Ashley Cain

[sharnijade]

Imagine selling bits of items in memory of someone else's dead child, to profit from and keeping all proceeds to yourself. I get that we all have mouths to feed and bills to pay but I believe there is a special place in hell for people that profit from the dead!

I completely agree with this, I got kicked off the group before it was shut down saying how weird it was and people have her named tattooed, I would be fuming if a random person had my child’s name on them. I’m sorry to sound like a bitch but if Ashley Cain wasn’t her dad half these people wouldn’t be bothered about her dying like they ain’t the other 1000s of children dying of cancer daily. In my opinion people have just jumped on the clout, she’s gonna be another Charlie Guard, Alfie etc. Soon unfortunately another child will come along and Azaliya will just be another child who’s passed on the list

 

[GobShyte64]

She drove them down there?!

She did all the driving yesterday while Ash sat in the back looking at himself in the camera posting stories on insta.

She’s looking for a (free?) spa today. All she seems to do is pamper.

When you’re asking people to donate to your charity and then wanting to go to a spa it’s a bit.. hmmm

I think after driving Ash round all day yesterday, she deserves a bit of me time. Poor girl cant catch a break.

 

[QuirkyFlamingo]

I get really aggressive vibes from him. Doesn’t come across as a nice man at all.
And what was all that about buying souvenirs from Bath to go on A’s grave? Just bizarre.

 

[Fayser]

Shocked how heartless some of you are. They haven’t used any of the money you can clearly see it’s still in the go fund me. Ashlie posted a few weeks ago saying every penny is going to charity. Criticising someone for setting up a charity in ho lie of their dead baby is pretty low. He may not have experience but he has a high profile and contacts hence why he was able to raise the money so quickly. Why shouldn’t other children with cancer benefit from this money. It’s his way of coping and would you begrudge him that. Honestly shocked at these comments.

 

[openbook1]

I know Ashley & Saf are a bit of a touchy subject after what they have been through & I wouldn’t wish it on anyone, I may be in the minority here but I just wish they would both take a break away from social media, I know we only see a snippet of their lives but they really need to step away & grieve alone for a while, I feel Ashley is on the verge of a breakdown I know exercise is good for the Mind but he actually worries me that he doesn’t rest, it would be good to see them go away as a couple, I know they are starting The charity which is fantastic that Azalyias legacy will live on.
I will probably get slaughtered for saying this but I think the party in the cemetery tonight was a bit much it really isn’t the place for something like this I found it quite disrespectful towards the surroundings. Saf is looking more fragile and lost, it’s such a weird one as I cringe when she asks where she can get things from & recommendations on her stories when she knows she’s going to get gifted something
Sorry I’m really going on I just needed to get a few things off my chest ! I really do like the both of them and like I said I just think they need to step away & grieve

The whole situation is so sad. They look so broken. I remember there was a thread on here a while back before Azalyia passed away. I commented saying that I thought it was not appropriate to share videos of her dying on Instagram and got a lot of criticism for sharing that. I still stand by it. I can't believe people followed that account to watch a little baby slowly die. So bizarre actually.

 

[katty257]

Regardless where Ash and Saf where when Safs mother called the ambulance doesn’t make them bad parents and they shouldn’t be made to feel like that by her mums friends that’s absolutely disgusting do they not think that guilt eats them up inside every single day already,do they not think the pain of loosing their little girl is already to much to bear without ignorant supposed family and close friends and her own mother acting like this is disgraceful,poor Saf a lot of people wouldn’t be able to carry on with the pain of loosing their child and then the added pain of her family doing this would be to much to bear her mother needs to stop before she may cause her daughter to do something tragic.They had already had various medical opinions on what was up with their daughter prior to that day and was told it was colic so I’m guessing they where encouraged to have a day away and treat and then whilst they was there she started to develop bruising which her Nan discovered.Safs mum really seems to want recognition and praise and seeks attention it’s disgusting she should be there for her daughter.

 

[Hollybush]

Just more and more tacky merchandise

Makes me sad that poor little girl is being turned into a brand. Exploited in life and in death

 

[openbook1]

At this point these two seem like nothing more than fame hungry bints. Sorry. I do not see them posting about childhood cancer, what to watch for advocating for research etc. The suitcases are awful.

 

[Noonoosanne2]

Very weird! I noticed on Ashley’s story earlier he mentioned “We” when talking about his brother and him but then said my daughter when talking about Azaylia no mention of our daughter or Saf it’s all him it’s actually becoming more painful to watch Saf become non existent in his life

I just don’t feel comfortable seeing this beautiful girls face used on peoples accounts and using her name it’s not right

 

[Christmascupcake90]

Exact same situation as TheNurseMum Kaytee. If this thread is allowed I’m hoping someone will restart one for her as I can’t?
Disrespectful to other grieving parents the way Ashley/Saf & Kaytee are by the graves and the GoFundMe pages need keeping an eye on

They had fireworks at jaxons grave the other night. Dreadfully disrespectful. Having fireworks for a passed relatives birthday is fine but not at a graveside!!! She has a garden or they could have used a park!!

 

[Noonoosanne2]

God this thread is disgusting, I can’t imagine navigating through the grief of losing a child and having people comment on how I should and shouldn’t be acting

I actually don’t find it disgusting nobody’s been nasty or vile to either of them, virtually all the posters on this thread are genuinely concerned for them all. Yes we might not agree on certain things they’ve done buts that out of respect for other grieving families.

