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I feel they are both so lost and its awful they haven't been offered bereavement counselling, it would help them so much!
I’m sure they could afford private bereavement counselling if if they truly have not been offered any. They may not want it as Saf has said she doesn’t want help from doctors they both seem to be relying on the exercise instead
A few things I have thought recently:
- they don’t seem to have accepted the poor little girl is dead. I get they want to keep her memory alive, but people saying things like ‘she’ll only turn one once’ in response to the absolutely distasteful cemetery party are likely not helping. She didn’t turn one,yes it was her birthday, but she didn’t turn one.You’ll never be able to grieve properly if you don’t accept the person is dead. Not saying it’s easy, of course it isn’t.
- the cemetery party - no, just no. Have some bleeping respect for the families also grieving their loved ones. Plus, it’s just bizarre, let’s be honest.
- the fact that they posted so much on social media obviously got a lot of attention but I am baffled by the amounts donated by people and how strangers are so over the top about the little girl. The sad truth is, babies die every day. It is awful. Parents all over the world are dealing with terrible things that will break them, change their lives forever, tear them apart in some cases. Far better to donate to charities doing actual research into child diseases rather than one being set up by someone with absolutely no experience in this field and who seems to be taking the opportunity to use every meeting as a posing opportunity. It’s madness. The other thing about it is that, very sadly, people will forget. Not her family or their friends obviously, but people on ig etc. The cash donations will stop at some point, it’s just how it is. Life goes on for everyone else, people just stop caring about people they don’t know.
the whole sorry journey of that little girls death is horrific, sadly though, they are now just turning it into a carnival.
as for the comment on this post - presumably the bench wasn’t painted orange to commemorate the death of Azalyia, it was just an orange bench. What next, see the oranges in the supermarket and decide azalyia is there too? bleeping hell.
- they don’t seem to have accepted the poor little girl is dead. I get they want to keep her memory alive, but people saying things like ‘she’ll only turn one once’ in response to the absolutely distasteful cemetery party are likely not helping. She didn’t turn one,yes it was her birthday, but she didn’t turn one.You’ll never be able to grieve properly if you don’t accept the person is dead. Not saying it’s easy, of course it isn’t.
- the cemetery party - no, just no. Have some bleeping respect for the families also grieving their loved ones. Plus, it’s just bizarre, let’s be honest.
- the fact that they posted so much on social media obviously got a lot of attention but I am baffled by the amounts donated by people and how strangers are so over the top about the little girl. The sad truth is, babies die every day. It is awful. Parents all over the world are dealing with terrible things that will break them, change their lives forever, tear them apart in some cases. Far better to donate to charities doing actual research into child diseases rather than one being set up by someone with absolutely no experience in this field and who seems to be taking the opportunity to use every meeting as a posing opportunity. It’s madness. The other thing about it is that, very sadly, people will forget. Not her family or their friends obviously, but people on ig etc. The cash donations will stop at some point, it’s just how it is. Life goes on for everyone else, people just stop caring about people they don’t know.
the whole sorry journey of that little girls death is horrific, sadly though, they are now just turning it into a carnival.
as for the comment on this post - presumably the bench wasn’t painted orange to commemorate the death of Azalyia, it was just an orange bench. What next, see the oranges in the supermarket and decide azalyia is there too? bleeping hell.
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I can imagine they will be annoyed that the plot next to Azaylia has been taken as its only a small gap between them now and that's where they would park their camping chairs
Bereavement counselling often has to start a certain point after a loss and they might not have been assessed as being ready for it. Counselling is brutal and hard work and doing it too soon can make things work especially in this kind of situation. What they need is support, from one another and access to professional help at the right time (which to be honest none of us will know when that is or if it’s already happening). There are lots of bereavement charities out there and I’m sure they’ve not been left out in the cold, they just might not be ready for the intensity of counselling
The post on her mums fb with all the pictures of azaylia on oxygen and the paramedics through the ring door bell is awful, that shouldn’t be online for all to See
My heart breaks for Saf, her eyes speak volumes. You can see how broken and empty she is without her baby. As a mother to a mother, its ok to grieve, its ok to cry and scream, its ok to feel pain. But dont do things to please others because thats what you think you have to do. Do what YOU need to do.
Ashley on the otherhand, I do feel for him loosing his daughter, but theres just something about him thats quite manipulative but i cant put my finger on it. He is someone i wouldnt put my trust into.
Azaylias grave, what the heck! Its a bloody shrine! Have some decorum, there are other grieving families that go visit loved ones!
Ashley on the otherhand, I do feel for him loosing his daughter, but theres just something about him thats quite manipulative but i cant put my finger on it. He is someone i wouldnt put my trust into.
Azaylias grave, what the heck! Its a bloody shrine! Have some decorum, there are other grieving families that go visit loved ones!
Just looked at safs moms Facebook. What the actual duck?!!!
Yes I do. She is clearly calling out the lies with the video. Begs the question why the babies parents would of been anywhere but at home with there baby, when she was quite clearly very ill in the first instance.
Oh gosh just seen the pictures on her Mums IG 
Just don’t think it’s appropriate and could be quite triggering for all involved.
Just don’t think it’s appropriate and could be quite triggering for all involved.
What is the mums IG or Facebook?
The mums posts are so obvious they’ve fallen out and so obvious a lot of it is to do with Ashley. I know she’s hurting, she’s lost her granddaughter but splashing a rift all over social media is hard to come back from. Very sad
It’s all over both. Instagram is perhaps slightly more horrific.
whst is her Instagram name?
I had a look at Facebook and there didn't seem to be much on there apart from a post about taking her granddaughter to hospital.
Was that the first medical involvement or was she already ill by that point?
Apart from that there are a couple of posts about narcissistic personality disorder and then several raising awareness type posts, for a variety of things. There doesn't seem to be anything too bad though. What am I missing? I don't have an Instagram account so I can't look at that.
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Those photographs are awful though, and aren’t really for public consumption, surely? A bit of respect and dignity for that poor little girl would t go amiss! The Instagram is definitely worse, even showing the next grave being dug out.
None of it sits right with me.
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Just wondering is it any different than showing the poor girl bleeding from her eyes? Not defending it but if it helps another parent identify what could be Leukeamia in future it might save a life.
I definitely think she could achieve the same level of awareness without so many intrusive photos. Just one or two skin close ups maybe, not the ones that show her face.
Thinking about it, if they were in hospital having unexpected, emergency treatment, why was she taking them in the first place? Although I suppose it could have been to send to her daughter to let her see what was going on. It just seems a lot of photos of what would have been a really intense thing, a time when most wouldn't even think about taking photographs.
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