Can anyone enlighten me as to why she had to sleep upright with Alf on her for the first 4 months? Obviously she had to get her massive melon in the photo as well. So she couldn’t have co slept in the C position as this is what she says she did and lay down?
Ashley James #18 A really brilliant mum (under investigation from Social Services)
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She SLEPT like that with Alf on her. On purpose. For months. Not remotely worried about SIDS then, that is incredibly unsafe sleeping practice for a tiny baby. Selfish callous bleep.
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This is literally the most dangerous thing I’ve ever seen. She could literally smother him with that big flopped out tit.
Why on earth would you post that on Instagram??
That poor kid, had a phone shoved in his face from day one. Going to be the exact same with thumbalina.
I fell asleep in an armchair chair with my baby on me once (not breastfeeding but cuddled up) I was just exhausted and totally sleep deprived and on my own as my husband was back at work. I was absolutely horrified, I only snoozed for a few minutes but he could have fallen sideways against the arm of the chair and suffocated had I been asleep enough to loosen my arm around him. That’s how it happens! Parents accidentally falling asleep on the sofa or a chair curled up with a newborn. So easily done. I have no idea why on earth she’d not only set out to fall asleep like that on purpose but document it to all her followers. She’s insane.
Is this supposed to be a woman traumatised after a difficult birth?!
After the birth of my babies, I couldn’t take my eyes off of them. I wanted to memorise every single inch of their beautiful squidgy faces.
Ashley, you are a true narcissist.
After the birth of my babies, I couldn’t take my eyes off of them. I wanted to memorise every single inch of their beautiful squidgy faces.
Ashley, you are a true narcissist.
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I can't even believe the audacity of that post birth post. Who was that even for? Fluttering her eyelashes after such trauma. Even normal childbirth sounds traumatic from all of your lovely (terrifying) stories.
Proves what we all know is that everything in her life is for the gram, and to make money.
Proves what we all know is that everything in her life is for the gram, and to make money.
I just can’t believe one person could be so obsessed with themselves. Look at her smug face on the “immediately after giving birth story”, as if to say, look how FUCKABLE I still am!!
Where are the wings of her massive maternity blood clot catchers or the congealed-with-blood pubes like every other bastarding person gets! Hateeee
Where are the wings of her massive maternity blood clot catchers or the congealed-with-blood pubes like every other bastarding person gets! Hateeee
To be fair, a lot of us here have had traumatic experiences! Don’t judge childbirth by us!
I think that’s what brought a lot of us here…
In fairness to her, those aren’t knickers. They are Always incontinence pants. Quite common for use postpartum. She’s pulled them down at the front to show off what’s left of her bump.
Guys…. If this is a tattler, don’t be a troll. Don’t sink to her level.
Although my birth was tough and I had an episiotomy, I still felt like it was a positive birth experience and I had great support and care from the midwives. So please don't be put off
Came on to say the same as all of you…what the actual f***! Make it make sense 
i had an episiotomy, foreceps and tore and could barely stand for days (I was sent home before blood results came back which meant they missed the fact I needed a transfusion) anyways it was awful. I remember it being agony each time I had to shuggle the the end of the bed to make a bottle cos of the next to me crib (milk didn’t come in thanks to not getting the transfusion quickly enough, not that I need to explain) I was in a post birth daze despite all the above not posing in the mirror. I’ve had a lot of therapy for what materialised in my mind after and ongoing physical treatment, but despite all this you are just so mesmerised about bringing a life into the world.
i had an episiotomy, foreceps and tore and could barely stand for days (I was sent home before blood results came back which meant they missed the fact I needed a transfusion) anyways it was awful. I remember it being agony each time I had to shuggle the the end of the bed to make a bottle cos of the next to me crib (milk didn’t come in thanks to not getting the transfusion quickly enough, not that I need to explain) I was in a post birth daze despite all the above not posing in the mirror. I’ve had a lot of therapy for what materialised in my mind after and ongoing physical treatment, but despite all this you are just so mesmerised about bringing a life into the world.Exactly! I had 2 blood transfusions, internally cut from the foreceps, and an episiotomy. The last thing i would have thought to do is take a video of myself. My mum had to help me shower, I could barely stand upCame on to say the same as all of you…what the actual f***! Make it make sense
If it wouldn’t out me, I would post a picture of me 18 hours after birth. Episiotomy and a 3rd degree tear, I was in agony. I couldn’t stand for 8 hours and then I had a catheter in situ. Nobody told me what had happened to me so I found out for myself in the shower the extent of my tear and how many stitches I had. Photos of me, half naked, flirting with myself in the mirror, after my genuinely traumatic birth. ZERO.
I actually think that the fact that this was Trashley’s first thought after birth would be considered a major red flag by most professionals.
I actually think that the fact that this was Trashley’s first thought after birth would be considered a major red flag by most professionals.
She’s a therapists dream. The fact she thinks SHE is the therapist just proves that!
Grade 3 tears are usually repaired in an operating theatre straight after birth or Am I wrong … can she not hear herself? Certain wouldnt be up taking pictures in yout matching underwear when everywhere from your vagina to your bum hole has been torn open. God give me strength
The more she rewrites history re the traumatic birth story the more i wonder is she going to go down a medical negligence route?
The more she rewrites history re the traumatic birth story the more i wonder is she going to go down a medical negligence route?
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She wouldn't have a case at all! ....( v close family is a medical negligence barrister and she wouldn't have a
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