Yes good and bad days but also HRT helped as well strangely enough, I’m virtually off anti depressants now but don’t regret going on them
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Totally agree.
Mourn and grieve as much as you like, but in private. If we all did whatever we liked when faced with tragedy, society would collapse.
Good for you. We are all different and have to do what’s right for us.
You know you are spot on here , I’ve never really thought about it like that, so people say leave them alone they are grieving when the party on the grave was mentioned, yet if they went out smashed a few cars or punched someone out of anger ( hypothetically speaking ) these could be excused due to grief.
I dont think mourning needs to be done in private. That seems a very outdated/stiff upper lip approach
Maybe not in private, but it definitely needs to be done respectfully and throwing a party like they did when Azaliya is not the only person laid to rest there, it’s not ok
They've got every right to grieve in whatever way they want. But other visitors the cemetery also have the right to visit loved ones graves without seeing 50 people drinking beer, instagramming, and dancing to All night long by Lionel richie.
I don’t know how they’ve got away with the flamboyance of her grave and the celebrations held alongside it. The cemetery where my dad is buried have removed Christmas trees and pergolas for example. It’s also locked up at set times during the seasons. I cannot begin to imagine the pain they feel but if I went to visit my dad and someone was practically having a party at the cemetery i would have to leave
The time will come where they’ll be told or forced to strip it back. Might not be for a little while yet but here we are
I’ve just watched their interview on the foundation page and it’s emotional what it’s also made me think looking back at the videos played is that these two people actually didn’t get a chance to parent together properly most of their time was spent apart, parenting apart in hospital I think they’ve actually lost how to spend time together and be a couple it’s all been forgotten so grieving together isn’t happening when they are so used to dealing with things apart
I think she probably was
Because Az was so young when diagnosed with cancer, does that mean she was likely born with it??
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I'm sure I remember saf saying that the drs had said she wasn't born with it
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I'm sure I remember saf saying that the drs had said she wasn't born with it
Was just going to say this. I’m a nobody I’ve been on Lorraine and gmtv as it used to be, a few times and every time they pay for all travel and hotel
You said what im thinking tbh!
Poor saf having such a big emotional day and Ash is starting his epic bike ride tomorrow so will likely be on her own for the next 2 weeks or so 
Yeah I'd agree!
I guess it’s being allowed for the time being but I think you’re right
The sad thing is though, if she was just a “normal” baby who died of cancer, where her life and death wasn’t so public, would it still be allowed even for the time being?
One thing that really got to me was when some female relatives were holding A and they were dancing and singing. Saffy touched her foot and she immediately pulled it away. It broke my heart because it was as if she really wanted to be left alone as she was clearly starting to fade
I personally felt it was all a bit much in her final days. I understand it wasnt just Saf and Ash losing her, but there must of been times Saf just wanted to be with her daughter without her being passed around like a prop
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