Ashley James #46 Tommy the house Elf - Prisoner of Ash-kaban

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Heyholetsgo

Her sister seems the complete opposite of her and dare I say it, normal. I wonder if she thinks she's a complete knob.
 
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Algeronwashere

JarvisCockerSpaniel said:
‘A bad of honour’ oh my fucking life.
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It’s interesting where her mind goes. I’ve never known anyone suggest it to be a badge bad of honour but she clearly believes it is for some reason. Also dragging Alfie down again bcoz he didn’t give her a perfect birth experience. How dare he do that to her! Poor boy!
 
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moimoi

Fucking hell, she’s really fingering herself over her awful Katie Price BAFTA’s look.
 
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MillionDollarBaby

FOR THE LAST TIME, ASHLEY.
You were not stitched up incorrectly.
You had sodding vaginismus, which was explained to you was psychological.
You’ve told us this.
Stop rewriting history.
 
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lalalalaletmecomplain

Ashleys bafturbating aside, I was listening to the Luanna podcast and they mentioned her, how people like her are probably only on a couple £100 for TM and they wouldn’t get out of bed for that
 
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Lurker121

Alfie is way too big for that cozy toes. Why is he even in it, it was boiling on Sunday!! I can’t believe he even happily sits in it, my three year old would tell me off and say he’s not a baby.

I genuinely cannot believe how many posts she has done talking about how great she looked last night. I saw the latest and literally said out loud oh my god what a fucking narc.
 
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Ss-ldn

lalalalaletmecomplain said:
Ashleys bafturbating aside, I was listening to the Luanna podcast and they mentioned her, how people like her are probably only on a couple £100 for TM and they wouldn’t get out of bed for that
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BAFTURBATING!! Amazing.
That made me laugh out loud. Love it. Thank you
 
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InTheDollsHouse

Splitting these so you can avoid the BAFTA or the birth trauma stuff (or both)

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littlepup

Claims birth trauma. Talks about her perfect birth with Ada and shows video of it with no TW.

Only started claiming trauma way down the line, the posts about Alf’s birth are still there and forgets she shared the details of her debrief that she was ”excited” to read.

Complains about postnatal care but didn’t actually access or research what’s available (not saying it’s good but it’s a sight better than she claims because she rejected the help available)

Demonises Alf’s birth and romanticises Ada’s by being loose with the truth about both.

She’s a dangerous woman to be speaking on this subject.

Didn’t she tell a tattler she wasn’t interested in the discrepancies in maternity care and outcomes for white and BAME mothers? Voice for women indeed!
 
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Heyholetsgo

I don't want to down play birth trauma but what birth isn't traumatic?! I am not trying to set women's rights back or anything lord knows I've had 2 kids myself but there comes a point where you have to process what happens and move on right?
 
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littlepup

Heyholetsgo said:
I don't want to down play birth trauma but what birth isn't traumatic?! I am not trying to set women's rights back or anything lord knows I've had 2 kids myself but there comes a point where you have to process what happens and move on right?
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I disagree as sometimes you can’t process and move on. It’s like PTSD, you can have treatment but you won’t be ‘cured’. You may never accept what you felt or what you lost. I can’t speak to other people but I just know it’s not that easy.

However. Ashley has had multiple people explain to her the reality of her situation but refuses to accept it. She’s not saying ‘I understand the reality but I can’t process it. My feelings don’t change by knowing I wasn’t actually going to die, I still felt like that in the moment and it traumatised me’. Instead she continues to believe her own version of events, rewriting history while, as far as we know, not getting any therapy. It’s always a blame game, always someone’s fault.


My personal thoughts are that her regret and resentment at Alf became “birth trauma” in her mind so she had an excuse for her feelings. She couldn’t allow herself to accept that her feelings toward Alf were not caused by anyone else so she looked for something to blame and it became his birth. The reason I think this is because of the time line of when the birth trauma claims appeared.
 
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sasbeep

So she had to pay for a room for 2 nights even though she couldn’t use it the night before, “due to the kids” but actually she got ready in Laura’s room and went back to Laura’s room to take her makeup off and then got a cab home? She’s a pathological liar at this point.
 
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littlepup

littlepup said:
I can’t speak to other people but I just know it’s not that easy.
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Sorry, I just want to clarify, I mean I can’t speak to/of the experiences of other people. Not, I can’t speak to people about my own trauma.
I just wanted to clear that up as I don’t want to be falsely gaining sympathy or overblowing my own history, because, well, I’m not Ashley.
 
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