Ashley Cain

[Heretoread19]

People grieve differently

100% agree but do you not see how disrespectful this is to others in the cemetery when they have this big display happening and people turning up all day in their cars.
People want quiet and to reflect.

I'm sure the cemetery have had complaints. Someone complained to us once because we had our 3 year old with us and he wasn't being loud...

 

[Romeo1]

Judging Ashley on his past is ok. Listen he put himself out there with that persona for money but imo he is not that man today. I don't know him so he could be putting on nice guy for the gram but iv seen men change with age, also after kids, and then he has been through loosing a child. That alone moulds you into a diff person. He could make a complete pigs ear of this foundation. Money could be pissed away and he could be a dope and pay himself a huge wage. But what I can see it's a non profit which has very specific rules for wages etc and regulated. Imo his intentions is to keep his daughters name alive. So I'll allow the benefit of the doubt. Money for the funeral he said he was gonna, I don't know the rules on go fund me but I also remember he posted the funds are locked in till charity opened. I'm pretty sure that non profit have to have some public accounts. I'm not sure. I'll defo be checking to see. I hope the charity is a great success. The grave. If ppl in the cemetery are upset then they need to make complaints and rules made which everyone has to adhere to regardless. Everyone has there own style and taste. That is not for me but I can what kind of personality the family are. Loud etc. I'm sure if ppl don't want them Puttin this stuff on the grave and go to the relevant authority they will tone it down. . Sharing stuff on social media. This is the world we live in. It opened my eyes to the horror so many are living in I could have unfollowed iv a baby the same age myself but it made me more aware of what ppl are going through. Also making more of an effort to donate and also went on the register. If me feeling uncomfortable seeing it saves a life I'm ok with that. Some of the comments about them saying the rainbows and sky and all are nasty. Ppl always cling to something. It's human nature. Sure the whole premise of religion is believing something else is there for us. Anyways iv had enough Internet for one day now let's hope a good outcome comes from charity eh

 

[WeefBellington]

personally found this very disturbing

WTAF? I’m genuinely lost for words

 

[openbook1]

They put their dying baby on social media and she had no dignity. I am sure they found comfort in the community they formed but that doesn't mean I can't disagree with how they handled it. Sharing about childhood cancer is important. Sharing their baby bleeding from her eyes etc is grim and distasteful. That poor little soul did not get a say in what was shared online. The parties in her final days when she was being passed around were utterly bizarre too.

 

[Heretoread19]

Also, is it just me that feels like the majority of posts when she was in hospital or at home clearly very ill were of Ashley at the forefront?
Just didn't get it at all.

 

[That’sOk]

Also, is it just me that feels like the majority of posts when she was in hospital or at home clearly very ill were of Ashley at the forefront?
Just didn't get it at all.

Ashley at the forefront with his top off

 

[Mrsbumble]

Also, is it just me that feels like the majority of posts when she was in hospital or at home clearly very ill were of Ashley at the forefront?
Just didn't get it at all.

I’m pretty sure they both posted very similar amounts. Saf actually posted a lot more towards the end of Azaylias life than Ashley did. I’m also 95% certain that the bleeding from the eyes was mentioned by Saf on her stories when they were in the ambulance but Azaylia was covering her eyes, they never actually shown what was happening. This thread seems more of a vendetta against Ashley due to his past, him not comforting Saf in the way you think he should be and because of the just giving page which we don’t have any facts on. He said on Fearnes podcast that he is going to be doing lots of rigorous walks, bike rides etc to raise money for the charity which is why he is training a lot. As someone mentioned previously I think Ashley has changed a lot since his TV days, I think he wants to keep Azaylias name alive for the sake of the charity and is trying his best to do that.

 

[openbook1]

I’m pretty sure they both posted very similar amounts. Saf actually posted a lot more towards the end of Azaylias life than Ashley did. I’m also 95% certain that the bleeding from the eyes was mentioned by Saf on her stories when they were in the ambulance but Azaylia was covering her eyes, they never actually shown what was happening. This thread seems more of a vendetta against Ashley due to his past, him not comforting Saf in the way you think he should be and because of the just giving page which we don’t have any facts on. He said on Fearnes podcast that he is going to be doing lots of rigorous walks, bike rides etc to raise money for the charity which is why he is training a lot. As someone mentioned previously I think Ashley has changed a lot since his TV days, I think he wants to keep Azaylias name alive for the sake of the charity and is trying his best to do that.

They did show the bloody tears coming from her eyes.

