were always brought along and yes we did get bored and yes we did act out and yes our parents had to discipline us in public but that was an essential part of growing up! along with eating meals at the dinner table all together. She has absolutely no imagination and no personal parenting philosophy so shes flailing about like a fish gasping for air. What kinds of activities does she want her children to be involved in? gym, dance, karate, team sports, music... whatever it is - but she lacks a vision or any idea about her childrens extra curricular education. She genuinely thinks that education / raising her kids is not her responsibility. its so bizarre!
 
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Right she’s moved to an area that is very good friendly with a range of classes and activities on her literal doorstep (the MyGym down the road or kid’s gym tumble sessions above Sainsbury’s Southside would really be great for Alf for a start) bloody ten a penny music sessions all over the shop every day of the week and ages basically says she can’t be fucked to do any of it because it’s not really her. They last for 45 minutes tops Ash! Selfish witch! What is the actual point?!

I mean did I enjoy drinking piss weak coffee in a church hall playgroup this morning singing My God is so Mighty?! No I did not particularly but my son loves it and it’s great for socialisation and playing with toys we don’t have at home. She cannot do a SINGLE thing that benefits the kids over her in any way. She really should never have had children.
 
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Oh duck off!
She’s getting right on my nerves with all this nonsense;

I’m a really good mum-I know I’m a really good mum.

I’m not one of ‘those’ mums- what? The ones that actually like their children & want to spend time with them and ( god forbid) cook an actual meal

A dig at dad’s again.

And ‘I work’ No you don’t-you pretend you work to justify being a tit mother.

Christ! As bad as it sounds, I really want the wheels to fall off for her.
 
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Can film elaborate reels, advocate for women's voices (unless you're'those mums') and apparently travel the world confidently. Can't use Google to search for sodding baby groups. Make it make sense!
 
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And you can bet your bottom bleeping dollar not a single one of those ‘perfect’ mums think they are a good mum at all.

She’s so insulting to mums. I want throw my lunch at her
 
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Child 3 weeks younger.
It was national lock down until March, stay at home ended 29th. Previously it was bubbles (so couldn’t meet grandparents, friends). After that it was still scary to expose yourself and baby and that weird time when you could go to a football match but not attend hospitals visits or have too many at a funeral. Still pre-vax. Outdoor attractions was mid April but it was bloody freezing and indoor kids play was mid May (both ‘releases’ happened to land on birthdays so I remember specifically)

Ash over blows it like it limited his whole first year but a lot of groups weren’t on because they didn’t get the numbers, people were still scared, you had to wear masks and socially distance at the ones that were. It needn’t have stopped her taking him as it opened up more, better weather for outdoors, vax rolled out but she isn’t lying, his first months were lock down. And it was bleeping horrible.
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she actually hates men and women alike. she judges everyone who doesn’t live how she does, i.e. being an absent parent who relishes in it
Yikes!!! This has to get backlash surely?!!? She’s lost the plot!
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I think she is actually so grotty she wore the same clothes on Sunday after being ‘sick’ Saturday. Ada’s wearing the rose outfit on Saturday, then pastel co ord on Sunday. We know Ash’s hygiene isn’t the best 🤢
I think you’re right. 3rd day in it 🤢
I thought she’d got someone in to look after Ada and was lying to say had it but it was actually Sunday night’s pic.
 
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She'd get the shock of her life if she took A&A to any groups and realised "those mum's" that she's so dismissive of are more than likely educated, professional women who probably work full time but condense hours to take kids to activities, reduced hours/given up work because their partners are high earners or financially it didn't make sense for them to return etc. She'd be humbled that she's not actually anything special, her life is average and she's a tit amateur mum.
 
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She chats so much tit.

Who is she talking to that is stereotyping mums in the way she talks about? I have literally never come across anybody in my 30 years of life that has talked about women and mums in the way she does. What's this "masculine career" bollocks she's spouting 😂

I'm really happy that I'm on a successful career path AND ALSO get to spend maternity leave going to baby massage classes and spending time with my child. WE CAN DO BOTH, ASHLEY. nobody has EVER made me feel like can't?
 
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I don’t understand how she can call herself a “voice for women” when she’s so offensive and has such negative views of women, especially mothers.
 
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