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Genuine question so if your in need of funds from their foundation if there’s a kid sick with cancer how do you obtain help ?
 
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Genuine question so if your in need of funds from their foundation if there’s a kid sick with cancer how do you obtain help ?
True, we don’t really know to much about the foundation as yet, only that they want to help sick children, the website launches in about a month so hopefully it will be full of information and FAQ’s all I know at the moment is that it’s launched Ashley’s bike ride
 
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So you think that it is ok for anyone let alone strangers to profit from a dead baby ? I am taking it you are a friend of the couple since you are adamant your opinion is right? Like I said let’s agree to disagree👍Moving on now, thanks for your input and for setting me on the right path😘
This is the second time you have got the wrong end of the stick and attributed things to me which aren't true which is one of the reasons I couldn't care less about your silly little digs.
You're welcome ❤
 
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Out of all the Instagrammers whose lives have afforded them Influencer status, I begrudge Safiyya the least.
Some become known through sex tapes, because they are marketing masterminds, do TV shows etc. Others enter into the public eye through more tragic circumstances, and if this makes life a bit easier for the time being, as working 9 to 5 whilst grieving is bound to be difficult, and gives a bit of light or even structure then who I am to judge if it's taken with both hands?
 
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Out of all the Instagrammers whose lives have afforded them Influencer status, I begrudge Safiyya the least.
Some become known through sex tapes, because they are marketing masterminds, do TV shows etc. Others enter into the public eye through more tragic circumstances, and if this makes life a bit easier for the time being, as working 9 to 5 whilst grieving is bound to be difficult, and gives a bit of light or even structure then who I am to judge if it's taken with both hands?
Exploiting your child for a social media following isn’t ok. And it’s definitely not ok to do it while they’re dying

Exploiting your child for a social media following isn’t ok. And it’s definitely not ok to do it while they’re dying
Also these others that do this for reasons you have listed have consented to that, it was their choice to put themselves out there, she was a dying baby with no choice or say in the matter
 
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Did anyone else not find last nights antics really bizzare. Ashley arrived in newquay on the carpark literally meters away from the hotel saff was staying at and she was not there to greet him. Also the team went for a meal for his brothers birthday while she sat alone in a hotel lobby Instagram live chatting to strangers off her Instagram.
 
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Out of all the Instagrammers whose lives have afforded them Influencer status, I begrudge Safiyya the least.
Some become known through sex tapes, because they are marketing masterminds, do TV shows etc. Others enter into the public eye through more tragic circumstances, and if this makes life a bit easier for the time being, as working 9 to 5 whilst grieving is bound to be difficult, and gives a bit of light or even structure then who I am to judge if it's taken with both hands?
I wouldn’t even expect her to go to work full time this soon after loosing azalyia she’s at the beginning of her grief although there’s no end time, I know a single mum of 3 who lost her son she couldn’t work and ended up homeless she had to sell furniture and sleep on her friends floor nobody gave her a thing to build her life Back up so why is it that influencers get gifted all this tit when Joe public suffers as well
 
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I’m guessing the photo he posted of the two of them was to quieten the many messages he must of received last night asking why saff was staying meters away but not with them!
 
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I wouldn’t even expect her to go to work full time this soon after loosing azalyia she’s at the beginning of her grief although there’s no end time, I know a single mum of 3 who lost her son she couldn’t work and ended up homeless she had to sell furniture and sleep on her friends floor nobody gave her a thing to build her life Back up so why is it that influencers get gifted all this tit when Joe public suffers as well
That’s awful my heart breaks for her 💔 and this is exactly what I mean where was her support
 
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No matter how narcissistic they may come across I’m sure they’d rather have their daughter back, alive and healthy than a social media following. 🤷‍♀️

Social media can be an alternative reality and an escape for some people. It’s clearly a coping mechanism for Saf. I do agree that they both need professional and clinical help with their grief.
 
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No matter how narcissistic they may come across I’m sure they’d rather have their daughter back, alive and healthy than a social media following. 🤷‍♀️

Social media can be an alternative reality and an escape for some people. It’s clearly a coping mechanism for Saf. I do agree that they both need professional and clinical help with their grief.
I don’t disagree, of course they would rather their daughter back, what normal person wouldn’t? But you can see that it’s not healthy and isn’t helping with the grieving process, it’s also not really fair on Azaliya that they exploited her without her permission.. I understand she was a baby so they can’t get her permission, but they just shouldn’t of shared that deep into her life
 
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I wouldn’t even expect her to go to work full time this soon after loosing azalyia she’s at the beginning of her grief although there’s no end time, I know a single mum of 3 who lost her son she couldn’t work and ended up homeless she had to sell furniture and sleep on her friends floor nobody gave her a thing to build her life Back up so why is it that influencers get gifted all this tit when Joe public suffers as well
life is so bloody unfair.
The paragraph above is me speaking in the context of Influencer culture. I'm not even saying I agree with it as the whole thing is toxic but like I said, out of all the IGers I can think of off the top of my head, I begrudge Saf the very least. She deserves anything that makes her life bearable.
 
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That’s awful my heart breaks for her 💔 and this is exactly what I mean where was her support
There wasn’t any it took a friend going to a local paper after 5 months for her to be housed and a local charity helped furnish she didn’t know where to start as she was grieving & was just left
 
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I don’t disagree, of course they would rather their daughter back, what normal person wouldn’t? But you can see that it’s not healthy and isn’t helping with the grieving process, it’s also not really fair on Azaliya that they exploited her without her permission.. I understand she was a baby so they can’t get her permission, but they just shouldn’t of shared that deep into her life
Oh it’s definitely not healthy I 100% agree with that. However, if using social media is an escape and coping mechanism for the parents it’s not really anyone’s place to say what they should or shouldn’t be sharing. If someone’s uncomfortable with it, they should simply unfollow and block them so they don’t have to see it.

Sadly no baby or young child can give permission for their life to be documented on social media, or television.
 
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Oh it’s definitely not healthy I 100% agree with that. However, if using social media is an escape and coping mechanism for the parents it’s not really anyone’s place to say what they should or shouldn’t be sharing. If someone’s uncomfortable with it, they should simply unfollow and block them so they don’t have to see it.

Sadly no baby or young child can give permission for their life to be documented on social media, or television.
I agree no baby or child does, that’s why it’s so heartbreaking how common it is for these influencers to use their kids for views, or ads, like that’s all their child is worth

That’s not me saying that’s all baby A was worth, that’s just about influencers in general
 
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It is France I believe where parents can be fined or go to jail for sharing kids online. And when the kid is older they can sue them. I wonder how many children of influencers will sue their parents in years to come.
 
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It is France I believe where parents can be fined or go to jail for sharing kids online. And when the kid is older they can sue them. I wonder how many children of influencers will sue their parents in years to come.
Kids should not be online anywhere... I can imagine family instagram accounts are a paedophile's dream! Look at that PTWM, she pimps her kids out on insta all the time & I'm sure there are loads of other insta families that do the same! Even the unhinged fans, can track them down, follow kids home from school or whatever else. It's just not safe.
 
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