She really does have her own version of reality
It’s too soon to know whether Ada does or doesn’t have difficulties!! She’s certainly not advanced and spends a lot of time zoned out in front of a screen, just like Alf. She’s got an atypical crawl, which theoretically should resolve within a month, but doesn’t seem to be (not a judgement or comment on anyone else’s children, just an observation). Alf may have always been restricted by too small clothes and shoes, but Ada will suffer and be restricted with impractical shoes and outfits, all in the name of looking aesthetically pleasing. Alf’s difficulties become more obvious by the day, there’s plenty of time for Ada to go the same way. Or…she’ll be totally typical, and not happy to be shoved in a pram on the iPad all day long and she’ll give Ash hellI wonder if that’s also why she’s so obsessed with Ada (who I don’t think is that aesthetically cute in a typical way) - because she at least isn’t challenged in terms of mobility or behavior (not Alf’s fault at all of course but Ashley will probably blame him for his short comings).
None in almost 6 years because I’ve been single for almost 6 years! Weirdly, my life hasn’t just stayed the same as six years ago….2 dates in 9 months and she thinks that’s hard done by. Try 2 in 10 years thanks to no childcare and living away from all family (our choice)
Last sentencePoor guy. My 13 month old can climb the stairs with more confidence/ease.
My gut feeling (tho defo may be wrong) is that he is actually getting outside help/treatment and she is purposefully not mentioning it and will announce it sometime in 2024 and be like "he's been going through treatment/getting support for 2 years already you asshole trolls I just didn't want to discuss it for XYZ reasons...." or something. I think she's so embarrassed that he's not the "perfect" child. I think that's why he remains strapped in his buggy with the iPad whenever they go anywhere public. she just wants him to be quiet and draw the least amount of attention to himself and give him as little opportunity as possible to demonstrate any of the behaviours she deems as non-perfect or difficult to handle etc. if she allowed him out of the buggy more to run about or 'socialise' then it may be more obvious that he had delays in development or was perhaps ND and she doesn't want people seeing that when they're out and about and she'd have no clue about how to help him or support him anyway. Even your average "toddler tantrum" I'm certain she would have no clue how to handle in public so she restrains them so it is less likely to happen rather than learn how to parent.
the thing ifind utterly baffling is that she could just NOT show all of these moments that don't paint her in a good light, or highlight neglectful behaviour, or are just plain weird/dubious. She doesn't have to document it and put it on her Instagram.. she chooses to...
someone mentioned above that she must have lied about him climbing into the doona himself as clearly he can't climb, and yes, it's super weird that she would lie about it.. because it's not like she was caught out ie. someone stopped her on the street and said he shouldn't be in there and she's quickly lied to cover face or something.. she's actively chosen to put it out there when otherwise no one would have known about it in the first place. It makes no sense unless she gets some sick buzz from being openly neglectful/in plain sight.
Of course she would.surely she’s not deliberately using her own son’s development issues to goad people
mental isn’t it?! How life changes and doesn’t stay the same?! I got married 4 years ago and since then I’ve had a 3 year old and also recently found out I’m pregnant with twins! We’ve had one date since having our 3yo and I don’t think we will be having another for a very VERY long time.None in almost 6 years because I’ve been single for almost 6 years! Weirdly, my life hasn’t just stayed the same as six years ago….
@graceanatomyLast sentenceI’ve said this a few times now. People don’t believe it’s possible but it is and it’s horrible. That woman has no business being near any child.
100%. The kids are content and engagement which equals money. Good or bad doesn’t bother her, hence sultry half naked pics with her and Ada that could clearly be used on the dark web. She’s sick.Of course she would.
She filmed and shared his distress at the iPad ban but it being in view.
She laughed that he was being told off for something and said let’s go and see.
She laughed that he was in vomit and diarrhoea overnight and thought that was also great content.
She’s used his hair as a tool for engagement.
Nothing is too low for her.
She hated that boy from uteroIt’s their date day today and they’re with the nanny. Any normal parent would probably prioritise taking the kid with the hacked at hair to the hairdressers to get it sorted. But we all know where their priorities lie.
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This woman is utterly bizzarre. Who caveats they never wanted kids? Just say you have 2?
You gave the dog up cos it tried to attack Alf and have resented him ever since. You did find the cat and chose to leave it on the street and put it all on stories.
‘I still lie’. Yeah we know.
Congratulations on hitting the Ashley James milestone of being single for 6 years!None in almost 6 years because I’ve been single for almost 6 years! Weirdly, my life hasn’t just stayed the same as six years ago….
Congratulations, I’ve got twins!mental isn’t it?! How life changes and doesn’t stay the same?! I got married 4 years ago and since then I’ve had a 3 year old and also recently found out I’m pregnant with twins! We’ve had one date since having our 3yo and I don’t think we will be having another for a very VERY long time.
Ohh time. The concept of time. Can you cope
Do I get my own tattle thread if I do that?Congratulations on hitting the Ashley James milestone of being single for 6 years!
You must now spend the rest of your life referring to being single for six years, and making insta reels and captions about this whenever possible.
Right this one bugged me because doesn’t it say she has 3 tattoos?
I’m so glad it’s not just me that couldn’t get what she saidRight this one bugged me because doesn’t it say she has 3 tattoos?
But then she regrets 2 of them, loves 1 of them and is indifferent about 1 of them?! That…makes 4?
no wonder she thinks Alf is advanced
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