How selfish of them to try find comfort in whatever brings it to them.
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At no point did I say it was selfish - just very odd. A bit like the tacky scenes at the grave. It’s baffling to me (and many others).
Nike also seems to bring a lot of comfort to Ashley doesn’t it.
This is exactly what I'm talking about, why does it bother you so much? I find it quite strange that other people get wound up about things that bring grieving people some comfort.
I totally understand where you are coming from! I never followed Ashley before Azaylia so I don't have an option on that, but i get why you would feel like that. I would probably feel the same.
But then we could also ask the question why are you bothered about what I think of them?
Edit - just to add, I sadly think Ashley is capitalising on his grief and not just for the sake of the charity/foundation they are setting up. There, said it.
Because ash in particular is not finding comfort, he is surprising his feelings, working himself into the ground so he doesn’t have to think about anything. That in itself worries me. I have lost a family member like this.
The grave for me doesn’t sit right. I’m sorry my opinion but surely cremating her and keeping her ashes, finding somewhere in the house or somewhere special to put them, where she can stay forever, a place where they can put as many balloons, gifts etc as they want. Not everyone wants to be with their passed loved ones with large garish balloons and decorations right next to them and not everyone can have a huge display like theirs either.
My friend’s little boy was five when he suddenly got an extremely aggressive cancer, he died within eight months of his diagnosis, was such a shock. He has such a beautiful grave, his favourite colour was yellow, so he has little yellow bows and other little things. Nothing like Azayalia’s. I get people grieve differently and everyone can grieve whatever way they choose but it’s a little bit too much for me. Remember my opinion and not everyone will agree.
My friend’s little boy was five when he suddenly got an extremely aggressive cancer, he died within eight months of his diagnosis, was such a shock. He has such a beautiful grave, his favourite colour was yellow, so he has little yellow bows and other little things. Nothing like Azayalia’s. I get people grieve differently and everyone can grieve whatever way they choose but it’s a little bit too much for me. Remember my opinion and not everyone will agree.
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Just wanted to reiterate the below for those who wonder why people think this sorry saga is bizarre and quiet frankly dodgy (and to justify my earlier point on Ashley capitalising on his grief)… this quote has been pulled directly from the go fund me page set up for people to donate to Azaylia’s treatment.
‘The amount of money needed for Azaylia’s potential treatment in Singapore was raised in just 24 hours. That money can sadly no longer be used to help Azaylia but we want to make sure it is used positively - and in Azaylia’s name.
After days of emotional yet careful consideration we have decided that, firstly, we would like to use some to give Azaylia a magical and deserving send off - something that we believe you would all want to be a part of. Secondly, we will use the remaining money to help other children through a new charity we are setting up in Azaylia’s name. She has guided us throughout this process and it only feels right that we continue to use the platform we built together to help those in similar situations.’
The ‘some’ he talked about resulted in this cav fest, look at me, clearly expensive (yet lacking any class) tit show of a funeral. Money that people donated was spent on balloons, orange ties, bespoke suits, doves, dj’s, booze and of course a throne like bench. It’s appalling. Some photos just to remind you that’s where a lot of hard working peoples money went. And I don’t feel bad for adding these as they are straight off their ig accounts.
‘The amount of money needed for Azaylia’s potential treatment in Singapore was raised in just 24 hours. That money can sadly no longer be used to help Azaylia but we want to make sure it is used positively - and in Azaylia’s name.
After days of emotional yet careful consideration we have decided that, firstly, we would like to use some to give Azaylia a magical and deserving send off - something that we believe you would all want to be a part of. Secondly, we will use the remaining money to help other children through a new charity we are setting up in Azaylia’s name. She has guided us throughout this process and it only feels right that we continue to use the platform we built together to help those in similar situations.’
The ‘some’ he talked about resulted in this cav fest, look at me, clearly expensive (yet lacking any class) tit show of a funeral. Money that people donated was spent on balloons, orange ties, bespoke suits, doves, dj’s, booze and of course a throne like bench. It’s appalling. Some photos just to remind you that’s where a lot of hard working peoples money went. And I don’t feel bad for adding these as they are straight off their ig accounts.
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Part of the concern we’ve raised here too, has been for other people who the Cains’ behaviour is impacting on. Music and parties in the cemetery being the main example - it’s downright disrespectful and inappropriate. By all means, party together and celebrate that little girl’s life, but do it elsewhere, where other families aren’t trying to grieve their own losses.
And this conversation was already had. Not one Penney is gone from the ho fund me as of yet
That we know of… how do we know they didn’t take out a loan that will be paid back with that money?
We don't but this is the speculation I'm speaking of. How do we know they won't put it all into the foundation and do great things. Crazy thread
Well he’ll be paid nicely when he’s CEO of the charity and can then repay the funeral costs
Well then why state they would use some of the money raised on the funeral. Those were his/their words.
But we don’t know it won’t, you can take what I’m saying as fact if that’s how you decide to take it. I’m just saying possible outcomes
He said it but then didn't. They is all I know
Genuine, non goady question but how do you know? Because on the go fund me site it says you can withdraw money without it affecting the progress meter displayed at the top of the page.
Can people stop attempting to police what is said on this thread. If you don’t like a comment just move on 🥱
Wholeheartedly agree if this is how the money for has been needlessly used funeral then that is not ok. It is also not a what was said initially how the money would be spent. Which then leads me to think can anyone set up a go fund me which itself takes a percentage of money realised and is in fact just a clever business. But then can they set up a fake go fund me so easily if you are so easily able to spend it on something other than what was stated In the beginning. If all of that which I’m sure children’s funerals are government funded anyway? But if that was indeed all taken from the fund to save children then that is absolutely gross. And absolutely typical of the disgusting world of outdoing each other in the narcissistic world of Instagram.At this point the only thing that would prove where the money is, has,and will be used is receipts. Hopefully a full run down of this will be made as public as everything else has been.
What. The. Actual. duck?
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