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It’s too early here for her bullshit, but this is what I’d be focusing on, Ash. Absent. Note how she says “parents” not just “mum”, so spare me any "would you say that about a man…”
Lily Allen - “Some people choose their career over their children and that’s their prerogative, but my parents were quite absent when I was a kid. I feel like it left some nasty scars that I’m not willing to repeat on mine.”
It’s too early here for her bullshit, but this is what I’d be focusing on, Ash. Absent. Note how she says “parents” not just “mum”, so spare me any "would you say that about a man…”
“Some people choose their career over their children and that’s their prerogative, but my parents were quite absent when I was a kid. I feel like it left some nasty scars that I’m not willing to repeat on mine.”
Sorry no, that’s the direct quote from Lily Allen!!!!
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If I was reading it as Ashley, I’d be thinking about my choices with my own children and how it will impact them in the future.
Finally Ada is in her own, safe sleep space, and was rocked to sleep by Tommy. It’s a shame it’s taken so long and that it’s purely for Ashley’s benefit and not Ada’s own wellbeing, but hopefully this will be the start of some good sleep hygiene and some decent sleep for Ada
But surely she realises that to go from cosleeping to cot is something that takes a bit of effort and routine and not just done because youve got a shitty ten minutes appearance on This Morning and/or can no longer be bothered to do the one bit of parenting that you do. Or is it just mine that had to be weaned into them one nap at a time?
I get being tired, I get being touched out but she is so absent from their daily care and now she can't even be bothered to do bedtimes!
She was biting me, I’m touched out blah blah basically the day after Ada turned one we all called it.
How can you be touched out when your child is in childcare to 6pm?
Why can’t she just admit feeding is a lot and she wants her own space so she feels a year is a good stopping point. She wants to be a BF advocate but makes it sound shit so she’s already undone all that. Just admitting she’s had enough would be far better imo.
I’m confused by Ada’s cot on the monitor. It looks like a bunk bed . Also Alf looks like he’s in a bloody coffin
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