 

[openbook1]

They put their dying baby on social media and she had no dignity. I am sure they found comfort in the community they formed but that doesn't mean I can't disagree with how they handled it. Sharing about childhood cancer is important. Sharing their baby bleeding from her eyes etc is grim and distasteful. That poor little soul did not get a say in what was shared online. The parties in her final days when she was being passed around were utterly bizarre too.

 

[AreYouJoking?]

Did anyone see THENURSEMUM had a chippy tea and picnic at J’s grave?.
Imagine being there to pay your own respects to a family member and seeing that going on.
And the post box is still there even after the birthday tidy up. For ‘donations’ clearly.
Also for those who know her ‘story’ this poor woman had no one. No friends no family. Yet now we see her constantly surrounded by these people, even hiring a gazebo for his birthday and a firework display. Both of which had a good number of guests attending. The loneliness was all an act.
It’s unpleasant watching the keeping up with the ‘cains’ behaviour.

 

[chocdip]

But the difference is you would likely be doing it privately with your friends and family. Be honest - would you post a picture of your dead child on Instagram? I know I wouldn’t.

No surely we didn’t need to see her bleeding from the eyes her dead yellow body, why would anyone need to see that.

And this is what we are all saying the shit show what they made Azaylias life and death to be, now Ashley living up his BMW and designer gear why do we really need to see that ?

For someone who has (his words) the shitest car on the forecourt ? Really he’s probably got the most expensive car in his area!

My biggest problem is not the go fund me it’s not how he’s grieving it’s the whole family partying at a grave and giving the little girl no bloody rest or anyone else respect!
It’s all pouting and posing for the gram not going to read her a bedtime story quietly

 

[Romeo1]

Seen this on Facebook group.

What kind of person let alone mother would try drag her daughter down when her baby has died.

 

[Kazzie20]

I am also in the small minority of people who had to unfollow on social media. I have never lost a child, im not sure how id carry on If I did. Personally, wether Id lost a child or not, a lot of it didnt sit right with me, they both literally posted a picture of them holding a dead baby. that made me feel really uneasy, and its something I don’t personally agree with when people post dead babies on social media.
Ashley is dead. you can just see it right thru him. Poor Saff, a grieving mother who is grieving very differently from her partner. Mum to Mum, I wish I could give her a hug.

Her mother should be absolutely ashamed of herself. you dont do that to your grandchild, especially one who was quite clearly in her final days.

 

[lockdown sux]

Ultimately it doesht matter who called the ambulance luckily someone did. End of. It’s so petty all them saying who did what.

 

[GOSS21]

The more i watch saf the more my blood boils, shes so blatant lookin for freebies it makes me sick! And its all on the back of her poor baby really annoying everyday with the bullshit it still blows my mind how they are funding their life cos they aint workin & havnt in so long? But u can stand there in new louis vuitton sliders? Da fuck? I thought they were broke, sold stuff etc to get by when Azaylia was in hospital, so wheres this pot of gold comin from? Cos people not workin, on welfare/benifits can barely scrape by, but these 2 are floatin about well funded? Surely if things are gifted things or do sponsored posts (which i havnt seen) they would say it? Sumtin dodgy goin on!

 

[Njrog19]

Also, not sure whether Instagram followers are people set out in order of how recently a person was followed, but if they are then the amount of models etc ashleys followed in the space of time with all this going on must make her feel like absolute shit

I find this so gross as he also follows lots of Azaylia accounts. Just imagine his timeline….tributes to his daughter mixed in with scantily clad models he doesn’t even know…..sorry but this is just grim

 

[Peakyblinders]

I agree with so much & i could be repeating what some of you have said already, but i have to get this off my chest! I didnt see the live, but i saw safs stories & my God its hard to watch at this stage how ash treats her its horrible The body language says it all! The distance, the face on him when he looks at her/camera, never any affection or love shown. I know hes broken aswel as saf, but its obvious she loves him & would do anything for him. Shes showing up supporting all he does & she talks about him- which is normal in a relationship- but him?! He only mentions saf if its beneficial to him or the charity etc... He never even hugs her or smiles, gives her a kiss NOTHING its heartbreaking to see. He needs to remember- saf carried, gave birth to Azaylia, shes her mother & his partner for years! SHE should be the most important thing in his life & his priority! Its just so uncomfortable to see the poor girl being treated like dirt i know that sounds harsh but its blatantly obvious. Like could u imagine if ash came behind saf & gave her a hug, kiss & smiled at her wen she was filming? It would make her day! For all the effort he puts into sports etc how much effort would it take to make saf feel loved & happy? A minute outa ur day! And she deserves it so much & she needs it from him! I hate the beggy shit but God love her, all she wants is him to show her love & affection which she deserves. And look how loving he was with Azaylia-rightly so, but why wont he love her amazing mother like that? He should be strong for SAF & support & help her, not just the charity.

I totally agree with this! I just came on here to say it made me really sad to see when saf was filming him all smiley and happy and saying how proud she was of him and he literally looks like he has the ICK like he can’t even bear to look at her let alone be affectionate. And she’s just posted a video with herbrother (again) and ash has arrived at Newquay but he’s miles away from her like he can’t bear to be near her. I genuinely don’t think she realises I really think she is oblivious. Although I hate to say it reminds me kind of how my own partner is with me. A few of my friends have picked up on the fact that when I am doing videos while we’re out etc he is just sat on his phone ignoring me etc. And I found a video the other day where I am filming us both and I’m smiley and happy and he does a fake smile for the camera and then goes dead straight faced and looks away. Thinking of and looking and saf and Ashley it just makes me think god, is this me?! Is everyone laughing at me and feeling the same about me!