 

[wishiniwasskinny]

I’m not here to comment on Ashley’s past behaviour as I had no idea who he was. I’m also not here to comment on the charity as I don’t know enough about it.
However, I found it absolutely bizarre that any parents first thought would be to pick up your phone and post these pictures and videos to Instagram when going through one of the most difficult times of your life. I have totally sympathy for them grieving their only child and can’t imagine how it feels. But I do feel they have become addicted to the social media fame generated by it.
Perhaps it’s a distraction. But I find it so so distasteful. I also don’t know how you could treat your daughters funeral as a photo op. I couldn’t follow them when it was happening as it made me so uncomfortable. And maybe I’m old fashioned but I believe some things are private and should be done with dignity. And perhaps social media generation is very different …. But I don’t understand it.

 

[noseynopinions]

I find it weird Saf seems desperate for z lister status off such horrible circumstances. The cheap product ads and her commenting on blue tick Insta accounts, even though she's not from that environment. It's just weird.

 

[nichew]

Saff’s brother Danny seems very supportive of her always taking her out more then Ashley does he just seems to exercise non stop I know it’s his way of coping. But I would of thought saffs mum would of been more supportive of her daughter but you never see her with them even at saffs birthday.

I don’t know any of them personall, but what I’ve seen of them I like them both, but I’m wondering ppl saying he looks vacant from her, I wonder if it’s something to do with only they actually know how they feel and he knows he can’t help make her feel better, because nothing and no one could make him feel better and that he’s at a loss. I don’t know if that make scence.

 

[Book]

I find it weird Saf seems desperate for z lister status off such horrible circumstances. The cheap product ads and her commenting on blue tick Insta accounts, even though she's not from that environment. It's just weird.

I think she probably always aspired to this but never reached the numbers. They were both not really known before their tragedy. Also I’m sure the blue tick is applied for once you reach a certain number of followers?which if this is the case who in the midst of all that heartache applied for hers ?

 

[openbook1]

I think she probably always aspired to this but never reached the numbers. They were both not really known before their tragedy. Also I’m sure the blue tick is applied for once you reach a certain number of followers?which if this is the case who in the midst of all that heartache applied for hers ?

Yes, you have to apply for it, like you said once you hit a certain amount of followers. So someone did it or she did.

 

[Book]

Yes, you have to apply for it, like you said once you hit a certain amount of followers. So someone did it or she did.

Which in the middle of all that devastation is just mind boggling to me. And clearly adds to the speculation of where this is all heading and why?

 

[Romeo1]

The blue tick is important esp when they were fund raising so ppl couldn't set up more fund raisers in her name. There was loads fake ash Cain Facebook pages with fundraisers

 

[Book]

The blue tick is important esp when they were fund raising so ppl couldn't set up more fund raisers in her name. There was loads fake ash Cain Facebook pages with fundraisers

And would that be the reason Saf now only interacts with blue tick accounts ?

 

[Romeo1]

And would that be the reason Saf now only interacts with blue tick accounts ?

No it just may be the reason why they had to get the verified account.

 

[LaurieLaurie]

Ashley has such a huge ego has anyone noticed how short he actually is and how small his feet are. He is odd looking but yet so in love with himself I don’t know why lol.

He used to have a sparkle about his eyes but it’s all gone now.

 

[Book]

No it just may be the reason why they had to get the verified account.

Oh ok thank you x

 

[QuirkyFlamingo]

I’m not here to comment on Ashley’s past behaviour as I had no idea who he was. I’m also not here to comment on the charity as I don’t know enough about it.
However, I found it absolutely bizarre that any parents first thought would be to pick up your phone and post these pictures and videos to Instagram when going through one of the most difficult times of your life. I have totally sympathy for them grieving their only child and can’t imagine how it feels. But I do feel they have become addicted to the social media fame generated by it.
Perhaps it’s a distraction. But I find it so so distasteful. I also don’t know how you could treat your daughters funeral as a photo op. I couldn’t follow them when it was happening as it made me so uncomfortable. And maybe I’m old fashioned but I believe some things are private and should be done with dignity. And perhaps social media generation is very different …. But I don’t understand it.

I couldn’t agree more. It just baffles me. Yes, take pictures of your child, especially when you know she won’t be around forever, but during emergency situations and when she’s suffering and, quite literally, dying? Why??
They clearly had a professional photographer at the funeral too, in the same way you would for a wedding. Again, why?? It’s just all for show, in my opinion, and further evidence that Ashley sees himself as some sort of celebrity whose everyone wants to be a part of. Delusions of grandeur.