Jesus definitely would say that’s not appropriate on a children’s ward holy hell it would scare the crap out of most adults
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The amount raised will always show as the total it won’t decrease if money is withdrawn
Yeah that’s what I was getting at before - and that funeral/party would not have been cheap.
God this thread is disgusting, I can’t imagine navigating through the grief of losing a child and having people comment on how I should and shouldn’t be acting
Al I see is 2 devastated parents grieving in completely different ways, god love them. We have lost two teenagers in the last 6 months .. not my own children but those of very close friends ,and the impact it has had on us all as a community and as individuals is unbelievable...the grief is real, raw and no day is the same anymore. Never judge anyone. The loss of a child is beyond comprehension , it doesn't matter who you are.
I actually don’t find it disgusting nobody’s been nasty or vile to either of them, virtually all the posters on this thread are genuinely concerned for them all. Yes we might not agree on certain things they’ve done buts that out of respect for other grieving families.
There’s no reasoning with some people because again non of us are giving them any backlash for grieving it’s everything else
But the difference is you would likely be doing it privately with your friends and family. Be honest - would you post a picture of your dead child on Instagram? I know I wouldn’t.
No surely we didn’t need to see her bleeding from the eyes her dead yellow body, why would anyone need to see that.
And this is what we are all saying the tit show what they made Azaylias life and death to be, now Ashley living up his BMW and designer gear why do we really need to see that ?
For someone who has (his words) the shitest car on the forecourt ? Really he’s probably got the most expensive car in his area!
My biggest problem is not the go fund me it’s not how he’s grieving it’s the whole family partying at a grave and giving the little girl no bloody rest or anyone else respect!
It’s all pouting and posing for the gram not going to read her a bedtime story quietly
Sorry didn’t see your post from earlier!
Ok, so i've said it a few times but I lost my son at the end of last year.
His funeral took place in January and we had 30 people there (including us) then myself and my husband went back to my parents where we sat for the afternoon.
A few months later (when restrictions were still in place) this lot had their funeral and this absolute p*sstake happened.
There was no social distancing in the slightest. They had a PARTY for crying out loud.
The only photos I took on that day were of my babies coffin in the ground covered in roses and his funeral flowers.
It is so disrespectful of them to people like me AND to Azaylia to turn her day into a spectacle.
I don't understand how anyone can take photos like they did, dance like they did or drink like they did on that day.
His funeral took place in January and we had 30 people there (including us) then myself and my husband went back to my parents where we sat for the afternoon.
A few months later (when restrictions were still in place) this lot had their funeral and this absolute p*sstake happened.
There was no social distancing in the slightest. They had a PARTY for crying out loud.
The only photos I took on that day were of my babies coffin in the ground covered in roses and his funeral flowers.
It is so disrespectful of them to people like me AND to Azaylia to turn her day into a spectacle.
I don't understand how anyone can take photos like they did, dance like they did or drink like they did on that day.
Hope you and your family are coping as best you can.
Have you lost a child? If not then that’s probably why it baffles you that they have that “ tacky scene” if it helps them through the grieving process then what’s the problem?
I’m so so sorry for your loss sending love
It doesn’t matter to us but if you were someone else in that graveyard, you also were grieving, would you not be irritated if you used it for peace and reflection
I won’t be surprised if the council end up having to get involved when and if people start complaining because after awhile, people’s compassion will wear thin
Have you though?
My son could have had an adult grave but we wanted him to be with children so he is in the childrens area of a different cemetery.
We buy toys which we leave there but we don't all gather at once to upset/intimidate others mourning and we don't do elaborate displays everyday.
This new stage of people sharing loved ones last moments on social media is baffling to me. There is another woman on Instagram who is caring for her husband as he is near the end due to cancer. She updates every day (mostly pictures of herself i must say), writing in a very literary way almost as though she is in a novel and reposts other influences who encourage their followers to follow her- one of these so called influencers today put a story on asking us to follow this woman in the hope she gets a publishing deal! People grieve differently I get that. But is literally broadcasting someone's death okay? Especially when they are a baby who cannot give consent?
People grieve differently
Yes, some people grieve with no thought for anyone around them who are also grieving.
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